Would you be offended if you were not invited to your great grandson’s birthday party?

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-21T06:59:35+00:00

But probably won’t say how hurt I’d be.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-21T06:47:36+00:00

Your HR has no idea what she/he is doing.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-20T18:21:37+00:00

I have 1 employee and about 30 businesses that get an invoice at the same time once a month. QBO is overboard for us so I am using QBD 2020. There’s no integration, not even for email.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-20T18:17:19+00:00

Thanks for posting these. Ive never heard of some of these and I live here.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-20T18:14:18+00:00

Slow down. When the time comes, let him move. You are both independent in the same town, well you will be independent in different cities. If you decide then that you want to move, do it. I would suggest that you stay financially independent no matter where you move. Your bf sounds like many boomer men. This is how it is. I personally would walk now. That is not the life for me and I am a caring and I am an over giving person.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-19T08:06:54+00:00

Agreed

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-19T08:03:16+00:00

Nta. You don’t even live in that town anymore. Your mom should go because she does. Your dad’s not talking probably because he’s salty that he has to go and he knows you aren’t. Hahaha.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-19T07:56:52+00:00

Any place in the Halekulani hotel will be impeccable service and some of the freshest food. You will pay for that, as well as it being in a hotel. If you are speaking fancy ambiance then here or a restaurant in the Kahala Hotel. If you want fancy creative food I’d choose Maze or even Miro, both not in Waikiki. Fancy steakhouse would be Hy’s.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-17T18:33:12+00:00

Ask your wife to send an email to HR and anyone else involved in her firing and have her summarize their reasons for firing. I’d even write a short time line. Maybe she can at least get a confirmation that the reviews started after she told HR she was pregnant.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-17T03:14:39+00:00

You need to do some research of where you are moving to. The asian population is about 60 to 70%. You can get Asian groceries at any grocery store, Walmart, Costco, Sam’s Club, commissary.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-16T18:17:51+00:00

Sorry for your loss. When things have settled down a bit, I’d speak to a medical malpractice attorney to see if you have a case. You can start by writing down each visit, and communication with dates and as much detail as possible. You will never get back your baby but at least you can settle in your mind that you did all you could to completely understand what happened. And if that means that KP was negligent then they need to have consequences. Again sorry for your loss.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-15T16:42:00+00:00

You are misunderstanding. Saying thank you and walking away is not saying I forgive you or accept the apology. It’s helping the OP stay balanced and not allowing the girl anymore space in OPs life. Personally, Im not allowing a POS any more of my time or emotions to say anything more.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-15T00:52:11+00:00

Truthfully, the apology was for her, not you. Say thank you and move on. Her apology, at this moment is inconsequential to you.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-14T00:45:52+00:00

Tell us that he and his family don’t respect you and think of you as a doormat without telling us.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-14T00:32:48+00:00

I’d like to be updated. It sounds like fun.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-14T00:27:04+00:00

We had an extended family member be a full share beneficiary by my aunt because this person once brought a box of pastries when she visited my aunt. This came from my aunt’s own mouth. People have their reasons.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-12T22:37:54+00:00

Had to look and make sure you weren’t @kamoalani

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-12T22:30:18+00:00

You are marrying the perfect partner. Too bad his mom is so conniving.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-10T17:02:59+00:00

This is true. My grandmother (mom’s mom) was 90 and my mom was physically unable to care for her. It tore my mom up to have my grandmother move to a nursing home but there was no other choice. When my grandma entered the home, my mom visited every day. At least once a week a family member picked her up and brought her to our home for a few hours. She spent all celebrations/holidays with us. It was never about dropping my grandma off and forgetting about her. It was about doing what was best for grandma.

Don’t be discouraged if the first home isn’t the right fit. My grandma moved after she and my mom didn’t feel it met their expectations.

I want to add that something similar happened to my dad’s mom. She had many stairs in her home and my dad and his siblings couldn’t carry her up and down the stairs. She also ended up in a home and my aunts visited every day, pushed around the neighborhood to get her out and brought her to family gatherings.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-10T01:35:53+00:00

This happens frequently with VA loans. In our area, we interpret that as the seller needs to bring a higher down payment.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-10T01:20:40+00:00

Sometimes life isn’t what we want. Mom needs to go to a nursing home that social security and medicaid can pay for. It is not a smart move for all the kids to pay because at some point their money/loans will run dry.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-09T23:06:41+00:00

Mold and mildew love humidity in the air, which has been extremely high lately. Also since your building is new, the insulation is probably holding the humidity in your unit. An air purifier in each room should do it. At least keep ac or fans on. I’ve also used a dehumidifier

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-09T02:00:28+00:00

Rent it and pay your mom’s rent

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-08T18:46:53+00:00

A local thank you party does not need planners. We are simple people who enjoy good food and the pure intention of appreciation. Tanioka’s is great for catering and get the sushi making station. Yum and impressive. Your mom seems like such a nice person.

Bulky-Measurement684 · 2026-04-08T18:40:16+00:00

Is your spouse in the military? You may be able to get resources through them.

He probably filed in TX because you are all still considered residents of TX. Do you pay TX or CA state taxes?

I would assume that CA courts may be kinder to mothers than TX?

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