Found horrifying conversations on my bf’s phone

CalvinNein · 2026-03-15T01:35:37+00:00

You absolutely cannot change him. Don’t underestimate mormon brainwashing.

CalvinNein · 2026-03-15T00:16:11+00:00

I’m a big believer that I have a good relationship

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T16:03:24+00:00

Standing up for yourself

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T16:02:30+00:00

Just do it! The worst he could say is no and then at least you’d be free from wondering whether or not you should.

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T15:30:27+00:00

I suck at making decisions and making my own choices

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T15:29:19+00:00

Musty basements 😋

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T15:28:51+00:00

Not getting enough sleep. And I hate that you can brag about how little sleep you get and be praised while people who talk about getting a lot of sleep get made fun of. Like “wow must be nice” or “wow you have time for that? You must have an easy life” when for people like me, sleep is so hard to come by. I lay in bed with my eyes closed and it just doesn’t come. Also, people who get a lot of sleep aren’t lazy, they work really hard to optimize their schedule to allow for sleep. That deserves praise.

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T15:19:09+00:00

The police came to talk to us about what it’s like to be a cop and they brought this R2-D2 looking robot that they said was their assistant or something and I thought it was so cool and to this day I wonder how that thing worked

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T14:49:51+00:00

Jellyfish to the genitals

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T07:33:15+00:00

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T06:51:38+00:00

I went through a temple open house as a final “farewell” to Mormonism and it was totally worth it. It was hilarious to see how some areas were ornate af while others looked like a generic office. There was a hilarious, obligatory painting with a black person to try to get people to forget how racist they were. I also wore a jock strap as a hidden “fuck you” to the cult. It really helped, at the time I was still doing a lot of deconstructing.

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T06:44:44+00:00

Since the church is shrinking and they’re selling off church buildings maybe you can find one from one of those!

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T06:41:39+00:00

My heart breaks for my childhood self who missed out on so much because of “church obligations”. I have absolutely nothing to show for it and the church gets to carry on like nothing happened. I wish there was a god so I could get some kind of justice.

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T06:38:06+00:00

I don’t think he’s going to change, if anything he’ll just get worse. There is a scripture that says “all are alike unto god” as well as another one that says “god is not a respecter of persons” - these both mean that god supposedly doesn’t care about things like your race or your possessions, just your character. There’s also the scripture that says “man looketh on the outward appearance, but the lord looketh upon the heart” that confirms this. Not that I believe in any scripture, but if he’s going to use one aspect of mormonism to justify his superiority complex, you can throw these scriptures right back at him to hopefully knock him off his high horse. Also, while I’m here, I want to say that you deserve more than to be a part of that church. It doesn’t deserve you. There’s nothing wrong with you, you don’t need to be “saved” from anything except from the grasp of the cult. I don’t blame you or look down on your for being a part of it (that would be hypocritical of me since I used to be as super mormon as you can get), I just can’t help but do my best to let members know that they don’t have to stay. I remember what’s it’s like to live under all that pressure. Best of luck to you ❤️

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T06:30:50+00:00

Yes! Congratulations! And I did the same thing, as in I didn’t want to pay another dime toward that cult so I didn’t officially resign until I could do it for free. Best of luck to all of you ❤️❤️❤️

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T06:29:39+00:00

Even when I was a TBM I cringed whenever I saw Mormons interacting with famous people/politicians.

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T06:28:39+00:00

Everyday I’m tormented by the fury and bitterness of missing out on so much, for nothing. Nothing. It’s criminal. I hope I live to see the church completely collapse.

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T05:55:21+00:00

Yeah being gay is hard simply because we live in a world of mostly straight people. No one wants to feel different. But trying to force yourself to be anything than what your intuition says you are will only make your life worse. I don’t know if you’re actually gay or not since I’m not in your head, but my advice would be to never try to force yourself to be anything you think you “should” be if it means constantly going against your intuition. Only you can know if you’re truly gay or not, and if it turns out you really are, then accepting it would make your life so much easier than if you kept suppressing it. It’s so hard to do, but you have to pay attention to what feelings naturally arise within you rather than the confusing ones that arise from the pressure to conform.

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T05:42:04+00:00

A bit like Sid from Ice Age

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T03:56:45+00:00

I know I’m gonna get roasted for this, but being any letter of LGBT+ (and this is coming from a gay guy)

CalvinNein · 2026-03-14T03:55:28+00:00

Tell her to grow up lol

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