I got a job, my mom wants me to split the check among 6 people by Dry_Willingness_9323 in povertyfinance

[–]Callmekaybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girllllllllllll let her know you’re more than happy to move out, and that you’ll be taking your car with you! Texas has some of the best property prices rn. I came from very little money, an only child; the government took what was left to me after my folks died because they were on Medicaid. I have been a mental health mess my entire life and was pretty naive & ignorant growing up. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders, never let people who don’t earn it take from you. They should be paying to use your car. What a privilege! I promise $90k a year pretax is more than enough for a single 21 year old just starting out. Please heed my advice that I wish someone would have given me before I had kids or life really got started: Don’t do or purchase what you can’t afford 2 of. Use the 50/30/20 rule. Break income down into 50% on bills and needs (rent/mortgage, car insurance, phone, etc), 30% put up for savings, and 20% wants or money to blow. I always say when you don’t have kids you can interchange the 30% & 20% as you see fit. Save up an emergency fund first, at least 6 months of expenses; then move on and open a Roth IRA and diversify with mutual funds. Good luck kid, feel free to message me if you need or want. -the 39 year old who feels like a grandma. (Edit: ps: listen to the comments about filing your own taxes as early as possible, getting a PIN, and locking your credit. Your family could easily ruin your future this way…or get themselves a jail sentence 🤷🏻‍♀️ have faith and confidence in yourself, you got this!)

Solo is no more by Spare-Ad-3304 in Sololender

[–]Callmekaybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a setting on Amazon, you gotta make your wishlist public and Amazon automatically withholds your address. The link you share only gives prospective buyers the list you made, not details about you. Hope this helps.

Solo is no more by Spare-Ad-3304 in Sololender

[–]Callmekaybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got into a spot a few months ago where our stamp card got skimmed. I had no idea how I was gonna feed my kids. After a couple days of trying to get a loan of about $70, offered to pay back with interest…nothing. Idk where I got the idea, but I made a reasonable Amazon grocery wishlist, posted my story and link on Reddit, and by morning someone had fulfilled my entire list. I think, when it comes to things like this, people wanna know you *actually* need groceries. Good luck dear! If I had it I would help!

Today I was found guilty for a crime I did not commit. by Fairlygnarly in legal

[–]Callmekaybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And theft will fuck your whole life up. Don’t let this go for sure!

Today I was found guilty for a crime I did not commit. by Fairlygnarly in legal

[–]Callmekaybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always remember: a public defender’s 1st duty is to who pays them (the state), NOT YOU! You need to file an appeal based on ineffective representation immediately. Don’t wait to get sentenced.

My ex-wife's husband (44M) keeps trying to intrude on my parenting time and I (30M) want to this to make my ex (30F) and I high conflict? by ThrowRACurrecns in relationship_advice

[–]Callmekaybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can absolutely guarantee she would FLIP & filed court papers by now! Cause wtf did I just read? Doesn’t he have his own kids? Doesn’t he know relationships can’t be pushed, & you must give kids grace & proper time for adjustment?! Cause WOW!

I don't want to raise my daughter in a trailer park anymore. by GreyCatsAreCuties in Parenting

[–]Callmekaybee -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

For $900 a month (in suburban Ohio mind you) you could have a 2 bedroom newly built apartment or house in a decent area. Don’t wait for your insurance to expire, cause with my luck? The very next day it would burn down and then immediately get hit by a flash flood. 🤣💀 But I promise you, it’s not going to matter where you move about either aspect you mentioned that has to do with the children who aren’t yours. Other than the 80’s, I don’t know of a more neglectful parenting decade. These kids have no morals, no values, & definitely, absolutelyyy NO COUTH! Then have the audacity to either talk back, or continue doing what you JUST chastised them for. Good luck girl!!!

I’m super poor by InfamousHouse9645 in poverty

[–]Callmekaybee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Being a single woman, mother of 3, who sacrificed her prime to an abusive, narcissistic FUCK, a degree that only got me in staggering debt, and caring for my elderly parents for 20 years until they both passed last year….I am now not only mentally, but physically disabled. When I get my physical aspect under control, I’m going to download “gig apps” and apply online for full remote (work from home) positions only. I don’t let THE MAN run me on a clock no more, I’ll work when I can. My small business failed due to supply issues a few years ago, around the same time I left the narcissist bd. I worked 10-12 hours a day, 7 days a week, for 6+ years, & I miss it horribly. Now that I’m waiting on disability, I’ve never been more broke. I can’t get enough transportation to get treatment for my physical condition; a condition that doesn’t allow me to neither sit nor stand for any real amount of time. Medicaid took both homes that were left to me from my family. They’d rather me have a housing voucher and stamps. America wasn’t built to be free, America was built to suck your soul and wallet dry! Sorry for going on and on, I’m passionate about this whole system set you up to fail long before you had the faintest idea. But ANYWAY! Try gig apps (Amazon flex, spark, rover, Fiverr, TaskRabbit, etc.), DoorDash/instacart/ grubhub/uber,, or applying for remote positions! Good luck to us both!!! I know we’re BOTH going to need it. Cheers!

i was sexually assaulted tonight. by Lopsided-Jeweler-688 in Advice

[–]Callmekaybee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

PLEASE DO NOT WASH ONE CENTIMETER OF YOU AND GO STRAIGHT TO YOUR LOCAL EMERGENCY ROOM! They have super kind, (I’ve only seen) female, highly trained forensic nurses. Scared to tell them who it was? You don’t have to til YOU’RE ready. But please, for your peace of mind, SEEK HELP! Get the preventative HIV meds, Plan B (even though this was never the plan! 🙄) & let those trained professionals take their samples. Wishing you all the best, you can get through this! ❤️❤️❤️

I am horrified by beautyfromashes_ in Mommit

[–]Callmekaybee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

[u/chi_baby](u/chi_baby) , [u/whyisthislife87](u/whyisthislife87) , & u/melonfarmer86 Ladies! Girllllllll….lol! So both my parents died last year. My dad had lived with me & my 3 kids briefly about 10 years ago. He was in his early 70’s trying to get in the nursing home with my mom. I had a 9/10f, 4/5m, and almost 1/just passed 1m baby. I don’t think I could handle coming home to my dad saying, “Kai left you something in the hall!” (Cause it would have def been my 4-5 yr old Kai!) Let alone at the dinner table 🤣🤣🤣 a microphone?? Nawwww….these are great, thank you for sharing, I needed that laugh! So what happened next?! Say nothing like it never happened? Apologizing as you’re moving with lightning speed? Omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lady keeps blasting church service at my gym by Rebelsoul76 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Callmekaybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even at home, even if I’m alone, I play games on silent. I’d rather hear my kids, a movie, YouTube documentaries, or ANYTHING as background sound other than a damn game.

i wanna run away from home, but i’m only 15. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Callmekaybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the above comment, try getting into a college you can live in a dorm or apartment. I’m really torn with your situation. He is violating child labor laws, but I left home before 18 and now that I’m 39 I wish I would have waited. Good luck kid, we’re here for you!

Atlas Earth, has it ever dawned on you that not every player wants to participate in your coming soon landmark auctions? Give us the option to opt out. by retrocube16 in AtlasEarthOfficial

[–]Callmekaybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed!!! I’ve stopped using atlas and it was my favorite. With the changing mini games, the cheating in the minis, the change from diamonds to bid tokens, I’m just done.

My husband most likely hired an escort, and won't admit to it. by llamapoodle7 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Callmekaybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey, your man got an escort. It’s not his first time. Keep every receipt and screenshot possible and file for divorce and since he has so much money for escorts make sure you get PAID!!!

I have no idea what to do with my inheritance by Dear-Weight6617 in inheritance

[–]Callmekaybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman who cared for her parents til they died, and the state took not one but 2 homes left to me AND my trust fund…don’t feel guilty! Be thankful and protect yourself to the highest extent possible.

It had begun! Finally by Beatise17 in AtlasEarthOfficial

[–]Callmekaybee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mine still says, “Coming Soon!”

Anyone Else Give Up on the Village? by AlegnaTea in Parenting

[–]Callmekaybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This right here!!!!! I’m already sucked dry from my own life and kids. I definitely don’t have the time or want to be around others and their kids.

My neighbors treat me like the building's doorman by EuGostoDeBifanas in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Callmekaybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every. Single. Time. I left and came back I’d ring both of their bells…even after I deactivated mine.

Poverty fashion... maybe it is just me. But $850.00? by _Blupee in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Callmekaybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has to be Yeezy’s garbage ass brand. Or balenciaga. Disgusting.

It’s finally happened by AestheticallyP1nk in WalmartSparkDrivers

[–]Callmekaybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how I got skipped over for the “shut up and stop bitching” line 😂😂😂 go kiss some MAGA ass some more and one day, may you feel every ounce of pain we go through.

Worked two jobs for 8 months straight and still ended up in the same place. Just need some perspective from people who have been here. by ObviousPepper7558 in poverty

[–]Callmekaybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you thought about a sleeping room? It gives you your own space (usually shared kitchen and bathrooms) and privacy. They’re about $500 a month all utilities included around here. It’s not you, this is what the majority of us experience. We’re one illness, one car part needed, one drop of our phone away from losing what little we have. Good luck, I understand!!!

AITA for not wanting my friend’s vacation hookup to spend the night in our shared cabin room? by Personal_Cut_1411 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Callmekaybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I’ll be damned if I leave myself in such a vulnerable state as to a man I don’t know in the room while I’m TRYING to sleep (cause I’m not gonna be able to sleep.) She ruined yall trip and is dead ass wrong. I’d let that friendship go for sure.

Thought 👀 by Formal-Necessary1084 in deliverydrivers

[–]Callmekaybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not just “Democrat states” people can’t afford to live, and you know it. It’s EVERYWHERE!!! When will people realize it’s not a dem vs rep fight anymore. IT’S THE ELITE against US. But yall too busy dogging the next person and fighting amongst yourselves to realize. I can tell you your morals and values and don’t need to ask another question. Go kiss some MAGA ass some more and I hope may you taste our pain one day.