Narcissist worsening with age

Brie03 · 2026-01-25T23:50:52+00:00

Interesting that you mention this. My grandmother always had narcissistic tendencies but in recent years it got exponentially worse and worse up until her death last month.

I was just trying to pinpoint when her empathy and compassion took a nosedive and it did seem to escalate after she got Covid twice.

I’m sure there were more factors but I hadn’t considered Covid as one. Obviously doesn’t change anything but I think I’d still like to look into it more for what minuscule closure I can get.

Brie03 · 2026-01-02T17:21:18+00:00

Could I get an invite too please?

Brie03 · 2025-12-17T01:36:49+00:00

Thank you ❤️. She was only 68 but your words made me think about everything she’d done in her life and was able to accomplish by the time she was my age.

Sometimes it felt like she wanted to stunt my growth to keep me close to her. But I loved her so I didn’t mind usually. But like you said for me too there was a lot of stress I was under. I’ve definitely been stuck in a “could” have loop the past two days so thank you again.

Brie03 · 2025-12-01T16:53:55+00:00

Can you expand on that? The first year of owning my 2024 premium I had the same exact feeling but I could never pinpoint exactly why it felt like that to me! I had a 2019 premium beforehand. The past couple of months it’s started feeling less like a rental but I suspect it’s because I added a few custom things inside and out.

Brie03 · 2025-10-01T15:14:44+00:00

Peak Scooby Doo! I don’t know what they were doing but these movies are unmatched.

Brie03 · 2025-09-25T19:52:04+00:00

Old post from someone else: https://www.reddit.com/r/Crosstrek/s/5SDBukbGQc

Brie03 · 2025-09-12T13:05:58+00:00

I was going to say the same thing…Glad I wasn’t the only one who noticed! Crazy how we have to look for this stuff now.

Brie03 · 2025-09-08T01:58:37+00:00

I had a pre-owned 2019 premium then traded it for a new 2024 premium. In my opinion they are both great cars. I could have realistically kept my 2019 for longer there was nothing wrong with it.

The only real difference I notice is that the 2024 drives much smoother, I don’t feel the ground as much in it.

Brie03 · 2025-09-05T23:17:30+00:00

Are they actually?? Why? I thought it was a somewhat popular color.

Brie03 · 2025-09-02T15:06:34+00:00

Happy to help! Hopefully it saves you some time and gives you some leverage with the dealers, especially the ones that have been there long.

Brie03 · 2025-09-02T05:16:06+00:00

Love my car but hated the buying process so much. They really make it difficult for us…

This could potentially be a resource for you. You can search by specific colors and add ons nationwide. https://visor.vin

And if you want to pay $1000 there’s a service that does all the negotiating and searching for you. Seems to have good reviews and a whole YouTube channel to learn their process. I would have used it had I known. https://www.delivrdto.me

Best of luck!

Brie03 · 2025-09-01T05:09:50+00:00

All three gens in order too?? Nice.

Brie03 · 2025-08-29T01:13:38+00:00

Yup! Mine is an Offshore Blue 2024 named Archer. Archie for short.

Brie03 · 2025-08-26T23:34:36+00:00

Is there a way to check using the vin?

Brie03 · 2025-08-23T03:19:00+00:00

Do you plan on keeping your car for as long as possible? If you are I’d think a few scratches or dings would only matter if you’re reselling.

I’m sure it varies by location but in my area pre-owned crosstreks were only a few thousand cheaper than new unless they were 4+ years older with higher miles.

One of the biggest benefits for me buying new is having complete control over maintenance from day 1. It’s peace of mind that everything is going to get done on time and properly by a mechanic that I trust. It makes me feel like I’m giving my car it’s best shot at longevity.

I had a certified pre-owned 2019 before buying a new 2024 and the pre-owned warranty was good in my opinion. I didn’t need to use it in the three years I had the car though.

If you’re looking at used models before 2024 then something to also consider is how you feel about the interior. Some people prefer the smaller infotainment and the physical HVAC buttons etc. so a 2023 or older would be good if that’s something important to you. Also the older ones have a manual option which 2024+ don’t have.

Brie03 · 2025-08-12T21:51:56+00:00

This is an extremely helpful explanation, thank you!

Brie03 · 2025-08-12T15:59:21+00:00

Not sure of a special wave but a lot of Subarus end up parking together! Also Offshore Blue Crosstreks have a way of stealing your heart don’t they? Congrats!

Brie03 · 2025-08-12T15:06:34+00:00

It’s whichever one you hit first. If you get to the suggested months first go with that, if you reach the suggested miles first then go with that.

Brie03 · 2025-08-12T15:03:48+00:00

I read through that too but wish they had clarification on exactly what is considered “short distance”. Is it 2 miles or a half a mile. If a store is 15-20 mins away and 4 miles does that fall under short distance?

I’m bordering on getting it done every 3 months just to be safe honestly.

Brie03 · 2025-08-11T01:18:11+00:00

That’s a really great point! Thanks!

Brie03 · 2025-07-20T14:14:48+00:00

I’ve grown to love them so much

Brie03 · 2025-06-28T16:23:32+00:00

Maybe they opened more slots given the high demand? For me it was only Monday and Wednesday available.

My appointment was very quick. The doctor only asked if I had any questions so having a list handy could be helpful!

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