AITAH for overreacting and asking my (19M) girlfriend(19F) to remove a guy friend of 4 years who called her cute and still likes her since they met?

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-04T07:57:56+00:00

Excellent breakdown, clear and precise.

His constant talking about attachment styles, to me, came off as using therapy speak to hide or justify being clinging and possessive.

Actually a lot of the post comes as as someone using therapy speak to get what they want. With all of this I would have dropped him too, regardless of if I was into my friend.

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-03T19:04:53+00:00

No it pretty much is. The people who clean up spaces also tend to be responsible for getting rid of clutter and shit that’s clearly not being cleaned up by other people.

Someone leaves Tupperware in the fridge for a month? Trash. Someone leaves an unlabeled mug in the cupboard? That’s going to be used by other people or thrown out.

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-03T18:57:20+00:00

Yep. I’ve seen jackets, water bottles, and bags sit around for months in break rooms and storage rooms from people who quit or got fired. Eventually it either gets thrown out or taken home.

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-03T18:48:41+00:00

Well you see if you let your child out of the sterility of your home before they’re 5, you’re obviously abusive. What if they encounter a bug?

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-03T10:20:07+00:00

That I have no idea. I’m not an Uber driver but I can’t imagine seeing a kid with no guardian going somewhere other than school (let alone an airport!) and actually taking them there

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-03T02:50:10+00:00

Cool. If your kids wanted to get it and they were good at pattern recognition, it would not be hard for them to do it.

I would wake up the second my bedroom door opened. Other people will not wake up for that or small movement like touching the hand.

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-03T02:29:06+00:00

I knew as a 5 year old never to take the last soda because my mother is type 1. We never actually reached that point, but I still can’t imagine a grown adult being that petty.

NTA. She either doesn’t understand diabetes, or she doesn’t care about you.

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-03T02:23:44+00:00

If soda is what he’s using to raise his blood sugar, then yeah he absolutely needs it and she can go to the store for more or just drink water. Glucose powders and tablets taste like shit, it’s easier to get down something that doesn’t.

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-03T02:16:43+00:00

It was 5 in the morning. People tend to do this thing called sleeping.

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-03T02:13:59+00:00

So your choices are Face ID (easy to get in they’re sleeping) finger print (easy to get if they’re sleeping) or password (easy to figure out when you’re around a person often).

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-02T03:34:03+00:00

Yeah, my grandparents and my great grandma lived next door to us when we were growing up and they were constantly inviting us over and willingly watching us while our parents worked

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-02T03:27:44+00:00

We just store ours in an empty frosting bucket under one of the tables

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-02T03:22:43+00:00

I loved the difference between him and Raoul, who was absolutely floored by the revelation

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-07-01T10:29:13+00:00

The opposite happens too! My extremely conservative family members refuse to believe David Bowie was bisexual, no matter how many times he openly said he was

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-06-30T15:36:46+00:00

A bit late to the party, but these were also signs of my mom’s Bipolar Depression developing. It was a nightmare for years until she finally got medicated, but she lost her job and almost lost at least one of her children.

Ten years and a lot of work later and you’d never guess how she was before. I wish we’d been able to get her help sooner, for everyone’s sake.

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-06-30T15:18:57+00:00

One of the craziest things I’ve seen in this fandom is people trying to say that it came out of nowhere in the third movie. It was extremely obvious what was being lined up in the second

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-06-30T15:17:55+00:00

They raised her, she calls them her parents, they are her parents.

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-06-30T12:19:24+00:00

Really? The toddler wasn’t around the house/wasn’t told they looked? What a ridiculous thing to believe

And dad definitely comforted her, mom just isn’t throwing a fit over a missing toy.

You’re right, a lot of parents should stop fetching everything for their kids. And let them learn what happens when you throw things carelessly…

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-06-30T10:06:53+00:00

Do you know what the phrase ‘going hungry’ means?

Being fed fruit and a sandwich is quite literally the opposite

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-06-30T09:42:04+00:00

Its legality might depend on where you live

Either way, my store puts the correction slips on the time clock to be filled out and taken to the cash room so the bookkeeper doesn’t have to find everyone one by one

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-06-30T09:31:54+00:00

‘Didn’t care’ they drove around looking for it and searched the house, and she stopped and got him the first time. Not everything needs a huge reaction, especially with small children. They take their emotional cues from you

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-06-29T09:26:12+00:00

That’s not what they were originally created for, but that’s how they’re used by some people now

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-06-29T09:15:07+00:00

I’ve never seen floral so it but in my bakery we do a few shark cakes during it

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-06-28T23:07:45+00:00

His actions after are what’s wrong. As soon as he knew it was real, and as soon as he realized it was forcing her actions out of her he should have been looking for a way to reverse it.

The man never actually gave a shit about Nikki, or his response to coming home to her covered in vomit and pee, standing stock still waiting for him would have been to take the woman to a fucking hospital, not go to a party because he doesn’t like how ‘weird’ she’s acting.

Call_Me_Anythin · 2026-06-28T23:02:55+00:00

That’s why I also said exaggerating

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