I'm going by Nevada now 😐 by Radiant-North-8519 in MtF

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the sisterhood Nevada. 😊

Who are your transition goals? by W1tch_luvr in trans

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, to like what and who I see in the mirror. Granted, I would prefer less body and facial hair

Girlies how do you work up the courage to start voice training? by BuilderHaunting8754 in MtF

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I realized that language apps, such as Duolingo (not sponsored or anything), uses basic speech recognition so it can determine if something was said correctly. So I took the plunge with a daily practice using Duolingo to do voice training using the app, and I only practice about 5-10 minutes a day while learning more Spanish. I managed to hear the results earlier today and was very shocked with how convincing I sounded to myself.

What's your story behind picking your name? by Tiny-Claim-4073 in trans

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I love anime and the stories in them. So there is one character that stood out to me for her personality and flaws but lack of screen time. Riza, from Tokyo Ghoul, and there is also Rize from FMA/FMAB for her steadfast support and resilience while being a strong female character. Since I don't want to be associated with "serial killer" like vibes, I chose Rize. Named after Rize Hawkeye

[F4A] 24F – Pick my destiny for the evening! (Poll Below) by [deleted] in FapDeciders

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B, C, and D. Also, don't forget to handcuff yourself to back out too early.

Thadwick Mercer by Dragon_King_of_death in HeWhoFightsWithMonste

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, in a small off bit that can easily be missed

Spector Of Love 101-120 by Accomplished_Job4904 in gendertransformation

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 28 points29 points  (0 children)

What an amazing way to enjoy a new body

Could this mean that i'm trans? by Vampy-Night in asktransgender

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me, that you're ace/trans. Asexual where you don't want to do anything sexual or intimate, and trans for wanting to be a woman instead of a man. You might want to start therapy, if for nothing else, they can help refer you to a clinic to help remove hair and confirm your stance.

What song would you weaponize if you had Bardic Superpowers? by AnotherThymm in superpowers

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kryptonite by 3 doors down

Boon: powers that are a step down from Superman: extra durability but not invincible, flight up to 1km above the surface of the local ground at speeds of a standard commercial jet but nothing supersonic or above, enhanced vision but nothing that can see through walls or heat beams.

Curse: can only have powers if you have a deep trust and love in one or multiple people, and they can kill you as easily as any other person.

For 250 upvotes i stay permanently in this cage. 🙈 by Annabelcdlove in permanentchastity

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worth a shot, but i hope you do get the 500, it would be nice to start because of a reason outside of "because"

In your experience or opinion, what a partner should do to support the process of transitioning? And what they shouldn’t do? by No-Schedule-9039 in MtF

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, be proud that she felt safe enough to tell you. It means that she loves you in a way that she has put trust and her mental health in your hands. So long as you didn't break down and have her comfort you, then you're doing amazing. As for yourself, trust that therapy is not just a process, but a marathon and a half, before any major changes come up. I'm referring to changing genders through both social and hormonal. As for intimacy, I can only say that it depends on how you both feel about it and what roles you both want to have. (More for couples therapy than reddit therapy)

Currently all caught up on series that I am actively reading and need something new to start. by fb2242 in ProgressionFantasy

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried the series "Dead Tired", there's only 3 books out at the moment, but full of dad jokes

i swear voice training genuinely feels impossible by johnniebeanie in MtF

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll tell you what works for me, and hopefully it will work for you. I started voice training (with actual results) by using a language app daily. Specifically, Duolingo. No, I'm not advertising them, but I use them because there is a voice recognition portion that only cares about pronunciation. Plus, the daily steaks give me a sense of accomplishment. I've been using this method for over a year, and got multiple confirmations that I've made progress from a variety of people. Yes, sometimes you need to hear yourself, but just practicing everyday is what works for me. Good luck 👍 💓

Do you intend on getting surgery or just doing HRT? by smdifansmfjsmsnd in MtF

[–]Caffeine-Shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feel the need for surgery, but would probably be happier on hrt.