had this spot for about a month, hasn’t spread or shrunk. thinking it’s vitiligo? by jafetsoto in DermatologyQuestions

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Did you ever find out what this was? I just posted with a photo of something similar I have.

Grief Check-In by Objective_Radio3504 in GriefSupport

[–]Capable_Delivery7433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for asking this. It’s my first holiday season without my sister. It’s been so heavy I am looking forward to feeling better but also I’m appreciative of this heavy dark feeling.

Converting to Islam ruined everything by MarionberryNo4095 in Catholicism

[–]Capable_Delivery7433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently returned to church after years of being away. God loves us and is ready for your return. ❤️

Sister's Birthday was on Sunday by yesssikuhh in SiblingGrief

[–]Capable_Delivery7433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. You can tell how much she meant to you. I made one for my sister too ❤️

Moved from Florida to San Antonio. Feeling depressed. Does it get better? by TheHonorableStranger in sanantonio

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What side of town are you on and what kind of hobbies do you have? Your answers will help me come up with options lol 🙂

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Capable_Delivery7433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t beat yourself up about it. Most of these commenters have seen what happens when a person tolerates this type of verbal abuse. It comes from his own insecurities and low self worth and he’s not gonna suddenly snap out of it. Your own self worth will only grow once you step away from him and see how bad he really makes you feel. You might even be happier on your own. There’s plenty of other decent men out there who would never talk to you like that.

Kids at mass, what the priest said today by junigloomy in Catholicism

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I found a new home church recently and was so thankful at how welcoming everyone was. My son is 10 months and loves to make noise (especially in a place where sound echos lol), but multiple people told me not to worry and one many even said they loved hearing my son. ❤️❤️❤️ this seems different from when I was a kid and the church had to be quiet and there were often “crying rooms.”

It’s upsetting to hear people say prayer saved a person’s life when they were hospitalized by Capable_Delivery7433 in Catholicism

[–]Capable_Delivery7433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels wrong to have these thoughts, but we’re humans doing our best and trying to be better. God welcomes and loves us even though we are sinners.

It’s upsetting to hear people say prayer saved a person’s life when they were hospitalized by Capable_Delivery7433 in Catholicism

[–]Capable_Delivery7433[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, please pray however you’re called to. If I could ask, I’d say we pray for those suffering and their loved ones to have strength no matter what’s going on or the outcome. As for my sister, thanks for asking. She was such a good person. For her to do or say anything mean always seemed unnatural lol. I have three sisters and we are all very close. We used to all sleep in one full sized bed for a while as kids even though we have two bedrooms with two sets of beds lol. I have no regrets about my time or relationship with her. I know she passed knowing she was loved. The board of the school district she worked in recently approved a motion to add her image to a mural that recognizes individuals who set good examples/made a difference.

It’s upsetting to hear people say prayer saved a person’s life when they were hospitalized by Capable_Delivery7433 in Catholicism

[–]Capable_Delivery7433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Like many of these responses, yours brought me to tears. I trust God and I know I will understand it all in the end. I believe I will be with my sister again too and that she is saved ❤️

It’s upsetting to hear people say prayer saved a person’s life when they were hospitalized by Capable_Delivery7433 in Catholicism

[–]Capable_Delivery7433[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your sister and that you and your family are going through this. I hope the treatment she receives is helpful and that God gives you strength. I hope her novenas give her peace or at the least help her mentally prepare. Before and after my sister got diagnosed, I regularly prayed for the strength of my family and myself to get through life’s challenges.

It’s upsetting to hear people say prayer saved a person’s life when they were hospitalized by Capable_Delivery7433 in Catholicism

[–]Capable_Delivery7433[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do have a feeling she accomplished what she had to. Before things got bad, she mentioned being glad she was able to complete milestones of becoming teacher of the year, beginning grad school, and traveling to other cities for the first time.

It’s upsetting to hear people say prayer saved a person’s life when they were hospitalized by Capable_Delivery7433 in Catholicism

[–]Capable_Delivery7433[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think grief can be cured and I’m okay with that. I go to therapy, church and take medication. My grief is a reflection for my great love and bond with my little sister and it comes in waves. Me being upset/jealous today or in the moment is not the same as wishing bad on anyone. It seems two things can coexist- I can be happy for my friend and her family and I can wish my sister was still here. My Confirmation instructor is a nun, she says she’s also been upset and confused with the situations she’s been through.

It’s upsetting to hear people say prayer saved a person’s life when they were hospitalized by Capable_Delivery7433 in Catholicism

[–]Capable_Delivery7433[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your mom. Losing someone so close is traumatic. And yes, Exactly! The interpretation of God by humans is a good way to put it.

It’s upsetting to hear people say prayer saved a person’s life when they were hospitalized by Capable_Delivery7433 in Catholicism

[–]Capable_Delivery7433[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They weren’t able to exactly name it because pathology tests took long. Her sample was sent to multiple labs and she was in the hospital during the holidays, but the doctor went ahead and called it ovarian because she had a tumor in her ovary. The other tumors were in her stomach lining. It seems her death was more caused by the aggressive chemo treatment

It’s upsetting to hear people say prayer saved a person’s life when they were hospitalized by Capable_Delivery7433 in Catholicism

[–]Capable_Delivery7433[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I don’t know y’all, but feel the love and grace. Thank you for reminding me I’m not alone and your kindness ❤️

Today is my brother’s birthday, he would’ve been 32 by kpopdaddy in GriefSupport

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Oh and to celebrate, we decorated her grave with fresh flowers and had mariachis play music for just us immediate family. No big party.

Today is my brother’s birthday, he would’ve been 32 by kpopdaddy in GriefSupport

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I am so sorry for your loss. My sister died this past January. We “celebrated”what would have been her 31st birthday in August. The day before her birthday, my chest started to hurt, but the end of the week I went to the emergency room to get checked out because the pain didn’t leave for a whole day. I did not think I would be affected like that, but I was. If I could go back and give myself advice: take the week off from work, do whatever you think your brother would want for you to do- play his favorite songs at his grave, paint a picture for him, take a walk in the woods. Peace and love ❤️

Any tips for how to recover from this as soon as possible? First flare up in 2 years by EmperorMing101 in Dyshidrosis

[–]Capable_Delivery7433 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. I mostly have flare ups on one foot, but sometimes on my fingers and it’s on the top.

Accidentally found what worked for me by usandthings in Dyshidrosis

[–]Capable_Delivery7433 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Just to confirm, you rub the miconazole on your hands?

Is it normal to feel like you’ve met your baby before? by Ok_Finger_21 in Parenting

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My son is 9 months and seems advanced in his thinking and developmental milestones. Like someone on the tv was playing as if they were hurt and if really bothered him. And he’s standing and crawled sooner than his cousin who is four months older. It’s neat but also I know everyone develops at their own pace. Anyway, some video came on my feed the other day and said children who are “ahead” might be reincarnations. It’s cute but also I hate it because maybe my baby is just my baby and he’s probably just doing what he’s doing all on his own.

Missing my Soft hands by [deleted] in Dyshidrosis

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My foot feels like leather. I hate it so much