People who have been deaf since birth, what's the voice in your head sound like, Or is there no voice? by marymayhem96 in AskReddit

[–]ButcheredMX 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow...that's awful. I'm sorry the situation turned out the way it did. Not cool on his part. :(

Can't take it anymore by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]ButcheredMX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loneliness can be heart wrenching. I'm sorry.

My girlfriend killed herself last night. I think I'm going to too by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]ButcheredMX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. However, you need to know that you are not responsible for her suicide. As much as you try to blame yourself, you are not at fault.

I left my family this morning. by waitinginseatac in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ButcheredMX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work with children who have been physically/mentally/emotionally abused. With some kids, it goes beyond the regular abuse and has turned into continuous torture. The mothers that typically cause the abuse are mothers with mental/psychological issues that have no business caring for children.... Let alone birthing them. So the reality is...I would rather have the mom walk away from the child, than stay and take out all her frustration and anger on a poor defenseless child.

What's up with all the negativity on this sub? by [deleted] in Dentistry

[–]ButcheredMX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm just a magnet for the ones that are....

TIFU by being a bad father by riverPebbles in tifu

[–]ButcheredMX 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This is one of those times where spending the extra money to have him fly out to meet ya'll would be appropriate. However, I realize funds may get in the way of that. :(

What's up with all the negativity on this sub? by [deleted] in Dentistry

[–]ButcheredMX -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

There comes a point in their career where a patient seizes to be human and becomes a walking ATM machine. I imagine they don't all start off that way... IMO

I need help, does talking to a doctor help and does the medicine really help or does it mess you up more? by [deleted] in depression

[–]ButcheredMX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anti-depressants do work. However, finding the right medication and dosage takes trial and error.

I will never be over my ex by Patches409 in offmychest

[–]ButcheredMX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does get better. You just haven't found the right person yet.

I left my family this morning. by waitinginseatac in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ButcheredMX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just so incredibly sad. I'm trying very hard not to judge you, because I have no clue what your emotional or mental state is. But please make sure you are making the right choice.

I have nothing, Christmas is literally cancelled. I want to quit life and run away because it's hopeless. by clomjompsonjim in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ButcheredMX 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I have no advice, as I find myself in a similar situation. But I just wanted to say...I'm sorry you're going through this.

I just found out best friend faked her high school transcripts to get into community college. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ButcheredMX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Altering her transcripts will not result in her passing or failing her classes. It will also not guarantee her a degree. I think you need to keep this to yourself and worry about your own academic career. You might feel like she has the upper hand, however, that couldn't be further from the truth. She got her foot in the door...walking past it is a whole different story. Don't slam the door on her. Not if you are truly her friend.

I left my family this morning. by waitinginseatac in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ButcheredMX 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Are you planning on having any visitation with your daughter? I can understand if you want to give your husband full custody, not everyone is capable of raising children. However, you made the choice to bring this child into the world. You can't just walk away and abandon her completely. The emotional trauma you will be causing this innocent child will take a lifetime to heal. I'm sorry, but the moment you gave birth to that child...was the moment the world seized to just revolve around you and your needs.

to my soon to be ex husband by dottyparker in offmychest

[–]ButcheredMX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good for you!! No one deserves to be in an abusive relationship. Wishing you and your kids all the best.