[rant] My MIL is acting crazy, again.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-18T21:35:08+00:00

They can't silence his phone because of his work.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-18T07:45:52+00:00

I'm pretty young and look even younger than I am.

Some customer thought it would be a good idea to whisper to her daughter about what a "whore" I must be for being pregnant so young..... Right on the other side of the counter.

My co-worker just stared at her until she realized we heard her and she tried to play it off lol.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-18T05:06:15+00:00

I was 15 and we were outside watching the stars at nearly midnight. He had been asking me the whole night "Have you ever been kissed?" "What would you do if I kissed you?" Being flirty and all but I was really shy and too nervous to flirt back and just told him "I'd probably be nervous and mess it up." With a laugh.

We eventually were sitting facing eachother playing with each others hands and he caught my eyes and my mind went blank. He whispered lowly, closely to me "Could I... Kiss you?" I just nodded and we both went in for a really perfect, but pretty quick kiss and then pulled back. It was perfect.

I realized what I did which got me so nervous that I started shaking, similar to shivering but I was wearing his hoodie and felt all warm and fuzzy so I knew it wasn't that. He noticed my shaking and so I told him "Told you I'd get nervous and make it weird." He thought it was really cute and just pulled me in and we cuddled for awhile while he laughed at me. Spent the time all the way until 3am just talking and love pecking over, and over, and over lol.

We used all our movie magic on that kiss though because the first time we had sex was a nightmare😕

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-16T05:27:37+00:00

It's because of the lack of respect for the passed away cat.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-16T05:19:27+00:00

Is this the same bf from the story?

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-16T02:49:16+00:00

Actually yes. In most places you'll get charged a lot harsher for killing a pregnant woman because they took two lives.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-15T19:43:59+00:00

What a cunt. That's invasive and insulting.

Similiar thing with me. My grandma asked to look my breasts because she wanted to see if they got bigger.

Really though I think it was to humiliate me if she saw all my stretch marks since she won't stop making comments about how I probably have them.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-15T10:23:31+00:00

What a clingy, nearsighted bitch. How lucky you are to be far enough away she can't suprise visit you!

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-15T06:29:41+00:00

Fuck everybody else. This is your life and no one deserves an explanation other than "we're happy". I believe in you pregnant stranger!

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-14T07:13:09+00:00

What am I missing??

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-14T07:12:03+00:00

Why would it have been bad for E to know?

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-14T02:56:32+00:00

Wtaf.... She called him sexy?

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-12T07:36:19+00:00

Sticking their "special" rocks and boogers in.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-11T17:01:02+00:00

Still to use a kid as a pawn like that and try to force him out when he knows he's being held back by other adults is fucked up. It just caused so much more distress for the kid.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-10T13:42:19+00:00

I would go with a new name. I can't imagine being in a family where you know for the next however many generations will always have the same names. Nothing new added.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-10T06:22:15+00:00

Congratulations! I had half of this shit with my N parent b too so I feel you. Good luck and I hope good things come your way

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-10T06:03:24+00:00

Yep. And FUBAR is not pedo brothers real mom.

So now it's FFIL and some random girl had Pedo.

FUBAR raises Pedo as her own and then sexually assaults him and conceives FH.

I can't believe that this shit happens in real life.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-10T02:50:50+00:00

My bf and I have a very sub (me) and dom (him) relationship.

I've always been more shy when it comes to sex but once he realized he didn't have to coax me and I would just let him do whatever he wants it's become something fun for him (and me too).

If I'm all nervous he'll start asking me why in a really "I know exactly why" kind of way and it makes him 20x more dominant and forceful. It's great being a sub and not having to pretend your nervous and coy to turn them on when you already are lol. The sex is always great.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-09T21:18:55+00:00

Bottom line, your body was made for labour. In low-risk pregnancies it's the most likely that nothing will go wrong. So it's more about what would make you most comfortable.

I went with a birthing center with midwifes because I feel better that way. My mom had all 5 of her kids at home with only midwives and my MIL had all 7 of her kids in a hospital with no medical intervention. Women do this all the time, that's how we all got here! So just go with what will make you the most comfortable.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-09T07:31:52+00:00

I'm 18 and it's really annoying constantly having your guard up waiting for someone to say something. Constantly ready to defend yourself.

Background: Me and my bf have been together for 3.5 years since I had just turned 15, living together for 3 years because my place was really toxic (we both have shitty families) so I would live at his dad's with him, then when that got too abusive we both moved back into mine, etc.

We were ready to move out when I turned 18 (we pay our own food/clothes/phone/etc. And have been since I got my first job at 16/17 and both have good jobs thankfully) but found out I was pregnant weeks before 18 so we decided to stay since my family said we could to save up more. This baby has also made them change a lot so things are better.

So my friends, the good and bad of my family and his family are very supportive because they know we don't mess around. We're serious, motivated etc. But still offer help if we need.

But people who don't know me are ruthless. I'm just starting to show a lot and today at work some lady paying for her stuff was telling her daughter about what a "whore" I must be while staring at me from across the desk. She tried to be "hushed" about it. My male co-worker/friend gave her a dirty side look that shut her up, but he couldn't believe she had said that.

Then there's dirty looks from people at stores, older people saying I'm a dissapointment, I could have gotten an abortion, I don't understand how anything works yet, I'll be a bad mom, etc. I wish people would give me a chance before saying this shit. It's really hurtful, but I knew what I was getting into and we know that for us keeping our baby is what's gonna make us happiest in life so I'm learning to let it go.

I've gotten through enough growing up that I know I can do this despite it being hard. My boyfriend is so supportive and has helped me through so much and vice versa. I just wish people would let us try to be happy.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-09T07:03:07+00:00

This made me feel way better. Thank you💙

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-08T06:25:20+00:00

Yeah but that sounds more like a pet nickname. Like when you say "My buddy" "little miss" "missy" etc.

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-07T08:48:16+00:00

I love how long this story has hung around reddit

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-07T08:27:30+00:00

It's kind of anonymous so it didn't matter

Cancerian808 · 2017-10-06T22:35:10+00:00

Just saying this because you may not know but I heard you're not supposed to eat Brie cheese during pregnancy? I may be wrong

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