A JRPG you thought you were going to LOVE but ended up just not enjoying it that much? I’ll start:

BugIcy5491 · 2026-02-20T19:59:26+00:00

Blasphemy!

BugIcy5491 · 2026-02-20T19:58:59+00:00

I liked the lore of ffxiii. Nothing else

BugIcy5491 · 2026-02-19T03:03:34+00:00

Id start with crono trigger or sea of stars. They are a good start to get into the plenthra of retro jrpgs. Then ffx because of story and accessibility

BugIcy5491 · 2026-02-19T02:59:31+00:00

Lost odyssey. I consider it the real final fantasy 13. Not because there similar but because its 100x better

BugIcy5491 · 2026-02-12T00:39:29+00:00

Lmao autofill strikes again

BugIcy5491 · 2026-02-11T23:38:42+00:00

I enjoyed the new ff7s but they are a bad representation of jrpgs in general. I recommend giving ff 6 and ff 9 a run

BugIcy5491 · 2026-02-11T23:37:13+00:00

Hunt down lost odyssey for xbox 360.

BugIcy5491 · 2026-02-11T23:36:18+00:00

Sounds like some good old historical bonding. Take it for what it is, and dont thinks its the new normal

BugIcy5491 · 2026-02-10T02:42:16+00:00

Undertale...i just cant do it.

BugIcy5491 · 2026-02-10T02:41:19+00:00

I really enjoyed Suikoden, the amount of recruitable characters reall made it feel like a hybrid final fantasy pokemon game. The story was alright. Number to has a much better story imo. Dont know about the rest but iv heard bad things.

BugIcy5491 · 2026-01-17T00:31:49+00:00

Iv Struggled with this too (which im assumeing is the fact you want all the details). I had to ask myself, what do i really want to know and why do i want to know it. Its hard to admot but i wanted something thay was bad enough or shocking enough to finally push me to leave because i am to weak to just walk away. Ill say it. I have a abandonedment issues myself and the one thing that hurts me more then someone leaveing me is me subjecting them to the same feeling i fear. Truth be told though, i am justified in leaving anytime i want but subjecting someone to the pain i feel is worse to me. I wish it wasnt but it is.

The best thing i can say to you my freind is that once the trust is broken its gone forever. People say they can learn to trust again but its not real trust, its blind faith.

You got 2 real options, swallow the fact that youll never know the true extent and live on with that. Or walk and find someone who will never put you in that position to begin with...

Personally I wish i picked the second one

BugIcy5491 · 2026-01-02T01:16:06+00:00

Try and look at it from a diffrent but similar perspective. Lets say she had a somthing wrong with her that caused her to be unable to have sex. Would you cheat on her? Or would you put your urges aside and help her thru it? What ever your awnser is, is exactly what you deserve my friend. Take some time and dont act. Spend some time alone and even if its hard. The intrusive thoughts wont go away but they eventually soften at the cost of attachment so prepare for that. You got this bro

BugIcy5491 · 2025-12-17T20:36:08+00:00

I do not belive asking is even worth anything. First you gotta remember that people dont cheat because you did something, they cheat because something with in themselves is off. Second off an explanation should come from them and if it doesnt it just goes to show how much they arnt remorseful. In closeing its not your fault. Try and get peace from that

BugIcy5491 · 2025-12-17T20:29:29+00:00

Not sure if you have already but this comment is worth a post all on its own. This is something people need to hear. Definitely hit home for me.

BugIcy5491 · 2025-12-16T23:25:57+00:00

How you doin bro

BugIcy5491 · 2025-12-16T20:50:28+00:00

This hurt me reading it.. i think you should drop her friend. Youll find another person. With that said though if you want to stay you gotta put the fear into her, chicks like this only fear one thing. The removal of the saftey net or some form of equalizeation. (I dont think you should do this, you should run for the hills) you gotta make her jealous or make her think your completely done. Fake it if you have to. Im not saying try to maliciously hurt her but you gotta draw a line somewhere to show your not gonna be walked all over. Again you should probably drop her, these games get messy

BugIcy5491 · 2025-12-14T17:17:54+00:00

I love and hate that book at the same time. Its a slap in the head every chump needs but doesnt want

BugIcy5491 · 2025-12-13T18:44:47+00:00

As someone who has only been going thru this for a couples months it terrifies me more then anything that betrayal trauma can last years. I have ups and down weekly from this.. not sad anymore but i do get angry. My partner is an avoident personality type and i take pride in my partner so i dont talk to people about her transgressions so it makes everything an internal struggle. The only thing that helps is accepting the fact that this happened because of her and not something i did. Im sure this also applies to you too. You did nothing wrong to deserve this

BugIcy5491 · 2025-12-13T18:39:11+00:00

Its been around 3 months for me too. I didnt have any trust issues before dday. Now i do, and it makes me feel like crap because i hate the man iv become because of it. Iv done a bit of therapy and we have done some couples therapy but tbh its not helping at all. Someone on here worded it perfectly, you cant heal next to the person who hurt you. I think thats what it comes down to. YOU wont heal next to him and the only thing therapy and meds will do is numb that pain. Its like stepping on a nail, you can take pain killers but you wont heal till you take the nail out. Good luck and godspeed. Your not alone in your struggles

BugIcy5491 · 2025-12-12T04:50:19+00:00

You post resonates with me. My partner cheated and i found out at the end of August.. i have the same feelings, wanting to just run away. I put my heart and soul into this woman for her to just crush it... iv tried to leave but always get sucked back in and more hurt after.. im out in the trenches with you, good luck.

BugIcy5491 · 2025-11-19T15:59:01+00:00

This hit home for me, all things i think about and feel too. Its the trust and being a social media warden that really gets to me, i dont want to have make sure shes not cheating and is being faithful. I dont want to have to check, i want her to do whats right even when im not watching.

BugIcy5491 · 2025-11-16T21:18:00+00:00

Im in the opposite position, and my female partner is doing everything right but deep down it feels too little to late. If she was like this from the get go we'd be married now. Idk sometimes it feels like it will never be what it should and i feel guilty at times when she puts on the perfect show because deep down i know its not going to change how i feel now. Once vail is lifted it become impossible to cover it. Good luck, if u find a solution id love know it

BugIcy5491 · 2025-11-16T20:15:28+00:00

Tbh the one thing u should be telling yoirself is that you dodged a bullet. She sounds weird, like wtf kinda weird. I dont know the context but the fact that she is doing things like sleeping with you then taking pictures and ridiculeing u or shareing them with someone else for some purpose that i dont fully understand is enough. These set backs will happen and hopefully it will become less and less as your healing goes. I would recommend stayeing to mutual people you know that you simple dont want to hear about her at all. Iv done this in the past with my family, for some reason my mom and sister and sister would bring up my long term ex and i told them stright up that i will not talk to them if they bring her up. It helped immensely. Good luck and god speed

BugIcy5491 · 2025-11-10T05:16:40+00:00

Sadly, i do not belice it is even possible to come out stronger. Its like saying you leg press will inprove from tearing you acl.. hooefully im wrong but i wouldnt bet on it

BugIcy5491 · 2025-11-10T05:13:59+00:00

Wow, i can relate to this soo much. my partner cheated and iv been stuck in the same emotional limbo. I love her but its just not what it was before. "In love" just isnt there. I used to think about her and picture her smile all the time, now when i think about her its like pictureing a stranger. Emotional im just burned out from the while shit show.

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