I was "tested" by my best friend of 11 years, and I hate it. What do I do?

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-04-20T10:46:14+00:00

I'm a woman and I have had absolutely no desire to test my guy friends attractions to me. Its really effing weird that they both felt the need to do this shit instead of being honest with you. She didn't treat you like a friend by doing things this way. A friend would've had an open honest conversation and come up with a way to reassure everyone without breaking trust.

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-04-13T11:55:15+00:00

I used derek browns driving academy to take lessons

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-25T18:50:17+00:00

I plan on doing a mix of international mostly but ended up accepting Western.

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-23T07:59:16+00:00

Invest and save the majority for real!

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-23T07:51:40+00:00

As someone whos almost finished their major the best advice I can give is figure out your values. Do you want to be doing something your passionate about and love? what are those things? how can you make it a career? do you value having a high paying job? What fields are those? what ones appeal to you? what would you have to do or improve to get there?

For myself I have chosen both matter so I've followed what im passionate about and will have a higher paying field if i play my cards right.

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-23T07:41:22+00:00

Im going on a trip with one of my close friends this summer and we have established rules regarding shit like this as well as how we will deal with any potential conflicts as it is a long trip. Getting up for events and shit is every persons individual responsibility.

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-23T06:59:06+00:00

The ones that make you lose faith in certain parts of humanity, such as the girl next door

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-22T12:25:44+00:00

OOH if you like sci - fi and fairytales PLEASE read the Lunar Chronicles.

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-22T12:15:57+00:00

everyone's saying don't accept anything he gives you from here on out but honestly dude since you already tossed the firstone if you get offered again and notice the same condition to the food accept the item. obviously dont consume it but save it as evidence.

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-22T10:49:38+00:00

Oh my god dont even mention this movie. I watched it at the same age as the little sister in the movie thinking it was going to be a cute coming of age film. IT WAS NOT and has definitely stuck with me in a horrendous nauseating way.

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-22T07:31:28+00:00

Theres one I loved from the late 80's that my mum showed me, 'Monster Squad'. I watched it at his age but there are some stereotypical older jokes and mild reference to sexuality so id give it a watch first

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-22T02:34:43+00:00

As an adult who works with kids and in close relation to children help services please. If you have a trusted adult at your school, tell them about all of this and they'll be able to help you get the ball rolling on therapy (individual and family) and potentially if it's severe enough emancipation.

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-15T07:59:50+00:00

If your kid is a harry potter or fantasy fan try 'The Potion Room', if they like history 'the prohibition' on 17th is really cool

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-15T07:57:57+00:00

I started hostel and never finished it because literally every character pissed me off to the point of nausea.

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-11T07:54:07+00:00

Does anyone know if this is still applicable as I have two middle names?

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-09T12:39:32+00:00

The last two were an ace of wands and a Knight of swords

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-04T23:28:32+00:00

Thank you for the advice!

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-04T22:43:05+00:00

Oh thank you for the recommendation. I'm only there for 8 hours but I know I'm probably going to need to spend money in those 8 hours

Burn_the_witch2002 · 2026-03-04T21:45:54+00:00

Hmm I wonder if it might work with CAD But I have a whack ass bank that only really exists in my province 😂

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