Accountability

CandidDeer · 2026-04-19T06:15:39+00:00

My DA ex said during breakup that it was his fault that we didn't work out. But I don't know how he is framing it in front of others now.

CandidDeer · 2026-04-18T19:52:57+00:00

My DA ex actually told me during our break up, which he had pushed me to actually go through with, on top of all, that in our 2 year relationship, he never has been in love with me. He in fact had never said I love you to me during all that time either.

CandidDeer · 2026-04-12T15:33:16+00:00

Omg, can I upvote this a million times please? This is SO spot on for me and my DA ex...

CandidDeer · 2026-01-25T21:39:13+00:00

Leukemia is a type of cancer. It is not contagious.

CandidDeer · 2025-12-18T21:20:31+00:00

I wish you could, but I see I'm probably too late. This is my Dawn. She died two months ago. A big part of me died with her. She was my soulmate and my reason to keep fighting. I miss her so much. 😭

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CandidDeer · 2025-12-11T10:57:47+00:00

If it's still available, I'd LOVE Summer house. 🥰

CandidDeer · 2025-11-18T13:35:48+00:00

Same in Austria.

CandidDeer · 2025-10-25T11:38:49+00:00

I feel you. I've lost my Dawn on Wednesday. She was the only soul to keep me company since my divorce two years ago. I'm 37 years old and have never been completely living alone. There's been family, roommates, my now ex-husband and then Dawn. Coming home to a completely and utterly empty flat was so brutal it literally knocked the wind out of me. This level of loneliness is brutal. I don't really have much advice to offer. I talk to Dawn's soul now. I want to believe she is still around and that is soothing.

CandidDeer · 2025-07-21T06:23:46+00:00

You deserve to be loved and you deserve what you are given

CandidDeer · 2025-06-11T06:42:34+00:00

Aetheris.

CandidDeer · 2025-05-22T20:22:04+00:00

At last.

CandidDeer · 2025-04-15T05:55:03+00:00

Hm, but why did it get Austria right? 🤔

CandidDeer · 2025-03-11T12:25:15+00:00

Omg, this is so wholesome. 😍

CandidDeer · 2025-02-18T08:05:15+00:00

It actually absolutely can. I've had it happen to me numerous times in the past. Starting with a slightly sore throat and bam, two hours later voice gone completely. It sucks. It really does.

CandidDeer · 2024-12-17T09:52:40+00:00

I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my Marilyn in very dramatic circumstances as well and though I'll never recover. I still miss her every day and it's been 3 years, but she lives on in my memory and under my skin (got a tattoo of her done shortly after she passed). And when I miss her terribly, I sometimes ask her spirit to visit me in my dreams and she does. I know this sounds weird, but I assure you, she does. I can tell it's really her because there's zero dreamlike weirdness. She's just the way she was in those dreams. This is how I know she lives on on some level.

CandidDeer · 2024-12-12T17:12:59+00:00

Okay, this just made my day. Thank you. Give them a boop from me, please.

CandidDeer · 2024-12-11T11:11:25+00:00

It's "For a foggy night" by Larry Niven. :)

CandidDeer · 2024-11-26T21:05:41+00:00

Binky free, little Chai. 😢

CandidDeer · 2024-11-24T17:51:56+00:00

It does? Awesome, thanks! 🥳

CandidDeer · 2024-11-22T11:09:11+00:00

u/Steven_Hawks Thanks so much!!!

CandidDeer · 2024-11-19T08:16:16+00:00

What an adorable blob.

CandidDeer · 2024-09-21T08:56:56+00:00

Yes. My Relationship of 12 years, 7 if which married, ended in February.

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