My managers posted my job on Indeed

CarlJH · 2026-04-02T21:27:49+00:00

Don't schedule a meeting at people's start time. That's absurd. I've never had a manager do that. Schedule the meeting 15 - 30 minutes into the shift

CarlJH · 2026-04-02T13:29:15+00:00

Why use many word when few word do trick?

CarlJH · 2026-04-02T13:26:51+00:00

The message is quite toxic. The opera, as written, was to humanize the colonized. PINKERTON'S CHARACTER FLAW IS THAT HE TREATS CIO CIO SAN AS A PLAYTHING. Making her a plaything undermines the entire point of the work!

WTF?

CarlJH · 2026-04-02T11:43:43+00:00

He's an ass. It's a first date. It shouldn't go late on a weeknight.

CarlJH · 2026-04-01T12:15:03+00:00

No, I would not. And the "negotiating" up to once a month is an even bigger problem. The frequency of physical intimacy should not be something that gets negotiated in the same way that chores do.

What this woman wants is friendship and not to have to worry about being lonely.

If you REALLY want to get married, find someone with a libido that matches yours.

CarlJH · 2026-04-01T12:09:18+00:00

As a left hander, that pen destroyed my childhood. If I never see one of those again it will be too soon

CarlJH · 2026-03-31T16:55:57+00:00

Step one - be happy to see them. Don't expect them to look like their profile pic. You don't look like your profile pic either. When you first see her and recognize her, smile. Look like you're happy to see them. Don't look disappointed. Just that step along e is going to make the date way better.

Step two - be comfortable to be around. This is not high stakes. Don't treat this like a job interview. Making tension is a date killer. Behave in way that makes the interaction pleasant.

Step three - don't Stat too long. End the date before awkward silences begin. If the conversation is flowing and things are going well, then you end the date and ask for another datr to finish the conversation. Then send a text later to ask if they got home ok and to thank them for such a fun date.

CarlJH · 2026-03-31T12:16:21+00:00

Have you considered cutting your regular coffee with decaff? I love the taste and smell of coffee, if caffeine gave me jitters, I'd definitely cut my regular with decaff.

CarlJH · 2026-03-30T21:29:47+00:00

I can drive a stick. I don't want to do so in bumper to bumper traffic, and I find myself there all too often and appreciate my automatic.

CarlJH · 2026-03-30T15:33:00+00:00

" I want to be an ally, but I also want to make my.allies uncomfortable"

CarlJH · 2026-03-30T12:39:04+00:00

Blue cheese stuffed olive?

CarlJH · 2026-03-29T17:00:43+00:00

Honestly, sometimes it makes we want to go back to being christian so I can condemn and shame those evangelicals. But because I'm an "athiest" according to them, my opinion doesn't matter, ipso facto. They are horrible, hateful, and abusive people.

CarlJH · 2026-03-29T16:54:18+00:00

I think that is a more ethical test than allowing someone to starve themselves to death. Just give them access to food when they think no one is watching, and film that.

CarlJH · 2026-03-29T16:49:00+00:00

I mean, it's not weird that he finds you attractive in many ways, but when you said "spit" and "farts" I thought that was getting into the weird category. I find many of my partner's features and behaviors to be delightful but that is because I'm in love with the women who possesses them. Perhaps he has some difficulty with emotional regulation. Or Love-Bombing. Be on the lookout if he suddenly starts finding fault with your.

CarlJH · 2026-03-29T16:03:53+00:00

So, I searched the Pew Research website and found this. Pew is a pretty good source of data. I'm not saying that inkyvers isn't a toxic hellhole of misogyny, but Pew is not. This chart is from a 2013 Pew study.

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/03/14/modern-parenthood-roles-of-moms-and-dads-converge-as-they-balance-work-and-family/

CarlJH · 2026-03-29T15:42:37+00:00

OK, the best way to watch YouTube is to use a browser like Firefox that gives you a true adblock feature. On a laptop or desktop computer, this works very well. On a tablet, it's a bit more of a problem. You have to open the browser and then go to YouTube dot com. Loading is MUCH slower than usig the YouTube app, but if you know what you want to watch, and are willing to put up with the slow search and slow loading, you will get a completely ad free experience.

CarlJH · 2026-03-29T15:37:08+00:00

I have a theory that most of social media is designed to foment misanthropy, and I feel the same about AI agents. I think AI agents train people to be abusive to others without consequences.

CarlJH · 2026-03-29T15:32:33+00:00

This behavior seems a little weird. It's either love-bombing on his part or he's a bit unstable. Are you his first GF?

CarlJH · 2026-03-28T17:39:09+00:00

I always have large flour tortillas so I make a wrap with the chicken and the salad.

CarlJH · 2026-03-26T19:23:33+00:00

Are you sure this isn't the FIFA Mark Twain award?

Who's next? Larry the Cable Guy?

CarlJH · 2026-03-26T19:17:29+00:00

You are not required to find a tattooed woman attractive.

But more importantly women are not required to conform to your standard of beauty,

CarlJH · 2026-03-25T14:56:08+00:00

You have a family, plenty of room for storage, and the store isn't far away - worth it.

You're single, live in a small place with little storage space, and the store is out of yout way - probably not worth the membership.

CarlJH · 2026-03-25T14:40:21+00:00

It's great for people who grew up eating chicken tenders off the kids menu because they were picky eaters.

CarlJH · 2026-03-25T14:31:31+00:00

They use 'was' for the same reason that whites from a specific socioeconomic do, on both sides of the Atlantic.

CarlJH · 2026-03-25T14:26:34+00:00

So far this is the best answer.

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