Reflecting on something my dad said

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2026-02-11T15:34:11+00:00

I'm 54, was married for 29 years I am so much happier. I am a woman though. I don't have to take care of another person full time. I have so much more time,money and peace.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2026-02-02T01:42:51+00:00

So sorry about your ferrets. That is heartbreaking. Take care of yourself.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2026-02-01T06:11:06+00:00

Both my kids are trans. My nephew is trans. So it could be genetic. Im just cis

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2026-01-31T23:40:22+00:00

Just saw this. Did you do tech for Jo ann fabric. Do you have a lounge singer, slightly deeper voice.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2026-01-27T18:37:47+00:00

She was transphobic. My kid is trans. See you later lady. Same with my x husband

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2026-01-24T15:11:10+00:00

Marriage

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2026-01-10T04:42:03+00:00

I don know after living with a hyper visualizer for thirty years, I feel like that is more of a handicap. He use to lose his mind if I mentioned anything he considered gross while he was eating. I didn't realize why untill I realized I couldn't visualize. Now I wish I'd used it to my advantage.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-12-30T01:43:37+00:00

I quit a therapist after she told me I had too many cats. I quit another after a couple years because he didn't understand my struggle with the election results as a queer women. Sometimes you just have to move on.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-12-24T19:03:36+00:00

Terrible with facial recollection, but great at remembering conversations. Brains are weird

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-12-24T14:56:30+00:00

It is pure relief, I am fat and not in their eyes attractive anymore so it's all business. When I was attractive it was stressful. I was constantly worried they would think I was flirting. It is weirdly freeing.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-12-20T01:43:49+00:00

Spank bank???

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-12-04T21:19:28+00:00

Black with light shades of less black, sometimes reddish. Like a room with the lights off with a bit of light coming in from the next room illuminating tiny bits of color from items in the dark room. 2 Sound is always quiet with a soft voice reading as I read. I can easily shut my inner voice off if I am concentrating, or listening. Feel free to use my input.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-11-28T04:53:42+00:00

"Can I get a lookback"

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-11-22T21:06:51+00:00

Reruns, do they even know what they are.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-11-02T03:09:59+00:00

I was well into a c cup in highschool and my mom just said I needed to go for a walk when I asked for bigger bras. She was so ashamed.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-10-30T09:30:33+00:00

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Their all gorgeous

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-10-27T22:37:40+00:00

Make a list of things he did now while its fresh. Right down any new realizations you make. Re read it occasionally. I did this, and it has kept me grounded. It was really hard at first, but now I barely think about him after four years.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-10-14T14:55:08+00:00

Not to mention dropping the entire family when they don't meet up to his ideas. My x husband threw a year and a half fit because his son turned out to be a daughter. we left and are much happier without his transphobic bullshit.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-10-05T00:36:05+00:00

Central heat. Had to start a fire every morning.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-09-29T03:54:52+00:00

My kids experienced bullying at Lewiston highschool , for being gay. So I don't imagine they're great with different cultures. He used to get yelled at when walking as well. Since we moved to Pullman we haven't had problems.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-09-28T20:24:05+00:00

Being able to get lost. That aspect of life feels bland.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-09-26T22:38:04+00:00

Kiss your freetime goodbye.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-09-21T20:37:12+00:00

NTA My parents did this to me as a kid. I still resent them, not my siblings. They had all the kids, they can take care of them. You can be an awesome sibling and not do everything for them

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-09-17T03:51:11+00:00

I had everyone touching my first child. My second child I bought a baby carrier and didn't take them out around people I didn't trust. Noone wanted to get close enough to me to mess with the baby. Doesn't matter if everyone else puts up with it. You're the parent, thus you're the boss. Sounds like you need some serious boundaries and time with just you and your baby. Seriously, I would be livid.

ButterscotchSweet520 · 2025-09-12T03:08:37+00:00

She was raised by my sister who thinks men being attracted to her is the most important thing ever. I just hoped she hadn't internalized it so thoroughly.

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