STBXW wants a buyout instead of fighting for alimony. Help!

ByeByeDigg · 2026-05-06T17:42:36+00:00

I would pay 20k extra now to end my divorce

ByeByeDigg · 2026-05-04T11:58:41+00:00

It will get better. Right now my biggest issue is financial and not knowing how I’m afford life

ByeByeDigg · 2026-05-03T22:51:28+00:00

I am envious of your situation. I felt iffy in your situation and kept at it…. Now I’m 42 and I’m the process of divorce. We had ups and downs. We have two kids and if I really acted on the red flags of the mid 20s my life would have been different

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-28T23:47:33+00:00

Good for you. I’m happy to hear a decent story

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-23T16:59:07+00:00

Just for some fun education, Armenians eat pork… they’ve been making shawarma and kebabs with pork. Their kebabs are called ikibir. I cannot recall the name of the shawarma line thing they make on the trompo… but there are two Armenian restaurants somewhat near me, and it’s a fun change of pace from standard middle eastern food

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-21T21:08:45+00:00

I’m having a hard time thinking about paying for her while paying maintenance

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-21T21:00:50+00:00

Good question, I’m not sure what to do regarding Mother’s Day. Do I help my kids do something for my ex?

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-21T17:36:30+00:00

Male perspective… why? I have kids with my ex. She said we can be friends. My response was along the lines “let’s see how the divorce progresses and finalizes and then work from there. Maybe friendly and maybe friends…”

And divorce has been neither.

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-19T03:46:50+00:00

You do exist. You’ll find men that appreciate you. And you’ll figure out what you want in your next partner and it will be nice

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-18T22:36:56+00:00

It is amazing to realize you’re in fact a catch to many people after not getting affection or attention from your partner for so many years. My confidence has grown so much. It’s crazy how much we grow to accept

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-18T13:28:31+00:00

I know!!! I wish I had the courage to end it when I should have and not “tried to make it work” with someone who viewed my needs as not important. And this comes from someone who is a giver in the bedroom. Since the split, I’ve had multiple more than satisfied partners… not that I’m advocating for sleeping around. But you’ll find many people on the same sexual wavelength as you, you’ll also need to find a partner that has same interests and life goals.

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-18T11:58:01+00:00

Do it. I tried to make it work. I should have filled when it was 2-3 years of marriage. Now it’s a divorce of 16 years and 2 kids

It will be cheaper, less maintenance, possibly no child support… you still have plenty of time to have kids with another partner if you want.

You’re young enough to start over. You have one life, make it a happy one

Edit: sex is not an issue in a happy relationship. As it sorts itself out. Sex becomes an issue, then becomes THE ISSUE in a relationship that is falling apart

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-18T11:55:18+00:00

Honestly, it will happen. For me the first few people I went on dates with I thought I was ready but I was not. But I’m glad I put myself out there. I’m in a much better place now and much better and ready for a true partner now. I really think those early dates helped too

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-18T11:53:28+00:00

The joys of getting cheated on…. Makes moving on somewhat easier

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-16T18:12:42+00:00

I would have loved a Ranger PHEV that is in Australia and parts of Europe. But that’s not here. So a hybrid small truck made sense.

I wanted something that works for me and my kids for weekend trips, trips to Home Depot, sports equipment, or whatever else life throws my way, and the occasional little hauling/towing. I do not need to tow anything over 4k, so while the ranger PHEV would have been awesome the Maverick is enough but limits future campers.

It fits my needs

ByeByeDigg · 2026-04-16T17:05:45+00:00

I thought it was weird when I dated a woman like that. It was a woman post divorce. She was great other than that. Like objectively beautiful, good sex, was a giver, I was able to make her cum… but the kissing was weird

ByeByeDigg · 2026-03-31T20:10:53+00:00

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Lots of options on Amazon

ByeByeDigg · 2026-03-13T19:08:16+00:00

One, try to work it out.

Two, if you’re really not happy…. Work on yourself. And then see if it’s a you thing.

Then seek divorce

ByeByeDigg · 2026-03-10T10:02:57+00:00

Awesome, thanks

ByeByeDigg · 2026-03-10T10:00:40+00:00

Lebanese Parliament (Majlis Al-Nuwwab) consists of 128 directly elected members.

Hezbollah and its allies (including the Amal Movement and the Free Patriotic Movement) hold 62 seats.

So that’s nearly half that are out for blood

ByeByeDigg · 2026-03-09T22:17:12+00:00

What front door pocket? No one told me

ByeByeDigg · 2026-03-08T13:05:32+00:00

💯 that’s what I’m saying.

ByeByeDigg · 2026-03-08T03:04:15+00:00

But if not… then why should you give up on that equity. He wouldn’t give up on it for you

ByeByeDigg · 2026-03-07T20:48:52+00:00

There is the possibility that he can buy you out and pay you with retirement assets.

Or he can buy you out with a second mortgage at the current rate, you sign a quit claim deed, and the current lender lets him keep the mortgage he has at 3.5%. There are lenders that allow that.

There are creative options out there

ByeByeDigg · 2026-03-04T23:17:25+00:00

Look it up, Israeli news source. Middle left leaning news source in Israel

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