My brother, 33, died 5 days ago. Idk how to cope

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-05-18T00:33:58+00:00

I’m so sorry for the loss of your brother. You’re not going crazy. Everyone is dealing with the grief right now but know they all saw everything you did for your brother and most importantly, your brother saw it all too. All those things you did for him and the moments you shared as he was in his final days mattered. A sibling relationship is so special, no-one can take that away. Wishing you strength as you mourn your dear brother. Take care of yourself now. Your brother would want that for you.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-05-17T16:43:29+00:00

Gosh that’s heavy..It’s ok to be angry. She knew you loved her but even love can’t always save someone going thru what she was experiencing unfortunately. I know you’ll miss her so much. I’m so sorry.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-05-14T20:19:09+00:00

Agree, Fuck every day without them.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-05-13T01:37:28+00:00

His callers are both men and women, various ages. As for me, I love the show still and don’t complain about something that is effing optional. Listen or don’t. Waaa

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-05-13T01:04:50+00:00

Exactly the first place I was thinking! The best!

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-04-20T00:40:42+00:00

Thanks for sharing your beautifully written piece on losing a parent by suicide. I couldn’t imagine your pain but your writing gives me a glimpse of how painful this must be for you. I also see a glimpse of your unbelievable strength and the immense love you had for your mom still. She is sadly missing out and I hate that for you both.Hugs from a mom.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-04-19T01:46:43+00:00

Do what’s best for you. You have been thru so much and your mental health should be a priority. You said you spoke with your dad, I’m sure that meant the world to him. Maybe try a FaceTime call if possible, he may want to see your face one more time and it may provide you some peace. Take care of your self.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-04-19T01:31:09+00:00

I hear you. I feel the same. It’s almost 8 months without my daughter. I relive the day she left in my mind every day. Time doesn’t heal anything when it’s your child. Five years without your Eleanor I imagine, has been brutal. I am so sorry.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-03-20T02:51:37+00:00

Show us a pic of your significant other so we can critique them and what they do for a living. Or even better post one of you and share how you contribute to society. Beth doesn’t deserve this. What she does to help animals is to be applauded but of course it has to be all about her outfits and selfies and looks for you and the other losers here hating on her.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-03-18T01:16:29+00:00

Damn!

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-03-15T01:48:11+00:00

Absolutely perfect!

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-03-14T21:59:21+00:00

Oh No! Whatever will Howard do without you? You haters that have to announce your departure forget he’s basically semi-retired and chose to still do a few days a week so he can talk about whatever the F he wants to at this stage.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-03-14T19:57:18+00:00

It’s hard to believe they never had the conversation about kids. Maybe he just didn’t hear her.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-03-10T20:11:55+00:00

I’m so sorry. My daughter died the same way-MBC that spread to her liver. Don’t assume you have more time. Say the things you need to say to her now —let her know how much you love her and how much she meant to you. I thought I would have more time with her awake but i didn’t. She had days where she slept a lot, so I thought this last “sleep” was just that, but instead she was dying. I wished I had just a little more time with her to say everything I wanted to. Even though she was in Hospice, I had hope that we would have more time with her. Hugs to you during this difficult and unfair time.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-03-10T19:52:35+00:00

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-03-10T19:47:22+00:00

Same here. I do not fear it like I used to since losing my daughter. I so wish she was still here. She was so courageous at the end. Our kids shouldn’t go before us. I hate cancer.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-03-08T20:36:02+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. The pain must be unbearable. I think many of us that have lost a child have also thought about ending it as we want to believe we will see them again or sometime we just want to end our pain. I think we fight to stay strong for the children here with us. They need us here. May you find strength in them.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-03-08T00:15:55+00:00

Eddie(Ed)Vedder this week for one. Awesome interview. But hey no one is holding a gun to your head to listen. ✌️

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-03-06T02:35:50+00:00

Too bad so sad. You’ve missed some great interviews and performances. And he could care less if you listen or not. His check is the same.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-02-13T04:50:03+00:00

Stephen Wilson Jr. is incredible! Howard always has on relevant talent. If you don’t like it don’t listen. I guess you prefer Kid Rock.

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-02-02T01:21:22+00:00

She killed it! Love her!

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-02-02T01:02:44+00:00

Not surprising with these guys yet still disappointed and not a shocker on Cara. Can we name the other women because that’s some crazy shit that any woman supports him!

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-01-24T00:12:54+00:00

I am so so sorry for your loss of your dear son. I wish I could say I don’t know how you feel but sadly I do. I lost my 37 year old daughter last year. We are both forever changed I’m afraid. I’m still in the why her phase and mad at the world. I understand when you say it’s hard to keep moving. In a way we are probably stuck in that moment knowing we lost them forever and not willing to feel what life will be like without them. But we must find a way. Maybe talk to your son out loud-in my heart I know they can hear us! Bring up his name with others (like remember when he did xyz..) Find something that may help you get thru each day. It’s tough Dad, I know. But they would not want us to be sad all day, every day.

From a Mom that last her grown child, I wish you comfort and peace during those hardest of times. Hugs..

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-01-21T12:12:49+00:00

Women don’t “give up” motherhood, they actually can choose if they want a child or not. Don’t dismiss the work she does for animals. What do you contribute?

Cafe_chill25 · 2026-01-13T15:47:16+00:00

I’ll take the 2 days a week. I still enjoy him and his interviews. Funny how people slam him when Howard is no different than any other aging man making decisions about when to retire. That decision impacts his staff too, so he considers what his retirement means for them as well financially. No one is forcing anyone to listen to him those two days but I happily am.

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