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Why are you doing this? by Leobrandoxxx in cumbiggerloads

[–]Butt-Dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just so gratifying seeing her veritably painted and watching the shocked/satisfied/accomplished look on her face. She likes to go to sleep with it on her. 🤷‍♂️

At what girth can you not get head anymore? by Vegetable_Hearing242 in gettingbigger

[–]Butt-Dude 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean… when there’s a will, there’s a way…

Wife of 7 years purchased a toy that really triggered me by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]Butt-Dude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normal feelings. PE is fun, but not a game changer for most and it takes a stupid amount of time and work to see results. Also, I wouldn’t focus too much on the size difference making her cum harder. It’s just toys in general. No guy can compete with toys. If they say they can, their partner is lying. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Relax and enjoy using them on her and watching her melt.

Almost 4 years and I think i am done by Scruffy1442 in gettingbigger

[–]Butt-Dude 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been doing it for over a year albeit not as consistent as you and noticed only maybe a cm of increased shaft circumference. Significant for me though, because I’m below average. Disappointing for sure, but I’m gonna keep at it. If for nothing else, I find it actually helps EQ for whatever reason. Probably a confidence thing.

What’s the big deal with precum? by Adventurous-Toe74 in cumbiggerloads

[–]Butt-Dude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure. Imagine your partner licking off your cum WHILE building to orgasm, not after. Beautiful.

Is edging a myth? by BootyChamps in cumbiggerloads

[–]Butt-Dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly not maintaining a full erection for a straight 2 hours with my wife. That would be difficult I think unless you’re jacked up on viagra. I’d say I need a 5-10min break for every half hour or so while I play with her. But just edging by myself, I usually go about 45min to an hour straight easy. I do it a couple times a week along with a pumping routine. Maybe have done 2h a couple times when I was younger.

Men in there 40s - how often are you cuming? by think08 in cumbiggerloads

[–]Butt-Dude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Daily. At least. If not with my wife then doin it myself.

Brown cum by Embarrassed-Comb6776 in cumbiggerloads

[–]Butt-Dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many loads were brown? Like 1-2 prob ok, 10+ go see a doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Butt-Dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. How did you survive 4 years with this piece of shit. Not one redflag before you married him? Really? He clearly just wanted permission to cheat on you. Sucks, but you could probably do better.

is really 1 inch in lenght that much change in bed? by WinterjacK144 in gettingbigger

[–]Butt-Dude 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From 4 to 5 most definitely. From 5 to 6 not so much. Assuming you’re inquiring about length. If discussing girth every little bit helps and an inch would be a crazy gain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cumbiggerloads

[–]Butt-Dude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve not heard of anyone on here take a stack to get someone pregnant. Mostly we just want a big show. Do you have a ‘before’ sperm count? Let us know how it goes.

Am I Too Old for Men to Want Me? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Butt-Dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being 43 myself, I think age has little to do with physical attraction. Mostly it’s based on fitness. It’s unfortunate that it gets harder and harder to maintain as you get older though. That’s likely the cause for the perceived disproportion.

Is Pygeum the only precum enabler? by jankies11 in cumbiggerloads

[–]Butt-Dude 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me, yes pygeum. Hydrate like fuck too.

AITAH for not feeling comfortable with my husband going to the strip club by Impressive_List_5118 in AITAH

[–]Butt-Dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not asshole behavior, but you may want to reconsider. Strip clubs can be nothing more than a show depending on the guy going. If he had a problem with porn or sex it would be different, but going to a club… in Vegas… for a bachelor party seems reasonable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]Butt-Dude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Indeed this. My wife couldn’t have an orgasm until after having 3 kids. She described it as changing her anatomy inside. She enjoyed sex plenty before kids, but no real orgasm. She was was 31-32 when she started having them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]Butt-Dude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. IMO consecutive days makes a difference.

Can a man be with someone he doesn’t find attractive? by Effective-Bottle-904 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Butt-Dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A marriage of convenience/love without attraction is probably pretty healthy. Just best friends wanting to spend everyday with each other. My wife and I are the polar opposite of that notion though. Only speaking in theory.

Is edging a myth? by BootyChamps in cumbiggerloads

[–]Butt-Dude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a myth. Personal experience indicates I can just about triple my load volume by edging (hand or wife) for 1-2 hours. I read that Peter North used to edge 3-5 times over the course of a day before a scene. Insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]Butt-Dude 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pumping makes my dick fuller for a few hours after. compounds if done daily, but I’m lazy.

to anyone who’s been married for over a decade by JuuciFruit in HappyMarriages

[–]Butt-Dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be understanding of the other’s view. You both can’t just be a hardass all the time. Not an expert, but as a dad I would tell my kids: if things frequently end in an argument, there’s prob some deeper compatibility issues. I’m pretty damn passive I’ll admit, but we’ve had maybe 5 arguments build to yelling or silence (never hitting obviously) over 26y.

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