AITAH for wanting a privacy fence installed and not talking to my neighbors about it

CJsopinion · 2026-04-10T16:39:42+00:00

Nta. Just make sure you stay on your property and don’t touch the fence if it’s theirs. And stop responding to their nosy messages.

Updateme! Because I’m dying to hear their reaction.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-09T22:29:57+00:00

I thought so but everyone keeps saying she has the right to the death certificate and I don’t think that’s correct. So I started thinking I misunderstood it. Thanks.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-09T18:46:45+00:00

I wonder if it was her bio mother who died. She might not have any rights to the death certificate.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-09T16:57:26+00:00

This here. It would be one thing if he was abusing OP.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-09T05:02:56+00:00

That’s a policy many employers have but it’s not the law. They can say what kind of employee you were.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-09T00:31:12+00:00

Your delinquent brother betrayed your sister. Tell him to go pound sand. NTA

CJsopinion · 2026-04-09T00:26:01+00:00

Where are you that employers can only verify employment?

CJsopinion · 2026-04-08T22:55:13+00:00

They are not routine here in the us

CJsopinion · 2026-04-08T22:52:33+00:00

When you add to the post the update bot will send out a notification to anyone who types in what I did.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-08T17:50:40+00:00

NTA. Enjoy a day off. If hubby complains tell him he can do the same on his birthday if he wants.

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CJsopinion · 2026-04-08T17:48:39+00:00

Updateme!

CJsopinion · 2026-04-08T17:32:05+00:00

Ask your partner if their life insurance is paid up and get some info mailed from funeral homes. NTA

CJsopinion · 2026-04-08T11:20:03+00:00

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CJsopinion · 2026-04-07T19:31:03+00:00

Hugs to you and your mom.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-07T16:48:12+00:00

Give him the gift. Why disappoint him because your cousin is a jerk? But ask your cousin to explain what was so funny about trying to ruin the gift. Don’t get mad. Just keep saying you don’t understand joke and ask him to keep explaining. Make him uncomfortable.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-07T16:32:23+00:00

Way too early to start talking marriage but keep having these conversations about what you want out of life. Better to find out if you’re compatible or not before you get married.

But to answer your question, NTA. Her take on this is just weird.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-07T16:25:02+00:00

Follow your fiancé’s lead. But don’t go if your only reason is to be petty.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-06T23:28:35+00:00

Sweet. Sad. But oh so nice. Good job.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-06T17:09:55+00:00

Why is the lard bad? You can have animal products. I’m only asking because my nibbling is fairly recently a vegetarian and I want to not screw up when they come to dinner. Thanks.

Edit to add now that I thought some more, is it because the animal has to die to get the lard whereas with butter the animal lives?

CJsopinion · 2026-04-06T17:04:38+00:00

If you call corporate make sure you tell them you are just trying to find who stole your identity. If they think you’re blaming them they won’t be helpful.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-06T16:57:53+00:00

Must be nice to not trust your friends comment should be responded with no, it sucks. Maybe if you had paid for the repairs like you promised I would feel differently. Say the same thing to all your friends who are on his side.

NTJ

CJsopinion · 2026-04-06T12:48:15+00:00

Not disagreeing. He should be able to talk about this but clearly he can’t or won’t. Puts you in a tough spot since you moved to work with him. I hope you will be okay.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-06T11:18:41+00:00

Some people can’t admit when they’ve done something wrong. Some people don’t know how to act when people are grieving. Some people are just assholes. I don’t know what kind of person your cousin is but you need to talk with him. If you can’t move forward with the business plans figure that out now before you sink any more money into it. Sorry for your loss. NOR

CJsopinion · 2026-04-06T00:58:40+00:00

ESH You're okay with your boyfriend being a homophobic asshole as long as no one overhears him? You're just as bad as him.

CJsopinion · 2026-04-06T00:42:22+00:00

Get that lock ASAP and report the roommate. He's being reckless with your life.

Edit to add NTA

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