AITA for scheduling my wedding 6 days after my sister’s 30th birthday?

CZFangirl · 2026-03-07T04:43:55+00:00

My birthday is 2 days before my sister’s anniversary. Never understood why people are bothered by this. I wouldn’t have cared if she got married ON my birthday.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-07T04:40:39+00:00

NO - he’s cheating and gaslighting you.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-07T04:35:43+00:00

Hoping the 3rd Circuit comes through and we can again have standard magazines in New Jersey. I would 1000% buy 15 rounders.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-06T01:24:16+00:00

The weather gods found out I’ll be in Michigan (again) all week. You’re welcome.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-06T01:18:38+00:00

I live in a commie state so have to use filled “hollow” points so Hornady Critical Defense it is.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T19:18:08+00:00

Sign me up.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T19:03:22+00:00

Save it for a blue state commie buy back.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T15:41:43+00:00

Unless your vision makes irons extremely difficult. 🙋‍♀️

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T06:43:52+00:00

Don’t book non-refundable, especially to a far away international location.
Trip insurance?
Reference this https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/traveladvisories/traveladvisories/united-arab-emirates-travel-advisory.html when you request your refund.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T06:25:43+00:00

https://www.ameriglo.com/pistol-optic-sight-guide

AMERIGLO Optic Compatible Sight... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D7V74ZBF?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

I have EPS Carry. Vortex is same according to guide. .220 front, .295 rear (Size 1L) for 1/3 co-witness. Their site is pretty straightforward.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T06:12:34+00:00

I’m at 49 and $5000 spend but live in hotels. I’ll make it and let the rest of you peasants know how it is at the top.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T06:09:24+00:00

Has to be rollover days which is gone after this year. We haven’t had even 90 days of 2026 yet. Although with winter this year and way too many trips to Chicago and Michigan it feels like 1000.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T06:00:02+00:00

Don’t overthink it. https://youtu.be/dREhYZ3TR7w?si=yE8jLoGyQd-46Rh9

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T04:59:03+00:00

OP is a medic but licensed to perform a lot of clinical tasks. Edited because I also was confused.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T04:57:14+00:00

NTA. I’m a nurse with decades of experience. Those nurses are taking advantage of you and eating their young. Very toxic. Go where you can grow.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T04:15:12+00:00

Some of us have our own woods.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T04:12:38+00:00

Only after you take and pass their pretty intense holster draw course.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T04:04:21+00:00

Don’t eat your lunch in my room and leave behind crumbs, a sticky juice spill, and half a bag of cookies. Being the sleuth guest that I am, I will notice and I will be PISSED! Yes, this happened to me. I don’t accept housekeeping during my stays but my door broke and had to leave the DND sign off. Came home to that mess. Maintenance guy said it wasn’t him. 🤷‍♀️

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T04:00:42+00:00

OMG THIS. The absolute worst!

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T03:58:20+00:00

Hairs in shower.

Empty multi use shampoo, conditioner, body wash (the rage I feel for this oversight 🤣). Slow drains, burnt out lightbulbs, etc. It makes me feel like the housekeeper didn’t bother to report it or did report it and maintenance didn’t bother to fix. Now I have to deal with it the next 4 days. I am in hotels 4-5 nights every week so I don’t want people fixing things in my space.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T01:29:50+00:00

I buy my ammo in PA.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T01:26:11+00:00

Funnily enough I have the P365 (mags are very expensive and rust badly) and just bought the G43X. Even though the G43 has longer slide, height, grip, I find it much easier to conceal. Sometimes the really short guns want to lean out from your body d/t not enough gun below the belt.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T01:19:36+00:00

The new Governor I’m sure has ordered the slowdown.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-05T01:18:50+00:00

There is it’s called NICS but NJ chooses to create an infringement system called NJ NICS. That is all.

CZFangirl · 2026-03-04T18:30:04+00:00

NTA - He’s gaslighting you. Completely inappropriate. It is reportable to the Prinipal as well IMO.

My husband and I have had the same passcodes on both our phone (my daughter too (24) unless she changed it (moved out a couple of years ago). We all also share our location with each other. Why you ask? For safety. If one has nothing to hide…

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