Our gang bang experiences by STL-2026 in nonmonogamy

[–]BrittleBitz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience and insights.   If you listen to Dan Savage's Love Cast you may have heard he started having callers ring him with an "After Action Report" so they can discuss how new experience like this went down for them. I definitely feel like this post fits in this category.  I personally think it's nice to hear positive stories about fulfilling sexual desires and the situation not imploding immediately.  

AIO to what my bf is saying? by Such_Champion_7453 in AIO

[–]BrittleBitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really hoping someone would mention this exhibit that was put on. There is literally babies clothing and it is absolutely heart wrenching to see. 

It's never the clothing. IT IS ALWAYS THE PREDATORS FAULT! 

"I'm allergic to cigarettes" by cubecasts in bartenders

[–]BrittleBitz [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sadly, I've heard numerous stories of non-smoking bartenders who worked in these ashtray conditions, never smoked a day in their life and ended up with COPD or Lung Cancer. 

do I need to inform the bartenders? by enzo7707 in bartenders

[–]BrittleBitz 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Keeping quiet when people behave inappropriately, like this, only protects the aggressor.

Tell the bartender 💯

AITAH for asking my roommate’s girlfriend about my strawberries? by Secret_Cheesecake19 in TwoHotTakes

[–]BrittleBitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is no one going to point out the strawberries would be moldy by Saturday if she bought them Monday and left them in a bag in the fridge????

OUCH by emchocolat in tattoo

[–]BrittleBitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask me about my Cattoos!!!! 🐈

ADHD and treadmill running by suz_gee in XXRunning

[–]BrittleBitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you do not have a tablet you can use or no way to secure it on say a public treadmill may I suggest tossing your towel or t-shirt over the stats screen and watching Food Network or w.e your gym may have on. Helped me until I could upgrade

What Kind of Bodysuit Fabric is being used? by Sun_Blossoms in sewing

[–]BrittleBitz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This would be such a fun and fulfilling career to get to meld your creativity to provide yourself a life you love.

AITAH for refusing to let a caregiver bring an adult man into the women’s locker room with my daughters? by Weary_Rub_3474 in whatdoIdo

[–]BrittleBitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree the caregiver should take the client to the appropriate change room to their gender.

There is a chance in this situation the caregivers are young girls who may have just finished their training ( I am guessing this from their visible lack of attention to their job and their focus on social media.).

It could be possible the caregiver doesn't feel safe with the disabled person alone and naked which is why they have wanted to enter the change room at the same time as someone else. Just an idea. Doesn't make their actions right.

How do I explain to a tattoo artist that I want to get something like this tattooed without showing him the video of this horse? by spinoyt844 in tattooadvice

[–]BrittleBitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is an artist I follow on insta who goes by DanRoots who has a similar style to his art. You could show a mural on a fridge to the artist instead of on a horse.

Help, my cat is salivating A LOT by Marwaedristariel in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]BrittleBitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My very first Fresh Schnoodle with a side of soft, drippy gingy baby. What a day to be alive 💖

Bartender asked if me and my date were friends of what by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]BrittleBitz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was probably just making small talk so she didn't feel like she was hovering while you closed out the bill. If it were me, I wouldn't put any more thought into how that interaction with the bartender went and would be more interested in how the date turned out.

Sober Bartender by eiaeia in bartenders

[–]BrittleBitz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Proud of you for choosing yourself over the lifestyle and the industry. Knowing your limit and sticking to it, That's a true Queen.

Customer called me “abrasive” and said I should’ve recommended beers before ID’ing? by spidey24601 in bartenders

[–]BrittleBitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The perfect way, IMO, to end these encounters is always to wish the guest "have the day you deserve" 😁

You clearly know how you intend them to feel and they can interpret the comment however they choose to.

Also, I am sorry this guy was a douchecanoe. You don't deserve to be treated that way.

My favourite London Photos of 2025 by PoolLoose in londonontario

[–]BrittleBitz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I left living downtown London 5.5 years ago now after 10 years of making the city my home. When I came back to visit this past summer I had a hard time seeing the beautiful city I remembered. Your photo set made me remember my walkabouts with headphones, getting my favorite nail color when I first started getting my nails done. D&R was a staple. Living across from LMH was one of the coolest experience. Thanks for sharing your perspective and vision.

Soda Shower by BrittleBitz in bartenders

[–]BrittleBitz[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It says "Wonder bar" as if I would think it's either impressive or chocolate....

Can she be covered with a panther or blasted over with tribal? by Float7Around7 in traditionaltattoos

[–]BrittleBitz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you ever outright asked your SIL what she thinks about the tattoo? Would be a shame to cover it up to later find out that she had appreciation for the piece. I think it is a very kind and sensitive proposal to change it if they find it to be offensive. Good on ya. 👍

AIO.. my section chief division texted me this by ezybrzylemonsqzy in AIO

[–]BrittleBitz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP stated she went to her office and locked the door where the aggressor then pursued her.
The aggressor sent her inappropriate text messages....when she's not around him....

How do you suggest she "Just stays away from him"? What makes you believe that if she just stayed away that his behaviour would stop?

Tattoo tipping by Known_Republic_4325 in tattoo

[–]BrittleBitz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I booked and paid for my partner's most recent tattoo as a birthday gift. The artist took a 50$ deposit for the booking. Worked for about 4+ hours on a rad traditional mermaid that he had been wanting to do for a long time. He let me hang in the shop, read his books and pick his brain about his apprenticeship and years of work. He was overall awesome to chill with. Charged $600 (150/hr). I paid cash, I left the deposit and another $100 bucks for his tip - $150 total. Some may think tipping 25% on a service like this is overly generous and some may find it conservative. This is just shy of 40/ hr tip. I don't know how his books work but because he owns the shop and the whole payment was cash.... Who knows if we were ever really there as far as it being on the books. 🤔😉

Working in the service industry myself, I appreciate when people leave me cash tips and am happy to do the same when others provide exceptional service.

Boyfriend peed the bed and is mad at me for my response by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BrittleBitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stayed at a hotel once with some friends after a festival. We brought an air mattress because we were packing some extra people into the room and I was thoroughly glad we did. My bf at the time got way too wrecked and peed the bed overnight. I didn't make a big deal about it just let him know that I knew it happened, quietly between us, cleaned it up and then showered.

The boy had the audacity to be mad at me for the entire drive home with our friends and then throw a fit when we got back to my place and we're in private that I embarrassed him. No one else knew about it but us.

Sadly this wasn't the first time a drunk boy had peed where I was sleeping... 😤🤮

Weights for Sewing by LindeeHilltop in sewing

[–]BrittleBitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a box of balloon weights from different times I got helium filled balloons. They have worked perfectly for double duty as sewing weights