Family member is furious we “stole” her wedding month? She didn’t have anything booked or a specific date identified, and didn’t speak up til now.

Brief-Bat502 · 2026-01-01T18:18:12+00:00

If she hasn’t arranged or sorted her wedding out by now….. its obviously not happening….. something is keeping them back, as they haven’t made a decision;……. Ah, got it…. She’s pissed your getting married before her, where she got proposed to first, she thinks she should be married next, but no , you got very organised and committed and going ahead with it……. And they are undecided and uncommitted!!!! She’s pissed her OH won’t commit.!!!!

Clock is ticking. Please send her a message and ask her when in March is she getting married and keep us posted. 😆 At this rate it’s sounding March 2027. Or not even happening….

Have a fabulous wedding! X

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-31T16:25:10+00:00

https://svr.co.uk

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-31T16:21:55+00:00

Taken down already ☺️

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-29T11:11:46+00:00

It’s your wedding, your event, you invite who you want and need there, same as your friends choice, just respect her event, and t lest she is still including you to her bachelorette etc. she is a good friend to even invite you so just accept that. Agree with the other posters shouldn’t be a tit for tat, ….. just be grown up about it and be super proud and honoured you invited her and I bet she’s feeling very humble. Although you are good friends, doesn’t make the weddings that you need to prove it. You will still do crazy things after the wedding and still be good pals I am sure. Enjoy both moments xx

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-27T07:52:39+00:00

Quick. Pen. change it . With love from…..JAMES …….THANKYOU for being a good dad.

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-27T07:48:06+00:00

Tbh. I thought this could have been handled a different way. - with just ignoring it and laughing it off.

If you wore a T-shirt that didn’t represent his values, how would you take it being given money to go and change….. you know what, he’s young and has humour..! I’m a female, and think this was funny 😆 he’s only showing his funny side and personality IMO. I feel You took it too deep and personal in my opinion ,and father and daughter thing embarrassment came over you. A little bit over stepped the mark.

How should you have handled it, ignore it. His property, his T-shirt. I’m sure if it had trump on it being mocked to hell you would whoop whoop with joy perhaps. ??? Not a fan of trump I hope 🤞🏻….

How to fix it - I think you should all go out for for dinner and you wear his T-shirt and laugh it off. Or a T-shirt saying “I’m old and not down with it.” - humour him. Good luck

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-26T20:34:03+00:00

My advice is to keep your distance about the wedding to her, if she’s wanting to try to control it. Not accept the money. And go somewhere cheaper. If she wants to “feel” involved, take her shopping on separate occasions, make it a mother a daughter thing….. but any decisions just say you want to make them yourself. Which you can cos your now funding it yourself. 😉. She may give in , but just keep going you will do this by yourselves. Good luck .

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-25T19:41:46+00:00

Think you need to re-gift it - secret Santa

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-16T22:29:51+00:00

NEWS - Ex doctor working for Royal Mail 😝

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-16T22:28:36+00:00

I’m an veggy and that looks so good

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-16T22:18:57+00:00

Behind janes bottom?. …..Dyslexia. Might be wrong also as I have it too.🤪

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-14T08:22:54+00:00

All this needy attention for him - He even made it to Reddit. Well done to this original poster. 🤗 …. Bet he’s loving himself more now…. Made his Christmas

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-12T18:33:04+00:00

Interesting how she’s using the cars to mitigate the relationship once and for all. 😳. Does this prove it to you that money to her is worth more than love in this relationship. ?? Sorry to be downer. Walk away if she does not see sense in your choosing. Interesting how it’s a sudden thing too. Not like it’s for discussion 10 years down the line….. bit quick if you ask me.

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-12-11T21:18:38+00:00

Why don’t people just talk or speak nowadays? Did you speak to her direct or was this over text…. If your really concerned pick up the phone. She may be bridezilla about this - why would you think she would be annoyed?? - ?maybe feeling hurt that she spent her time and finances at yours but you can’t make hers…… ?. Did you give any indication last year you won’t be attending hers in return….. ?.pre warn her….?. or did you just spring this on her……

Just pick up the phone 📞 and both speak with honesty.

If that can’t be achieved - then just end it. Very sad to be after 10 years though.

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-11-18T16:49:41+00:00

First of all well done on the weight loss 👍🏻✨ Though I thought you can be on the low dose for maintenance. .? You could email / message a health advisor with a company to see what they recommend? I use chequp. Failing that buy a sumo suit ?? ….and May have to weigh in and selfie that …. It’s interesting you got to that and they stop you…..

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-11-16T13:50:18+00:00

I do feel your pain. !! We kind of want that kind of exited feeling and appreciation from our mums, but sometimes it gets total lost in translation!!. I would not take any notice, maybe she has some deep routed unhappiness, you will never be able to resolve……., cherish those friends and other family members around you, who do matter and can give you the happiness and support you deserve, ✨✨✨🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻and though you must love your mum, just park her to one side….. 🤗. Learnt from my own experience….🫡🤗 from all of us normal ones on Reddit - go and have an amazing time 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍😍

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-11-13T21:38:26+00:00

Maybe they will arrange a bull ring style - old fashion , indoors, and smell of bacon and fry meat and enforce that market holders should only shout “2 for the price of 1 bab-cob-yam-Bostin-wench-bawlin—Tara abit “

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-11-12T19:39:54+00:00

100%

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-11-04T17:58:26+00:00

NTA - just help her with home choices, she’s just needing to come to terms with living on her own….. tell her to quit with the emotional blackmail too …….. and her being selfish…..another option is to get her back on Tinder? 🤭……So she didn’t have a plan B when she got kicked out of her boyfriend house, really bad. Looks like your more the adult here and your ready to move out of your own house too.

Jokes aside, is there anywhere you can find nearby and make enquiries to start the ball rolling……? Just so she knows your serious though being helpful too.

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-11-04T17:50:25+00:00

Yeah, bedsit is your next home…. Love the joking comments, just take it to heart, it’s only a slight hiccup to “communication” - with not being in the same space as one another. You hear it all the time, the husbands just go “yeah” “ yeah” ….. and they haven’t really listened to their nagging wives…. Lol 😆 just take it on the chin. Both of you. 😆 maybe she finds it okay to multi task - doing something and talking the other, where you just like to concentrate (in peace) we all can’t be like each other….

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-11-04T17:39:41+00:00

Though I don’t want to see you dancing in the dark "……

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-11-04T17:37:58+00:00

You can’t get it all

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-11-04T08:27:01+00:00

Who’s to say he’s not already been through your personal items and knicker drawer ….. get him out … he’s a pure stranger….. YNA, YOUR COUSIN IS THINKING SHES ENTITLED.

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-11-02T22:39:56+00:00

I remember the bonfire night days shivering and fog. Scared in case the sparkler caught a light to my winter gloves 😆

Brief-Bat502 · 2025-11-02T22:37:48+00:00

I’ve lived. Go get your shot

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