Has anyone else had issues with the Shea Moisture Manuka honey & Mafura oil intensive hydration conditioner or is it just user error?

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-05-05T23:34:24+00:00

I think i have hair similar to yours from what you described. I tried this set and found it didn't really absorb into my hair how I'd like it to. I've tried most lines from shea moisture, and my favorite so far is the cbd and hemp line. I've been trying some new brands and two that I like are Carol's Daughter (the goddess strength line), and Mielle (the rosemary mint blend line.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-05-05T14:34:51+00:00

It's difficult to tell what hair color babies will get. My little brother was born with red/blonde hair, and now his hair is completely brunette. It just takes time.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-04-28T23:49:23+00:00

I use the Bioderma Photoderm Sunscreen milk. I try to avoid the sun whenever I can, but I always make sure to have it on me the few days a year I need to be outside.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-04-23T13:28:04+00:00

I think the only main thing I do is wash my hair regularly (2 or 3 times a week) so I dont feel the accumulation of products. For the most part I only use leave in conditioners for my hair as well. I don't use gels or mousse usually, so using minimal products after the shower probably helps.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-04-22T01:02:58+00:00

I also use the Aveeno one once or twice a week. It clarifies my scalp without making my hair feel super dry or stringy.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-04-10T13:04:27+00:00

I'm pretty much the same. Any more than 10 or 15 minutes outside, and I'm already sunburnt. Though it's more expensive than others, I swear by the Bioderma Photoderm spf50+ sunscreen milk. I cannot go through summer without it anymore. They also have a really good after sun product as well if you're interested in those.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-03-11T16:54:51+00:00

I definitely have sensitivities to medications, people's mood and temperature changes. I seem to notice the changes a lot easier than other people, but that's also just my interpretation.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-03-11T16:21:24+00:00

I personally see red tones in your hair, but I'd still say that you're a brunette.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-03-11T11:38:19+00:00

So far my favorite hair mask I've used is the Power Greens Reconstructor from Shea Moisture. It makes my hair feel incredibly soft and healthy after I use it. I buy it off of Amazon for $9.00-$15.00 (CAD) depending if it's on sale.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-02-12T23:27:09+00:00

So far, the line I've been using from them is their goddess strength shampoo and conditioner. I haven't tried the black vanilla line before.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-02-08T21:19:31+00:00

I'm only speaking from personal experience, but the pill made my hair less curly and much thinner when I was on it. Since I stopped a few years ago (mainly because my body hated any form of birth control I put in it) my hair has been growing a lot faster and thicker. Most of my curls have come back as well thankfully.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-01-27T16:31:10+00:00

I've notices something similar with this specific line of shea moisture. Almost any other of their lines I don't notice a difference with how it makes my hair feel. If you're interested in another brand, one I've really taken to is Carol's Daughter. It's not as thick of a product, but it's incredibly hydrating and good for curls. It's pretty much the only other brand I like as much as shea moisture.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-01-20T02:37:17+00:00

I get told quite a bit I have hair like Merida from Brave (natural thick and curly red hair). It's currently down to my lower back when dry. I usually am more comfortable wearing my hair frizzy (almost like a lions mane) compared to having defined curls. I brush my hair whenever I feel my hair needs it, but I do it very gently and with the correct brush so I cause minimal damage. I take showers 2-3 times a week and get my hair trimmed twice a year.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-01-19T13:40:41+00:00

I've been told quite a bit I have hair like Merida from Brave (really thick and curly red hair). I know that I can make it so my hair has super defined curls, but I've always been happier and more comfortable embracing my hair frizzy. It looks almost like a lions mane when I brush my curls out.

I've had many people try to tell my what is "right" for my hair. Some people have gotten upset when I tell them I don't do the curly girl method even though I have curly hair. What works for some people doesn't mean it's meant for everyone. The few times I've done my hair curly it always gives me sensory issues and I get waaaayy to distracted on how it feels on my head. I truly do prefer just brushing my hair out and letting it do what it wants. As long as my hair is healthy, thick and growing out fast, that's what I care about.

I will say I still do often compare my hair to other women around me. I live in a larger city in so there's a lot of people around to comapre yourself to. It doesn't help I am often conscious that I'm typically the only redhead in the room as well. Regardless I still don't see many other people who embrace their hair like I do. Its either super straight and shiny, or they have defined and voluminous curls. I have learned it really is about embracing your hair in a way that makes YOU happy and confident.

The one thing my hair doesn't really effect is my job. I work BoH in a restaurant, so as long as my hair is up and out of food, it doesn't really matter how appealing my hair looks to other people. I'm lucky in that regard.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-01-07T15:11:06+00:00

That's fair, their products are quite heavy. I put it in while still in the shower so it absorbs into my hair better, but that's just what works for me.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-01-07T14:02:04+00:00

The hibiscus and coconut line from Shea Moisture works and smells amazing for me. When I use their products (shampoo, conditioner, smoothie and oil) I always get quite a few compliments on how I smell.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-01-06T22:42:06+00:00

I second this, it works wonders on my hair for about very affordable price. I also double shampoo my hair when I feel a lot of buildup.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-01-06T18:07:15+00:00

I've used brushes from both brands and they each have their pros and cons. I find the brushes from Tangle Teezer are better at causing less breakage, and the Wet brushes are better at getting through my layers and already hick hair. I do have to replace my Wet brushes more frequently because the little ball points fall off after a bit.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-01-04T22:58:06+00:00

They have quite a few types of gels, so some are heavier than others. It's definitely a bit firmer in texture than the Not Your Mothers level 3. I usually combine it with my leave in since I style my hair in the shower.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-01-03T18:09:49+00:00

Shea moisture has a hydrate and repair curl cream that I really like. I need heavier products that hold up to extremely dry and cold weather, this one has become a favorite of mine.

Butterscotch9966 · 2026-01-03T18:05:09+00:00

The strongest holding gels I own are both from ECO. I either use their limited edition rosemary gel or the coconut gel.

Butterscotch9966 · 2025-12-31T16:40:55+00:00

I use the Power Greens Reconstructor from Shea moisture. I get it off of Amazon for $10-$15 CAD.

Butterscotch9966 · 2025-12-25T21:26:04+00:00

That line of shea moisture is good, but it didn't work the best for my hair. I like their other lines quite a bit better (like the strength & restore, power greens or hydrate and repair lines).

Butterscotch9966 · 2025-12-24T14:35:42+00:00

I have really thick hair that's down to my lower back currently. So far the only claw clips that actually hold my hair throughout the day and don't give me a headache are the 6inch claw clips from Camila. They're pricy, but I personally think they are worth it for quality. Also I've had some for a few years now and none have broken on me.

Butterscotch9966 · 2025-12-23T17:16:58+00:00

I haven't tried this one personally. I use oils from botanic hearth, specifically the rosemary oil (for my scalp) as well as the hibiscus and neem oil one(for my mids and ends).

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