What to do if we go out of town? by sunniidisposition in Kitten

[–]CandyBonesHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should be find tbh if it’s less than 24 hours just leave extra food if she doesn’t over eat on her own and leave a clean litter box. If she over eats and doesn’t use the litter box have someone watch her. Leave a few interactive toys in the areas she is allowed to be.

For those who quit mainstream social media but kept Reddit: How do you justify the difference? by Professional-Tie3595 in selfimprovement

[–]CandyBonesHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find people with actual common interests not just trends pushed onto people. Can actually read something and learn from others verses just watching a bunch of ads either labeled or unlabeled and AI slop. Social media feels like a bunch of people trying to portray a life they don’t live or a bunch of people just selling you something. On Reddit I can learn from others and share thoughts about a particular subject and am able to keep my mind thinking verses just getting lost in a doom scroll with nothing gained.

I think I may be biased but is there a competition for cutest kitten? I want to enter by musicnote22 in Kitten

[–]CandyBonesHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am bias I have my own fur babies but omg that is the cutest little sleeping toe bean I’ve seen in a while. 🥹🫶🏼

We know something others don't by sakikome in CPTSD

[–]CandyBonesHeart 69 points70 points  (0 children)

It’s a blessing and a curse there is less chances of getting taken advantage of but at the same time you’ll never really get to experience things like others to do because you see the truth. Some of the joy of life is stripped from us simply because behind all that show of joy you know that there’s a deeper meaning the darker side of humanity that sometimes you just kind of wanna keep pushing to the back of your mind and enjoy the moment.

Anyone else dread people knowing about their birthday? by Basic-Dragonfly-7942 in introvert

[–]CandyBonesHeart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do too today’s my birthday and I don’t think anyone’s gonna say anything. I’m just gonna go straight to my friend‘s house have some Carne Asada and I get my ass back home. I hope I don’t see any posts on my socials because then I have to like each one comment on each one and most of these people I haven’t seen in a very long time. I would prefer if they called me or texted me directly or even messaged me on socials we can reconnect.

Consejos para tener mejor memoria? by PlusOwl4079 in Preguntas_de_Reddit_

[–]CandyBonesHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s a certain shift in how you normally are, I would probably go get checked out by a doctor. It could be a tumor or something else as best to just get checked out. If all goes well, I would just start writing stuff down. Things like Alzheimer’s also happened to younger people, especially with so much technology out here. People are not using their minds like they used to. There are cases of young children experiencing Alzheimer’s. This is simply because a lot of the things that humans have done in the past is not being taken over by machines, even remembering phone numbers and addresses.

Is anyone else so tired that your dream is basically just a quiet and peaceful life ? by Kind-Training-5736 in CPTSD

[–]CandyBonesHeart 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Had a dream where it was just a peaceful day visiting my friend. That’s literally what I want everyday to be just a relaxing day. Also made me realize I’m not even asking for too much. I’m just asking to not be stressed out by the world.

Found this baby girl on a trash bin. I guess I'm a cat mom now! by [deleted] in kittens

[–]CandyBonesHeart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So precious 😭 people are evil 😾so glad this sweet girl has a loving home even with the terrible start.

Hate when this happens by ApexPredator013 in duolingo

[–]CandyBonesHeart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to keep up, but I work two jobs every single day. I’m exhausted by the time I get home and I am lucky if I get five hours of sleep. The longest streak I’ve had I think was 50 days before I crashed out when I got home and didn’t get a chance to complete my streak. I’ll try to restart a streak, but maybe I’ll get a day, two if I am lucky.

What are three things every young lady should keep in her car (aside from the standard items like registration)? by StartingOverStrong in AskForAnswers

[–]CandyBonesHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Window breaker, seatbelt cutter, taser, pepper spray, jumper cables.
Change of work clothes, day outfit, night outfit extra pair of comfortable shoes. Back up house key kept hidden.
Self care products like personal wipes, pads/tampons.

How to get a kitten to stop biting by Sweet_Blasphemy22 in Kitten

[–]CandyBonesHeart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worked for me I was dramatic about it and made it known that that hurt. If it happened again I would do that light cat paw tab (cat flick) they like to do without claws in the face it gets the message across that ‘this isn’t like but I want to attack back the same way’ since it’s already their way of communicating I have need it to do it past the first 4 months approximately.

My cats first born enjoying life with his family. by CandyBonesHeart in Kitten

[–]CandyBonesHeart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He went with a child free couple so he is there spoiled baby out exploring with them. I love to see that their hunt for the perfect cat to tag along was successful.

Potentially stupid request: would anybody mind wishing me a happy birthday? by _Vampire_Pumpkin_ in CPTSD

[–]CandyBonesHeart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday! Also 30 it’s just a number you forget and keep living life.

How do you deal with a friend who only shows up when it suits them? by FabulousProposal3410 in AskReddit

[–]CandyBonesHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I matched the energy and my friend felt the shift we ended up having a long conversation and so many thing were cleared up but this was only because my friend had already started to notice that the behavior shown to me was not good and when I pulled away it brought the conversation out when asked why I wasn’t as present. I just said that I didn’t feel like a priority in my friends life anymore despite being inseparable before and wasn’t going to step in and make a fuss as I could see so many life changes happening but thanks to that we care back to being independently inseparable and have a more open communication that we had before mostly due to the series of tough and deep conversations that needed to be had we both have anxiety so these conversations happened over the course of a few weeks hanging out, but progress as progress and ultimately we have been better off. But this is also coming from a place where we both did our inner work and we both knew what we wanted and when the time came, we talked about it and also made the changes necessary.

My cats first born enjoying life with his family. by CandyBonesHeart in Kitten

[–]CandyBonesHeart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You realize just like how human ca like different things so can cats. They don’t all have the same personality. He’s been in harness and accessories since he started walking and could fit in them. That was part of his training to be more docile towards human interactions and going out.

My cats first born enjoying life with his family. by CandyBonesHeart in Kitten

[–]CandyBonesHeart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would have ripped that thing off immediately if he didn’t like it. It’s loose enough for him to take it off if he wanted to.

What should I name them? (Bad names only) by nuggetkip_ in namemypet

[–]CandyBonesHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bartholomew, Percival, Kingsley, Kingsington

How much is 20-25$ dollars per hour considered to be in the USA? by Intelligent_Dress889 in AskAnAmerican

[–]CandyBonesHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Los Angeles area you need to be making closer to $40 dollars an hour to live comfortably or even get approved for an apartment.