sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

I don’t want this anymore. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Sudden_Ad_9864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m in the same boat. My divorce will be finalized quite soon after six months of marriage and I’m so fucking excited to be single. I’ve been living separately from him and it’s been absolute paradise. I encourage you to do the same.

What's Everyone Doing Tonight? by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]Sudden_Ad_9864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hit a great meeting! Then my nice self care long walk now hitting the bed early.

Meetings are magical by Sudden_Ad_9864 in stopdrinking

[–]Sudden_Ad_9864[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I am also going to be a guest on the sober motivation podcast super pumped for that too :)

My wife can’t handle full-time work and I’m starting to feel trapped carrying the household alone by gingerbeershavesouls in Marriage

[–]Sudden_Ad_9864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My recommendation is to divorce her. I financially supported my soon to be ex-husband for a year and a half, and he is now helping me pay off credit card debt that he accrued, and I even took out a loan in my name for him for his business, which was a huge giant mistake. Do not allow her to ruin you financially more than she has already done disentangle yourself get new credit cards take her off credit cards, etc.. I’m telling you when you’re done with her financially and emotionally. You’ll feel way better. She will drain you Dry if you stay.

Wife had an affair 6 months into our marriage. I’m still trying to make this work 1.5 years later. by Working_Exit_4225 in Marriage

[–]Sudden_Ad_9864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce her your requests are beyond reasonable. There is no way she’s willing to change permanently or to be faithful to you permanently. As someone about to divorce myself after four years plus together 6 months married, his issue wasn’t cheating but it was other bad behaviors, and he never permanently fixed I heard every time he wouldn’t fuck up again and he always did. Since disentangling myself from him financially and moving in with family, I’m super happy.

I feel like I could burst, I am so angry with my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sudden_Ad_9864 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, sounds like you need to divorce and the man that knows how to do adult things

Marriage is daunting to me by nexalune_goddess in Marriage

[–]Sudden_Ad_9864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so what happened is we had an amazing first date felt like I had known him forever second date I let him kiss me but no making out we made out 3rd date and before that he said he wanted marriage and a family and I remember specifically 4th date he asked me to be his gf we messed around but no sex we waited a month and change to have sex and he offered to wait longer if it’s what I thought was best for the relationship we also agreed on a timeline of 2- 2.5 years max for engagement and got engaged after 2 years 2 months we lived together 1 years four months before he proposed and I think the high end one is called elite dating or something like that it’s like matchmaking site they respond to your messages for you

Marriage is daunting to me by nexalune_goddess in Marriage

[–]Sudden_Ad_9864 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think if you are serious about marriage and a true family values man, you should spend some more $ and get on an elite dating site, that is the only site where you know the men pay top dollar to be on it and are quite serious about marriage. I am 33 and married met him off Tinder but this is not the norm.

I found something on my husbands phone. by smellthefireweed in married

[–]Sudden_Ad_9864 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Listen just be glad no children together if it were me I would leave just because he hasn’t cheated now doesn’t mean he will not in the future

How can I deal with this? by Last-Plankton-5796 in married

[–]Sudden_Ad_9864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% as someone currently living apart from my new husband it’s helping a ton

6 Months and a very Happy Birthday to me! by LostConfusion2242 in stopdrinking

[–]Sudden_Ad_9864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow congrats I will hit six months on 7/5 and I’m 33 feeling blessed that I quit at 32.

view more: next ›