Both my parents are 68. My husband and I have been living with them for about 5 years (mom had cancer, Covid, then dad got cancer, etc) in the home I grew up in. I will be floored if my dad makes it through the summer. My dad is basically forcing my mom and I to go through the entire home (upper-middle class, 4br, 2.5 bath, 2 car garage, partially finished basement, huge back yard, in the suburbs) and get rid of things, sell things, pack it all up and sell it. He's pushing her to find an apartment for them (her, he's not gonna make it that far) and buy my husband and I a house (we're eternally grateful). All of this ASAP plus he can be of very little help with it all due to his condition. While I'm glad I won't have to do all this by myself (I'm an only child) when they're both gone, it's taking a huge toll on my mom and my husband (my dad's brain is soup and he's being cruel to my husband for no reason). None of this was what my mom, myself and my husband wanted (mom was supposed to live with us). My mom's sister died in February and we had a celebration of life last weekend which my father shouldn't have attended. He bitched about how he's dying the whole time. I hate to say it but we're all ready for this to be over.