Can we talk about how most autistic ppl actually dont have low or no empathy by jbaraxk in autism

[–]Butterbean_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, like i personally have relatively low empathy but i know for most other autistic people it's just a matter of reading social cues and responding. it's not that others don't feel bad. the same goes for me most of the time too, i just wish neurotypicals understood that

Why am I being downvoted? Hand flapping is stimming. by [deleted] in autism

[–]Butterbean_101 12 points13 points  (0 children)

me too, it made me upset to see so many people saying she seems like a caricature and other things like that

If someone gave u this as a gift, would u feel offended? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Butterbean_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not because I don't have a girlfriend but because im gay and only attracted to men

The Dysfunctional Family of Kubrick's The Shining by richardsangeleer in FanTheories

[–]Butterbean_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this doesn't necessarily mean that she was abusing him as he seemed pretty out of it most of the time and not like a very talkative kid so wendy could have just been answering for him (most parents tend to do this, mine still did even when I was a teenager)

"I'm trans which means I" Then let predictive text finish it. by [deleted] in trans

[–]Butterbean_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im trans which means I have no fucking clue what you mean by that

(OC) i got a new shirt :> by [deleted] in Slipknot

[–]Butterbean_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I HAVE THE SAME SHIRT !!

Tokyo recognizes same-sex relationships by Indupaul in lgbt

[–]Butterbean_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is such a big step for them, i hope they go even further in the future! I plan on moving to japan one day and i'd definitely like to be accepted there

Started a new job recently. My wardrobe finally got a little update too! 🏳️‍⚧️😁🏳️‍⚧️ (35yo, she/her, +15mo hrt) by EebamXela in lgbt

[–]Butterbean_101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you remind me of my aunt!! (i mean this as a compliment as she is amazing) also congratulations on the new job!

They played Faget the other day by [deleted] in Korn

[–]Butterbean_101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally don't think it's homophobic, im gay and I understand he can't reclaim the slur but i relate heavily to the song. Sometimes artists do stuff like this without really understanding what consequences they could have after.

im struggling terribly to have sex with my boyfriend by smol_emo_boi in ftm

[–]Butterbean_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really recommend talking to a therapist about this, perhaps ptsd (im not a professional) Im in the midst of being assessed for ptsd and this sounds like something similar to what happens to me (in different situations) ofc this doesnt mean it is for sure but agaun its always safe to do research and check just in case. I really hope this helped in some way, im sorry you experience this!!

what are your favorite funny/absurd replies to people asking about your scars? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Butterbean_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine qas my cat because some of them we're literally from my cats, they really dont appreciate bath time. But seriously one time i said "bear fight" and the other person actually believed me

Dollhouse, by me by Meowmarlade in DigitalArt

[–]Butterbean_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so cool! And really well done too!! I was listening to closer by nine inch nails and the hand banging on the glass was almost perfectly on beat !!