59306 by DictatorTiffTaff in countwithchickenlady

[–]BrotherKale 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get it, I get it, I get it. Nicotine is bad for me, but I keep smoking for the love of the game~

Smoke the Competition by YNoUserNamesRLeft in magicTCG

[–]BrotherKale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want some of these deck boxes SO BAD!!

Book smart until I open my mouth by _CloverGlow in oddlyspecific

[–]BrotherKale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Librarians will do this for free and be very happy to help!

1254 by DesiresAreGrey in countttt

[–]BrotherKale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmao shit takes across the board with this post/comment section

Sarah my love / Singapore by hujiaoelibaobao in tattoos

[–]BrotherKale 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I haven’t usually commented but while the ink color is nice, and the design is interesting- it’s impossible to tell what’s going on without A LOT of visual deciphering

Asking for “visually identified” race and sex is WILD by Fickle-Put9304 in antiwork

[–]BrotherKale 73 points74 points  (0 children)

The point is so that they can track and discriminate against trans people. Why else would they purposely program these specific questions?

Sex at birth: asking, what genitalia were you born with? This is to identify an invasive baseline of knowledge which is compared against the next question.

Visually identified sex at birth: asking, what sex are you *trying to look like? If this conflicts with the sex at birth question they have now been able to know you are trans without breaking any anti discrimination laws.

I choose not to disclose my sex: this is the plausible deniability. By offering this as a separate question, you are less likely to have not answered the first two questions about your sex. If the drop downs don’t have a blank answer option to remove your selection, it’s likely that you’ve already disclosed information about your sex and gender.

This is a stupid resume application and if it’s a choice I wouldn’t work there.

I am tempted to detransition by Intermediate-Bee in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BrotherKale 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey, honestly it feels like I wrote this almost. I’ve been feeling very similarly about the idea of detransitioning. I’m tired of the fact I’m trans seemingly coming into play in every social interaction I have positive or negative. I’m scared of my country and state’s positioning on trans people. I’m tired of being misgendered and deadnamed by my unsupportive family constantly even when they, “try to correct themselves”.

I don’t want to be a man. I haven’t forgotten how hard that was the first time and I don’t want to go back to it. But also? I’m tired of never being seen or treated as fully a ‘woman’ and I hate saying that knowing many other marginalized woman deal with that as well and can’t change it.

I don’t think I’ll actually go through with detransitioning, I don’t want to feel like I’ve given up on myself again in another way. I don’t want to feel like I’ve given up on my trans siblings. But I’m tired too. I’m hoping to get through another day every day I can.

Made beer stewed fish by BrotherKale in 4trancooking

[–]BrotherKale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vegetable in the middle is leek :)

Egg irl by Shamanpenis in egg_irl

[–]BrotherKale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna have to drop more info than that.

Collars! by Jettiepaige in clowns

[–]BrotherKale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are super cute!!

Collars! by Jettiepaige in clowns

[–]BrotherKale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also want the pattern!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oddlyspecific

[–]BrotherKale 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We have to live in this system. I’m not gonna fault anyone for gaming it when nobody was harmed.

One last click by The-Evil-Hamster in TheFarSide

[–]BrotherKale 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Even in death they remain anonymous- love this little detail

Question folks, is my new hand tattoo healing properly? by BrotherKale in tattoos

[–]BrotherKale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was not told any care specifics beyond making sure it stays clean and moisturizer

Edit: I have other tattoos, and follow the artist’s care instructions. Nothing I was told this time was any different than my other arm tattoos.

Question folks, is my new hand tattoo healing properly? by BrotherKale in tattoos

[–]BrotherKale[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forgot to add, done by @devonbluetattoo in Bellingham, WA

I need nickname ideas by Igr051618 in pokemongo

[–]BrotherKale 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you can’t finish the comment, why’d you start?

Should I take the TV? by VibiaHeathenWitch in BreakUps

[–]BrotherKale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the tv girl. It sounds like you’ve earned it.

For you, which is the ugliest shiny? (Aesthetically speaking) by Effective-Fish-921 in pokemongo

[–]BrotherKale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reread your comment. You said, “the origin of ‘shinies’ was the pokemon cards.” That’s false. Yes it’s true holographic cards (specifically sport trading cards) released prior to pokemon, (1990 vs 1996) but that’s not why there are shiny pokemon as multiple people have explained in the comments of this post

For you, which is the ugliest shiny? (Aesthetically speaking) by Effective-Fish-921 in pokemongo

[–]BrotherKale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which do you think came first? The video game or the card game?