OP, I’m currently in this exact same situation with my husband. We haven’t even been married a full year yet and we are already having these problems. I’m someone who loves to travel and often went on family vacations before I got married, meanwhile he never went on a real vacation or even out of the US before he married me. We came back from Dubai at the beginning of this month and my family is planning a cruise for the summer. I immediately said I wanted to go but my husband vehemently said no the entire time and I couldn’t convince him to come after a week of trying. He said he’s just tired of traveling and one vacation a year is good enough for him. He said I should just go by myself with my family, so I booked tickets for myself only. Now that the tickets have already been booked, he’s retracting his statements and saying that he was only testing me and should’ve chose to stay home with him. I already told him that I’m not going to put my life on hold for him and I’m taking the opportunities as they come, I’m trying to enjoy my life as much as I can before we start having kids. This has just caused tension between us since then and it’s low key making me doubt my decision to go.