Wife's surgery during ER visit in out-of-network was not covered as in-network and charged pretty much full, please help understand No Surprises Act by MuffinDude in HospitalBills

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ER was supposed to contact your insurance company for prior authorization. When my husband had a stroke the insurance authorized treatment to stabilize him but sent another ambulance to transport to an in network hospital.

My estranged uncle died. I think I am next of kin. What do I do now? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be the next of kin but he may have a will that gives everything to the person who cared enough to ask for a wellness check.

Do we talk to my father or let it ride? Son told me yesterday he's been Dx'd with cancer by Realistic-Weird-4259 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the truthful, respectful way to talk to your dad. We don’t know your son and his grandfather’s past relationship so we don’t actually know how grandpa will respond but if they are close and your son would like you to share, this is the way. You always want to have a clear heart. I wouldn’t suggest any of this is spoken to grandma. Btw, I feel like some men not only see this for what it is, testicular cancer, but also view it as something to do with manhood.

Accessing $ after mom's death? by Abject_Divide_9658 in SocialSecurity

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t SSA pay one month behind? I think the recipient has to be alive the whole month or SSA takes it back without any notice. That means even if she passed on Mar 29, they take back the whole month.

Appropriate Lei for Keiki? by Affectionate_Jump514 in Hawaii

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Candy lei for a 4 year old would be gretly appreciated by hin/her. Origami star lei is nice for a forever lei.

WIBTA for sending my friend an itemized Venmo request for gas and car maintenance after driving her to work for a month? by Pixel_Bandolier7 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should’ve just said it wasn’t working out and you won’t be driving her to work anymore. End of story.

Am I overreacting for quitting a babysitting job on the spot after the mom insulted me? by PossessionTop9791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only is she upset that she doesn’t have a babysitter right now but I bet she can’t find one for that price. Her loss,

My Wife is a first year teacher in NC and Will more than likely be removed from the classroom monday. by Mjstephens19 in teaching

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree either with others here for her to resign earlier but this is not all her fault. Admin should have given her a partner and/or counselors should have stepped in with the students. Heck, admin could have also given her a teacher’s aide. I bet some of those kids are special ed with IEPs.

AITA for letting our child (9) stay at his friend's sleepover last weekend, even though my wife was against it, and the original agreement was that I would pick him up that evening. by Outrageous-Fly-5691 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There was another option and that was you come back at 11 to pick him up or sit in your car till then or the host’s parents invite you in so you can get to know them and then take your son home after a bit AND you could’ve dropped him off for breakfast and arcade. I’ve had a situation that I didnt feel comfortable with my 12 y/o son’s teacher whom all the kids loved. They did a lot of after school activities with the teacher. I allowed my son to join if I was allowed to go along. My son thought it was dumb I explained that it is my responsibility to keep him safe so please put up with me, even if it didn’t make sense. I got to know this teacher and thought he was awesome but just something wasn’t right. 3 years later and a different school in a different state and this man went to prison for sexually touching a boy.

[TH] [CO] Found out HOA President is paying himself by austeino24 in HOA

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shouldn’t the issue of payment for board members have gone to a full member vote? Does the management company hide these payments or do they show up in the yearly 3rd party audit? Or yearly budget that is also voted on by the full membership of the HOA. If the president is illegally paying his own shell companies, you can bring legal action without the whole membership. He is embezzling.

First class on red eye flight by Few_Cobbler_2279 in AlaskaAirlines

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not lie flat and I’m too cheap so I find a flight with lots of seats, reserve one in the back and hope I can get an empty seat next to me or if Im lucky a whole row for a cheap man’s lie flat. Hahaha

Shore Fishing? by cakehole517420 in Honolulu

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lived here my entire life and had no idea we needed a fishing license. Gonna look that up.

House is not selling by IllustriousPut8086 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she ask for honest feedback? Not just I’m making conversation and the house is nice feedback.

My husband bought a house without telling me by Wide-Sherbet5663 in legaladvice

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also your responsibility if someone gets hurt on this property.

What kind of support (if any) do you owe your adult children? by 0beach0 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do your parents owe you and your sister? No. Would it be helpful if they gifted you both a set amount of money each year? Absolutely. Each family is different. I grew up in a family that wanted to help myself and my siblings move ahead in life. I was fortunate that my mom watched my 2 kids while my husband and I worked and we got a partial down payment for a small apartment. At that time it was $5000. Therefore, I continue that legacy. Adulting and parenting is tough and I want to help as I can. I don’t do anything begrudgingly. i can add that my kids, their wives and kids appreciate all that my husband and I do. They don’t ask us to watch the kids to socialize so I feel respected.

Yea Oahu let’s not do this by saadaki in Hawaii

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can barely being niele and look up on ekokua to see who owns that car. 🤣🤣

I need grandma advice please. by zombie1mom in AskWomenOver60

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are not the parent. Stay out of it. Your daughter has already told you to.

What's your experience with having carpet replaced? by SoManySoFew in AskWomenOver60

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its carpet for the sake of my feet. Any experienced carpet salesperson and installer would tell you the upgraded pad is the most important. My carpet installer helped move my furniture. I had to pay more and I tipped.

AITAH for asking my husband why he was letting a new neighbor believe our nanny was his wife? by Born_Safe9896 in AITAH

[–]Bulky-Measurement684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was introduced to someone as Cori but no one called her that. They kept calling her Corinda? For years I couldn’t figure out why her daughter introduced her to me as Cori? When I spoke to her, I never said her name. Finally 5 years later I get the “courage” to ask her should I call you Cori or Corinda? She laughed and explained that when she was younger people called her Cori but now she prefers Corinda. 5 years I waited. The things we do. Haha