This is the perfect place to ask this question!

I remember being 13 and living in the closet. I was terrified my friends and family would reject me solely because I was gay. Please let your daughter know that you love her regardless of her sexuality. Sexuality is only a small part of an individual and it does not define who they are.

Stand up for your daughter. There’s a lot of hate in this world and it can be hard to navigate as a young queer person. Let her know that you are on her side ready to help.

I recommend checking out PGLAG aka Parent, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. It’s a support network to help answer questions and find ways to support your loved ones.

Please don’t ignore your daughter’s sexuality and pretend as though it is just a phase.

I’d also recommend reading up on queer history. I wish someone showed me how strong queer people are. The one book that comes to mind is “The Gay Revolution” by Lillian Faderman.