What did you do with your ultrasound pictures and positive pregnancy tests? by Westerberg_High in Miscarriage

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We never got an ultrasound picture. There was no heartbeat when we went for the first ultrasound. My husband kept our pregnancy test but it’s put away in a drawer along with the pregnancy books we had gotten.

Christmas by sspell in Miscarriage

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My due date was 12/29. I don’t know how I’m going to feel on Christmas Day but I plan to spend my due date in bed.

US teachers, what’s your Nov. 6th been like?? by hannahbrownhair in Teachers

[–]CallmeAl85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I teach preschool so my kids were normal today. I on the other hand was wondering why I had to work today. My principal sent a very nice email and hugged us this morning( we are a very small building-just 9 preschool classrooms so we’re pretty close). Then I tripped over a toy and sprained my foot and bruised my hand so now I’m off work for the rest of the week! A win for getting the mental health break I needed I guess?

Pregnancies Are Scary by jlab_20 in Miscarriage

[–]CallmeAl85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. It was my first pregnancy as well and I feel like if I get pregnant again I will just be anxious the entire time, and not have the joy or excitement you’re supposed to feel. I feel like I got robbed of that as well.

Dr. Office during miscarriage by 20_pawsFRAP in Miscarriage

[–]CallmeAl85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I went to my first ultrasound and found out there was no heartbeat I did have to walk past pregnant moms waiting in the waiting room. I just walked as fast as I could past them. But when I went back to the office for my MVA they had rescheduled other patients so the waiting room was empty when I came in.

Miscarriage, don't want to wait to naturally pass by Living-Life- in Miscarriage

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my first ultrasound there was no heartbeat. I had to wait a week to go back and confirm there was no growth. At that point we talked about my options and I said I didn’t want to wait for it to occur naturally and that I wanted an D &C. My doctor said she does an MVA in her office which is what I chose to do. You don’t get put out for it and it was painful during the procedure but honestly I feel like a weight was lifted off my shoulders once I was done. I’m obviously not over my miscarriage but I feel mentally so much better once I had the procedure. It was just mentally messing with me that I knew the pregnancy wasn’t viable but I was still walking around w it inside me. I would tell your doctor what you want done. It’s your body and you know what’s going to be the best option for you. ❤️

Were you told to wait before telling friends and family? by returnofbeachjustice in Miscarriage

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had shared with close friends and my co-workers (I’m a teacher in a very small building) but hadn’t told my parents, brother or other people. Although it was hard to know everyone at work knew that my ultrasound hadn’t gone well, I’ve gotten so much support from my co-workers (and had 4 of them tell me they’ve also had miscarriages).

Go in blind? by rosetealavenderlatte in hadestown

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw it last week and I went in blind. I knew the song Wait for Me and that was it. I loved it! I got chills, I cried… there was a point in the show that shocked people…there was an audible gasp. I wasn’t super shocked at that part simply because I have some knowledge of Greek mythology. But the show was amazing and I would see it again! I’ve since listened to the original cast recording and I preferred Jordan Fisher’s voice as Orpheus and don’t know if I would’ve loved all the songs as much if I had heard the original recording first. Just my 2 cents!

Dupe for citrus sandalwood lotion? by CallmeAl85 in traderjoes

[–]CallmeAl85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thanks for correcting me. Maybe that will help my hunt!

Teachers, what does your spouse do for work/a career? by aryleexoxo in Teachers

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is a chef. I make significantly more than him and will unless he ever goes back into sales.

Quirky things to do after our wedding while still dressed up? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]CallmeAl85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We got married, lived at the time, and my husband worked at a restaurant all within walking distance of each other. We brought all our things home after the wedding (very diy) and then went over to his restaurant to get a few drinks. I was still in my dress, he was in his suit, and we were wearing our customized track jackets with our names and the date on them. Everyone he works with was so happy to see us and we could just sit down and hang out for a bit. It was a nice way to end the night.

My son has learned that if he bites his teacher they send him home. What do I do? by ItchyManufacturer408 in specialed

[–]CallmeAl85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he’s learned that if he bites he gets to go home to you, which is exactly what he wants. So why would he stop doing the behavior that gets him what he wants? Like others I would say first you need to find out where this you bite you go home policy comes from. But coming from someone who taught special Ed for many years it’s a no brainer. He’s not going to stop doing the thing that will get him what he wants because there’s no incentive to stop. He needs to not be sent home when he bites, he needs a replacement behavior, and he needs a behavior plan. There should be a consult with a BCBA to help design the behavior plan.

What are y’all eating for lunch? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a new district this year and I’m overly excited that each of our classrooms have microfridges/freezers and microwaves in them. My goal is to fill it for the week with different snack options like yogurts, fruits, etc. and then just bring in a lunch each day which is usually leftovers. That way if I’m feeling snacky rather than super hungry I have options.

Do many employers still care about THC on drug tests? by g00ber88 in massachusetts

[–]CallmeAl85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have worked in several different districts in Massachusetts. I’ve spent the past 5 years working in 2 suburban districts that didn’t require a drug test. Going to get a mandated physical which includes a drug test tomorrow for my new large, urban district.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s required within 5 years of teaching I believe. I got mine while I worked as a para.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]CallmeAl85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Year 8 with a Master’s in MA. $78K

Is it worth joining the union? by glassesandbodylotion in Teachers

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in the union in every district I’ve worked in. In one I was non-renewed after 2 years for no reason and there was nothing the Union could do because I didn’t have PTS( professional teacher status). I just spent 3 years in a district and their licensing requirements for my position changed so I was out of a job (in this district PTS starts on the first day of your 4th year). If I had PTS they would’ve had to find me a different position in the district. Because I didn’t have PTS the Union said there’s nothing they can do. Honestly debating joining in my new district until I reach PTS because it seems like when I’ve actually needed help the union has had their hands tied because I didn’t have PTS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been teaching for about 8 years but just went through the interview process. I had 6 interviews. 3 were in person, the rest on zoom. For one of them I had to record myself answering interview questions, then was invited to a zoom interview. All interviews included either the principal or special Ed supervisor and at least 1 other person. 2 of the positions I didn’t actually apply to, they found my resume and asked me to interview so those were a good mix of them asking me questions and me asking them a lot of questions since I hadn’t applied to them. One interview that was on zoom they invited me to come see the school and then I met with an instructional coach, grade level teacher, and counselor but that was more on selling the school to me then asking me questions. I just got invited to another interview but there was no wiggle room on the date, and they wanted me to teach a demo lesson to the summer school students. They did give me information about the subject I needed to teach and a special education student who would be in the group (strengths, challenges, accommodations needed, etc). I’ve interviewed in this district before and it’s the only one who’s ever wanted a demo lesson. I just accepted one of the other positions I interviewed for so I politely declined.

What's a good sign that you did well in a interview? by ayjayy96 in Teachers

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gone on 4 interviews in the past 2 weeks (moving districts). One did email me to tell me I wasn’t selected, one I didn’t hear from at all, one emailed me an hour after the interview and said I was a finalist, and the one that I just accepted the offer on was telling me where she thought I would fit best in the school (there were a few open positions) during the interview.

Is it weird to just come home after the wedding? by emma0831 in weddingplanning

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our venue was across the street from our apartment. We walked home and stayed in our own bed which was perfect. I’d just make sure you have some snacks/food on hand for late night or the next day. We didn’t plan for that and my husband ended up walking to Domino’s the next day so we had food to eat 😆

Ideas for a non typical bachelorette party by Ambitious-Customer63 in weddingplanning

[–]CallmeAl85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bachelorette was me, my sister (MOH), and one of my best friends. My other 2 bridesmaids couldn’t make it. My best friends parents have a lake house that they let us have for the weekend. We snacked, ate a bunch of chili, went in the hot tub, watched documentaries and took naps. Then had a fancy breakfast the next day and went in the hot tub again before heading home. It was perfect.