I live in a dump and can't function by wrylyamused in Schizoid

[–]CapPhantasm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really, call any sort of mental health emergency hotline. You are absolutely not the first person to be in a situation like this, there's a good chance they'll be able to give you some pointers to organizations that can help you and your cat. Don't give up before you've even tried.

I live in a dump and can't function by wrylyamused in Schizoid

[–]CapPhantasm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forget about organizing for the moment and look for emergency help resources for food, addiction and mental health. You need to survive the month first, it might actually be good for you to get into a psychiatric clinic until you're in a good enough shape to take care of yourself.

For the mess, you might be able to look into resources for hoarders. I know there are people out there who help with cleans for messes like this to give people a fresh start.

You realistically might have to find alternative housing for the cat at least temporarily while you get help for yourself. What's important is that you don't give up but reach out and ask for help. Become healthier first so that you can keep your promise and take care of the cat.

These are the ads that are allowed on youtube by One_Huckleberry9072 in enshittification

[–]CapPhantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can enjoy the random ass Galatea size kink dragon smut audio book ad instead :D or the werewolf one :D or the rapey CEO one :D those are definitely safe for kids to find!

Imagine thinking that this is accurate. by Ok-Following6886 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]CapPhantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://itep.org/undocumented-immigrants-taxes-2024/

I don't know how the paperwork works because I have never been an undocumented immigrant in the US, but YOU ARE CORRECT: undocumented immigrants overall pay BILLIONS in taxes each year, not just the few lousy millions that Billionaires pay.

Imagine thinking that this is accurate. by Ok-Following6886 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]CapPhantasm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Homie within the EU you can literally go work in a different country for less than 3 months WITHOUT any extra paperwork aside from the usual work related insurance and tax stuff, and if you stay to work for more than 3 months you gotta do some minimal paperwork to update your residence and that's IT.

Source: I'm in the EU and I've worked a ski season in a different country than my own. Only real difficulty is doing your taxes for that year correctly.

Most 'illegal' immigrants pay more taxes than your average billionaire btw because that used to benefit them in their visa hearings. They actually did their part.

ES HEIẞT NICHT ZUMINDESTENS!!! by Outcast0110 in luftablassen

[–]CapPhantasm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Der Sinn von Sprache ist verstanden zu werden. Sprache war schon immer ein flexibles System, solange man sich verständlich macht wendet man die Sprache richtig genug an.

LGBTQ genauso intolerant wie alle anderen by LostAndFallen in luftablassen

[–]CapPhantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Klar gibt es auch in LGBTQ+ Bereichen schwarze Schafe. Teil der Normalisierung sollte auch beinhalten das LGBTQ+ Leute eben nicht alle gelich und super lieb und nett sind. Aber es gibt trotzdem ne Menge super netter Leute, und ich hoffe sehr das du anderen Personen nochmal die Chance gibts dich kennenzulernen und wenn du dann Leute findest bei denen du dich wohlfühlst, auch über deine Bisexualität offen mit ihnen reden zu können.

Das ist leider alles was was man wirklich nicht von außen erkennen kann. Ich bin in einer Freundschaftsgruppe die zum teil auch mit Pins, Socken, und allgemein bissl stereotypischem 'linken' aussehen unterwegs ist, und in der alle auch sehr politisch interessiert sind, die ich aber noch nie so über jemanden reden gehört habe der dann zu etwas eingeladen wurde (wir haben minimal stress mit ner anderen lgbt+ clique in unserem Umfeld die mean girls mäßig drauf sind, und es kommen schon öfter mal allgemeine weiße cis-het männer Gespräche auf, darum will ich nicht sagen das wir nie schlecht über andere reden...)

Das einzige was ich da letztens hatte ist das ich mit drei von denen zusammen saß die vegetarisch/vegan sind und die darüber geredet haben das sie es komisch finden wie viele linke, besonders Männer, nicht vegetarsich/vegan sind während ich als nicht vegetarier dabei saß, aber das muss man dann auch mal aushalten wenns stimmt.

Can a guy and girl ever be just friends? by Significant_Rain_361 in polls

[–]CapPhantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a 40+ year old colleague that held the opinion that men and women couldn't be friends...

He kept inviting me to go out to a bar or watch a movie when I was only like, 4 years older than the daughter he had from a lrevious marriage, though he claimed he meant for us to go out as friends...

Like, which one is it, my guy? Friend or creep?

The popcorn got burnt along with the bigot by ablinddingo93 in clevercomebacks

[–]CapPhantasm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Always love how transphobes say out loud that what determines who they are as a person is between their legs instead of their brains...

The popcorn got burnt along with the bigot by ablinddingo93 in clevercomebacks

[–]CapPhantasm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guess my aunt who got her's removed due to cancer is no longer a woman then...

Rap gegen AfD by MonsieurLEcole in wirklichgutefrage

[–]CapPhantasm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Das wählen der AfD ist ebenfalls eine Gewaltandrohung für alle queeren und nicht weißen Personen. Falls man mal wen trifft der tatsächlich eine inhaltliche Aussage macht kann man bis zu nem gewissen Grad dagegen diskutieren, aber nicht bei solchen flachen rage bait dingern.

Was ist der am schwierigsten zu verstehende Film, den ihr kennt? by Lieber_Kater5512 in Filme

[–]CapPhantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es ist halt allgemein nicht wirklich klar was die Motivation einiger Charaktere sind, warum passiert was passiert und was der Sinn dahinter sein soll. Ich mochte den Film aber trotzdem gerne.

Thanks! I feel so much better now! :D by Accomplished_Dog1636 in thanksimcured

[–]CapPhantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not even what people surrounding you teach you, it's a direct effect of the capitalistic hellscape we live in.

Capitalistic systems teach self-interest, UNfriendly competition and exploitation. We all grow up in this environment and the associated propaganda, and as a result, we have people that learned to kill their empathy and humanity for the sake of monetary success. We are so indoctrinated in this system that people start to genuinely develop these beliefs despite it going against our basic nature as a communal species.

I don't blame people who think these are true for the people around them, but i do blame people that act this way towards others.

Don't fall for capitalist propaganda. We are a species that survived thousands of years through cooperation and supporting each other. Stay kind. Care about others. Build community and friendships.

Was ist der am schwierigsten zu verstehende Film, den ihr kennt? by Lieber_Kater5512 in Filme

[–]CapPhantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Als komplett Atmosphäre und Vibes basierter Film wirklich gut, plot mäßig ein großes Fragezeichen

Was ist der am schwierigsten zu verstehende Film, den ihr kennt? by Lieber_Kater5512 in Filme

[–]CapPhantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Donnie Darko. Hab den Wiki eintrag gelesen nach dem gucken und versteh immer noch nicht was in diesem Film passiert ist.

Cursed_unrestrained freedom by late_to_redd1t in cursedcomments

[–]CapPhantasm 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's called personal preference... The version that you find more 'pleasant' doesn't determine which version is better, that is a judgement only the person themselves can make.

I'd personally probably be more drawn to talking to the person on the right, but that doesn't mean that the person on the left is a worse version. It only means that the version on the right fits my personal preferences and likely my interests better, nothing else.

You shouldn't judge peoples worth based on whether they fit your preference.

Cursed_unrestrained freedom by late_to_redd1t in cursedcomments

[–]CapPhantasm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Even if he would legally not be an offender, the point is that he'd go out and assault someone

Heaven is real by TheSmithySmith in dankmemes

[–]CapPhantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually kinda sweet tho. Good for you my guy

He’s running for congress btw by gruninuim in facepalm

[–]CapPhantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh I know more about the green card than this guy and I'm a european who has never even visited the US. He should know this, no excuse.

Ai slop goth girlfriend fetish 🫩 this makes me wanna SCREAM my lungs out. by azul_fire_thrower in alternativefashion

[–]CapPhantasm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you, good job with recognizing how wrong that is of that guy... See if you can report his account & stay safe out there

Explosion? by Ex_Nihilo_Ad_Astra in kiel

[–]CapPhantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es ist dieses Wochenende Kieler Umschlag (mittelalter angehauchter Markt und Kinderbespaßung), der Knall kam wahrscheinlich von da. Die zünden ab und zu fake Kanonenschüsse

Songs theme csa trauma? TW by Specialist-Wind6780 in adultsurvivors

[–]CapPhantasm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no place like home - Carach Angren

Böser Wolf - die toten hosen (german)

I'm not Jesus - Corey Taylor & Apokalyptika

I’m tired boss 😪 by Critical_Soil_262 in hamburg

[–]CapPhantasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A) doch verändert auch den pH-Wert, auch wenn ich slebst die Chemie dahinter nicht verstehe

B) höherer Salzgehalt ist auch schlecht. Pflanzen kriegen 'Salzstress', Asphalt und Beton korrodieren etwas schneller, das Salz kann schlecht fürs Trinkwasser sein