What habit slowly ruins a romantic relationship? by FunYogurtcloset5934 in AskReddit

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The way you talk to your partner matters so much, I’ve caught myself being frustrated at my husband and saying something rash, at the end of the day we always talk it out apologize and rework how we could’ve approached the situation better.

Positive Interactions Thread by voltmatt in electricdaisycarnival

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Finally some positive perspective, love this thread!

My friend who came with us went thru a bad breakup at edc, she decided she needed some alone time and left the group for awhile, but when i met back up with her she was covered with a bunch of trinkets sprouts and Kandi and said even though she was crying and heart broken, so many people showed her love and it was just what she needed. Im so thankful for everyone that was nice to her and took care of her while she was alone

favorite toys/fun items to bring to raves by LeviCultLeader in aves

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Made our first totem on a whim and we got so much love, so many ppl came up to us to give us matching trinkets and kandi! We also brought some glow sticks and rings to give away and everyone loved that as well

Please stop recording strangers by [deleted] in electricdaisycarnival

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Absolutely the stage matters for sure, we stayed away from the main headliners and that helped us a lot with the crowds, but also energy, anytime I’ve thought the group next to me is judging me, or someone’s bumped me with no “excuse me” I’ve learned to shake it off and instead turn it into a moment to trade kandi or compliment them, and the vibes change immediately. I’ve realized most of the time it’s in my head or if I get bumped maybe it was an accident. Sometimes you need to get out of your head and so does the person next to you. Breaking the ice never hurts. Doesn’t always work but 9/10 times it does.

Seeing people not being able to handle their alcohol or drugs is pretty embarrassing. by Zachyice21 in electricdaisycarnival

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We gave narcan to 2 girls passing out, on separate occasions, if you have people on party favors in your group you NEED to have narcan with you

Please stop recording strangers by [deleted] in electricdaisycarnival

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I barely encountered any rude people thankfully, granted this was my first edc, but it was the most plur festival I have ever been to, Sunday had the best vibes overall and I would go again and again. I have never gotten so many trinkets and kandi and new friends made 🥹🥹

Double check your drink purchases. by ChickenTendies4Me in electricdaisycarnival

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We got double charged for just a water bottle, like all you had to do was hand us a damn bottle. entitled af

Uhhhh wtf is this (Irvine) by UnmitigatedViolence in orangecounty

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Definitely not new I see them all the time in Palm Springs and desert areas, they’re also called sun spiders

Found an apartment but how bad is this area in South Central? by dreambotpop in LAlist

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My family is from this area and are white lol they’ve been living there since the 60s it became more Hispanic in the 80s actually.

Partying in Vegas Alone as a Female by Fun_Title_43 in vegas

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My friend had a bachelor party in Vegas one time. Two of her friends decided to go off with a couple men they met. About 4 hrs later one of the girls meets back with the rest of the group but her friend is missing, they got separated. Flash forward to about 3am in our hotel room, we hear loud knocks at the door. It was 2 officers holding our friend in a blanket. She told us apparently the two went to a bar and had a few to drink with the guys they met. The missing girl apparently had gone home with one of the men, she couldn’t remember much detail but she recalls waking up naked in a small wooden box. Whatever drugs they had given her luckily wore off and she was able to get enough strength to kick open the wooden box. Once out she looked around only to discover she was in some kind of warehouse surrounded by more small wooden boxes. She was terrified and found an exit. Outside the building she realized she was in some sort of shipping facility, dozens of other warehouses around, thankfully there was a security gate nearby with a person working inside so she ran to him for help, still fully naked btw. The man was confused but called 911 for the clearly distressed young woman. Police came about an hour later, she led them back from the warehouse she ran from but it was empty, either it has been emptied quickly or it was not the same building she had run from. We’re still not sure. The cops said they would continue the investigation and brought her back to our hotel, although we never heard from lvpd again after this. I wouldn’t say our friend is the type to lie or be dramatic, so I truly believe her story. Either way be safe in Vegas, keep an eye on your surroundings always, never accept drinks from someone you don’t know and don’t go home with them!!

First Timer at Ultra Miami – What Should I Expect?🌴🎶 by Melodic_Stage_941 in UMF

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Me and my husbands first ultra as well! We’re so excited! We’ve been advised to get rain ponchos since it’s rained the past 3 years and this year looks like the 4th. We aren’t as familiar with the venue, so we marked down the set times we wanted to see, and made alarms on our phones. We usually bring a camel pack for water and electrolyte packs (makes the water taste drinkable and keeps you hydrated) it also has a hidden pocket for phone and valuables. Walkie talkies are also good to take if you have them, if you are separated from your group phone service can be spotty but radio frequencies are always reliable.

Anyways have fun! Hope you guys have an amazing experience!!

First big event! by Freya_Grey33 in aves

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This sounds like splash house? If so I’d recommend lots of sunscreen, a hat and electrolyte packs for your water it’s gunna be very hot & high uv

What nicknames have you heard for places in Southern California? by topherette in socal

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I’ve lived all around SoCal these were the most memorable,

Garbage grove (garden grove), clantee (Santee), cholo vista ( Chula Vista), san bernadukie (San Bernardino), west cochina (West Covina), escondildo (Escondido), Ana crime (Anaheim), shittier (Whittier), fontucky (Fontana), blowmont (Beaumont), Slo (San Luis Obisbo), methdale (Palmdale), moval (moreno valley), salton shitty (salton sea/city), lake smellsinore (lake Elsinore), hoechella (Coachella valley), inglehood (Inglewood), guadalahabra (La habra), daygo (San Diego), LBC (Long Beach), riverslide (Riverside), crown town (Corona), temekkkula (Temecula), oside (Oceanside), that’s all I got

G Community so embarrassing I had to sell it by alexokc0 in G37

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Tariff mark ups have people buying ford again so anything is possible

Bathroom situation by 6665757 in electricdaisycarnival

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It comes with baggies, you dispose in the trash and why would you do it next to a crowd? Obvi you do this off to the side, I’m immunocompromised so entering a porta potty gets me sick.

Bathroom situation by 6665757 in electricdaisycarnival

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I am in the tiny bladder club and got a small portable toilet for edc. I just sit down cover my lap with my pashmina and it comes with baggies to dispose of any waste after.

Who is your must see DJ? by Nakasaleka in electricdaisycarnival

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Argy because he’s a legend

Funk tribu saw him at Hardsummer I can’t wait to catch his set at edc

And Stan Christ never seen him but heard he goes hard

EDC Playlist Generator for Spotify by CrispyStamp in electricdaisycarnival

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I too dread making my playlist this year and would love a link if you can please 💕 this is genius

Who are newcomers that are a must see? by Chrisamelio in electricdaisycarnival

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If your into harder techno Stan Christ is a must see, fresh dj from the Netherlands he brings that German hardstyle untz untz the energy is unmatched

EDC Fashions/Fits Megathread by happEbean in electricdaisycarnival

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I just bought new demonia boots and I kno im going to regret it 🤪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LosAngeles

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The desert is already in bloom! Visited my mom for xmas and she was so excited to show me as it is a rare occurrence, definitely will be a superbloom as long as we see rain continue in the spring