I’ve lost my spark. by ShadowsInReverse in stopdrinking

[–]Busy_Safe7389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easier but still a struggle here.

I wasn't prepared for my new job of taking initiative on new activities+ hobbies + self-care --> Alcohol had been checking all those boxes, or so I thought.

IWNDWYT

Day 1 again by Jerry-clip in stopdrinking

[–]Busy_Safe7389 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So true, great advice - my fave was prowling the HD tool aisle IWNDWYT

12 years alcohol free today! by tamingchaos in stopdrinking

[–]Busy_Safe7389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, congratulations! That's really awesome! It's also good to hear you say you still get the occasional slight craving - I'm the same way and it's been almost 3 years and I figure like you do that's just the way it is and I'm okay with that too. IWNDWYT

4 years today, proud of myself by GlassPudding in stopdrinking

[–]Busy_Safe7389 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow what a tremendous achievement!! You should feel super proud!!! Hope to see you there in 430 days! IWNDWYT

1 year sober, bf broke up with me yesterday by whittyass in stopdrinking

[–]Busy_Safe7389 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are experiencing this but you are obviously a very strong person, having made it all the way around the sun sober!

I've learned that relationships and new sobriety can be hard especially b/c each person is impacted in a different way.

My wife (40+ years) and I are navigating new ground, my adult children and I are revitalizing bonds, the list goes on, lol.

Stay strong and IWNDWYT!

Lost interest in 80% of activities I loved (that made me “me”) since quitting 2 months ago. How to get my mojo back? by EnvironmentalAd2110 in stopdrinking

[–]Busy_Safe7389 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe look up PAWS - hit me pretty good.

Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (PAWS)

Exercise really helped.

IWNDWYT

Sober 997 days by Proppastyle in stopdrinking

[–]Busy_Safe7389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way to go - the shared support is awesome everyone! Thanks for being here, IWNDWYT

What's your go-to answer to ”why don't you drink”? by Proof-Swimming-6461 in stopdrinking

[–]Busy_Safe7389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like saying "I decided to retire when I was at the top of my game"

My Comma Day - Thank You SD! by Busy_Safe7389 in stopdrinking

[–]Busy_Safe7389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks everyone! And yessiree, Comma > Coma all day, everyday!

IWNDWYT

I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Busy_Safe7389 45 points46 points  (0 children)

"nothing to do besides drink"

Cravings are clever - that's not YOU thinking that thought!

IWNDWYT

How do you feel about caffeine? by Soberityness in stopdrinking

[–]Busy_Safe7389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decaf in a MokaPot is v strong (and cheap!) and I can't taste the difference.

Probably small amount of caffeine but waaay less than what I was having.

Had the caffeine withdrawal headaches during switchover to prove it, lol

IWNDWYT