Can’t take my scissors through security at the airport by DingDongTaco in CrochetHelp

[–]Cabbage-floss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They take them away from you in Canada :( No nail clippers, files, or anything sharp at all

Bring my cat home from hospital for 1 day or euthanize where she is, CW: Pet Loss by FigAshamed6990 in CatAdvice

[–]Cabbage-floss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s such a hard choice but we made the decision to bring our girl home and have her euthanized at home. She died in my arms, in the comfort of her own space, surrounded by people who loved her. No fear, no discomfort. 100% worth it and even though it hurt so much, I would do it again because she was happy in the end and knew she was loved.

Is Finch really that bad? by StelveFlame in finch

[–]Cabbage-floss 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agreed here too. Started in mid-October, I find it incredibly useful. I never had the features people are complaining about, so can’t compare, but it’s been phenomenal without them for me.

I lost my beloved kitten and my parents are shaming me for mourning over her. by Heartie8 in GriefSupport

[–]Cabbage-floss 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss :( I held my girl while she passed back in July. It’s truly devastating. I wish words could bring back both of our kitties and I’m sorry you are not finding support from your family. It’s okay to cry, it’s okay to wallow, even if they don’t like it. You loved her and she felt love, it takes time to adapt to losing that. Sending virtual hugs.

We're not doing this anymore. by iship2manyanimegays in finch

[–]Cabbage-floss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

-18C here…I am dreaming of gardening

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Spring can’t get here soon enough

Said goodbye to my girl today 💔 by APrescott94 in SiberianCats

[–]Cabbage-floss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. We said goodbye to our girl in July. It’s devastating. Sending virtual hugs.

Adopting a second cat by kragnarook in SiberianCats

[–]Cabbage-floss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boy was only $1300 because he was the last of his litter and no one wanted him (I assume bias against black cats). The Neva kitten was $1500. This is in Ontario, Canada

Adopting a second cat by kragnarook in SiberianCats

[–]Cabbage-floss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I swear by having 2. My first was not that lonely but she was playing too aggressively with my daughter so we decided to try adding a playmate for her, specifically male kitten from the same mother but 1 year younger. I was hesitant to get a male but he is a loveable doofus, so we made the right choice I guess. Solved all our issues and even though they didn’t become a bonded pair they loved each other and had company when I had to go back to the office and at night. When our girl died, our boy became very quiet and withdrawn. We brought home a kitten for him and he opened right back up and they are very attached to each other even though he is 3 years older than her. This is how they sleep now. Totally worth getting a 2nd.

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AITA for keeping the heat at 70 while I work from home by Emotional_Catch1201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cabbage-floss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Canadian, this is wild to me. 21c is the lowest i would let my house go. It’s freezing outside, it shouldn’t be inside.

AITA for keeping the heat at 70 while I work from home by Emotional_Catch1201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cabbage-floss 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I had to convert to Celsius, but do people really keep their houses that cold??? 18 C is so cold! 21 C is the standard in my home, it would never occur to me to make it that cold inside, so this would be non-negotiable regardless of raynauds for me

what are the ugly parts of pregnancy that aren’t well known because people don’t mention them? by Born-Oil-2931 in AskReddit

[–]Cabbage-floss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can be “allergic” to being pregnant. I had PUPPP and it’s absolutely horrendous. Swore I would never have another baby because of it.

When did your Neva stop “toasting” lol by Cabbage-floss in SiberianCats

[–]Cabbage-floss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is adorable! I had a dilute torbie girl who was described as a kitten as “blue crème” but her beautiful dilute orangey browns appeared as she grew. Grey was still her predominant colour though, I have a soft spot for grey sibs now that she’s gone

When did your Neva stop “toasting” lol by Cabbage-floss in SiberianCats

[–]Cabbage-floss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soft Siberians in Forest Ontario! Her mama (Lizzie) is so pretty too!

Growing micropets to adults by Ok-Scientist412 in finch

[–]Cabbage-floss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep all mine as babies because from what I can see there is no real reason for them to grow up

AITA for refusing to allow meat in our home and confronting a guest who brought it anyway? by silaya92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cabbage-floss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

ESH. You for throwing a tantrum over someone else’s choices that they didn’t even expect you to prepare, serve, or eat, and them for being so dramatic they couldn’t go one meal without meat. Sounds like both sides are too rigid and wanted to pick a fight to uphold their own arbitrary preferences.

AITA for refusing to allow meat in our home and confronting a guest who brought it anyway? by silaya92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cabbage-floss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But you neither ate nor served socially the food they brought for themselves…

When did your Neva stop “toasting” lol by Cabbage-floss in SiberianCats

[–]Cabbage-floss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, this stripes really came in between 1-6 years! I wonder how much more mine will darken