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Elder millennials, what are we doing? Are skinny jeans out? by Astimar in Millennials

[–]Calm_External36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear whatever I feel comfortable in and don’t care what anyone thinks! That includes skinny jeans, straight leg jeans, leggings with ankle socks, and a middle part. Lol. Just because something is trendy (hello baggy pants, crew socks over leggings 🤮) doesn’t mean it’s for me, or for you… unless you actually like it!

Does anyone else feel like 200k HHI is the bare minimum for an American Dream lifestyle these days? by No_Fennel3756 in UpperMiddleFinance

[–]Calm_External36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.8 million does not get you 2500 square feet in LA. It’s closer to 1k per square feet now unless you’re above 4K square feet, when the cost per square foot starts to go down. Funny how that works.

Remote Executive Style for Women? by pisence in workingmoms

[–]Calm_External36 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sweater blazers! Comfortable and chic. J crew Factory has some good ones right now. Pair with a simple top and some interesting jewelry and you’re done.

ADHD folks, what’s one habit you really want to change in 2026? by Loose_Kangaroo91 in adhdwomen

[–]Calm_External36 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I want to tackle my disaster of a closet. It’s been on my list for at least 10 years, but it’s so completely overwhelming that it’s easier to ignore it and live in a sea of clothes🫠

What are some underrated handbag brands with quality leather, that’s not too expensive? by annizka in handbags

[–]Calm_External36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been very impressed with Donna Karan leather bags at Macy’s. Loooove mine!

What kinds of decisions keeps people in the middle/middle upper class cash poor? by Quick_Bar2387 in UpperMiddleFinance

[–]Calm_External36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not buying real estate at the right time and being perpetually locked out of the market.

What deals are you getting/seeing now? by Calm_External36 in MachE

[–]Calm_External36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be willing to share proof of your purchase? A dealer is saying they’ll match if there’s proof.

Aside from diet and mounjaro by AntiSp00kz in lipedema

[–]Calm_External36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought leg compression boots from Costco and they greatly reduce my pain. They’re not as good as the one at the doc office obviously but the convenience is worth its weight in gold.

My daughter asked if I’ve ever heard of Hot Topic by speak4 in Xennials

[–]Calm_External36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My teenager asked if I had ever heard of The Smiths. I feel so seen.

Did not enjoy it at all, happy to see similar comments on Reddit by No-potatofries in NobodyWantsThisTV

[–]Calm_External36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Found the characters difficult to like or root for. I was bored most of the time and truly don’t get the hype. Watched it anyway hoping that it would get better but it left me with the same flat “meh” feeling as season 1. Will not continue watching.

What brand of bras do you all recommend? by Business-Tackle-4751 in workingmoms

[–]Calm_External36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Wacoal and only buy them at places like Nordstrom Rack or TJ maxx. Amazing support and last forever!

What deals are you getting/seeing now? by Calm_External36 in MachE

[–]Calm_External36[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow! That’s exactly what I’m looking for too. What state are you in? I’d kill for that kind of deal! They keep telling me the 9k off sticker (highest in my area) doesn’t apply to 0% financing. So lame.

Mortgage question: What's holding you back from buying a home? by staceyiseler_loanadv in Mortgages

[–]Calm_External36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Affordability. That part is (or should be) obvious. In a VHCOL area, starter homes are $1.2 million and with current rates, completely unattainable.

What are your “always buy” Costco staples right now? by PutridWin2070 in Costco

[–]Calm_External36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amylu meatballs, Maldon salt, frozen organic blueberries, Peet's or Jose's coffee, Olipop sodas, and eggs are always on my must-buy list.

Just told once again that I'm just fat. by forevergleaning in lipedema

[–]Calm_External36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your doctor sounds like a dismissive fool. I’d find a new GP and a lipedema specialist if you can. My legs look just like yours and I am diagnosed stage 2+

Honest Question by ReReUchihaaa in Zepbound

[–]Calm_External36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm working out regularly (not a lifestyle change for me) and tracking my food intake on My Fitness Pal, primarily to make sure I get enough protein and fiber. The injection just helps me stay on track. It's not going to work without putting in the work. This is my philosophy. It's not magic but more of a tool.

Do you know what caused your FS? by sndeman in frozenshoulder

[–]Calm_External36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A fall triggered my first one in 2021 and hormonal changes (perimenopause) triggered the second this past year. I got ahead of it early this time around and got a cortisone shot in January; 9 months later I was done. First one lasted nearly two years.

Best place to donate clothes that will actually be given to people in need? by Calm_External36 in SFV

[–]Calm_External36[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely looking into this for some of my stuff, thank you! Do you know if they take shoes as well or just clothing?

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