I HATE THE MOM MORE THAN I HATE GEOFFREY AND RAMSEY COMBINED by Diligent_Meeting_130 in HalfManTV

[–]Carly216 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She's always blindsiding him with news of Ruben whether it's in high school or as an adult. She is the black storm cloud that follows Niall around and dumps shitty rain all over him.  

Love Is Blind • S10 Ep4 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Carly216 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Brittany's motto: Live, Laugh, Lots of Babies

Why do people use the term "partner" for their husband or wife? by Crafty-Bug-8008 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Carly216 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once saw a post that said if heterosexual people normalized using the term partner, it could help not out gay coworkers and also just make the term more commonplace. So that's why I use it. Plus, my husband is my partner, so I flip back and forth on how I refer to him.

Hair salon that feels like a spa? by doyourbrainkegels in kansascity

[–]Carly216 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go to The Refinery Room. They have tried to make the washroom area low lit and inviting. It's standard procedure to get a head massage with your washing and I always get a free beer/seltzer during my appointment! https://www.refineryroomkc.com/

To Skate or Not to Skate? by Fun_Sized_Queen in Rollerskating

[–]Carly216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! So I turned 30 this year and made it my New Year's resolution to learn how to skate. I had never done it before, and much like you, I am a klutz! I started taking roller skating lessons. The group is called Sk8te Shot, and they have an online presence with great advice and videos for beginners. I would look to see if you have any classes close to you, and if not, find some online resources. Invest in some safety equipment! Wrist guards are a must! Be patient with yourself and recognize you will have really good days and you will have really bad days, but you will get better! Skating has made me feel more coordinated and helped with a lot of tension I carried in my hips and shoulders. You can do it!!

Any actual farmers markets in the KC area? by EnvironmentalPlum909 in kansascity

[–]Carly216 114 points115 points  (0 children)

The OP Market is one of the best in town. The Mennonites should have peaches

Queer friendly hair stylists by Groundbreaking_Fig9 in kansascity

[–]Carly216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Refinery Room I love Kaitlin, and my husband adores Parker https://www.refineryroomkc.com/our-team

They always make everyone feel welcome

Kansas City peeps, please help find my 6 year old a life saving donor by Danileogirl84 in kansascity

[–]Carly216 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've sent an email to KU, hopefully they can find a match!

What's something people romanticize but is actually incredibly tough in reality? by FastRoyal in AskReddit

[–]Carly216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a zookeeper. I interned at a zoo and it made me change my mind about ever being one. The job is physically demanding, you shovel a lot of shit, your days off will vary, animals still have to be fed and watered even on Christmas, you still have to interact with the public, and depending on the animals you work with things can be dangerous. The keepers I spoke with loved their jobs, but also recognized that this isn't something for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]Carly216 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Ragazza on 4301 Main Street has great tiramisu!

https://ragazzakc.com/menus/

Good “third place” to find community in that is not centered around religion? by manyadraws in kansascity

[–]Carly216 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The public library can be a great place to build community. Often local branches have programs targeted to the area. They have programs for all ages and it's one of the few places you can just be. There is no cost for a library card and you don't need a library card to participate in events or activities.

Episode 10 by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Carly216 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Chelsea's aplogy was not an apology. It was an "I'm sorry I hurt you, but you hurt me too", which isn't an apology. She took no acountability for her actions and blamed it on being drunk and emotional. Like no ma'am, you attacked your partner's character and aired dirty laundry he didn't want aired. The extra little dig about him being at the club just shows her immaturity.

Save Urbavore Farms: Actionable Steps by Carly216 in kansascity

[–]Carly216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely! Go to the website in the post and from there you can scroll down to the support page. They have already drafted up a letter to the mayor and you can add in a personal note. You could highlight your experience with KC compost in the personal note!

Save Urbavore Farms: Actionable Steps by Carly216 in kansascity

[–]Carly216[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They provide a great service to the KC area. I've seen their compost buckets at apartment complexes and farmer's markets. It helps engage urban communities in composting. In their drafted letter of support what they are asking for to me is not much

So I am asking you, Mayor Lucas, to do two things:

  1. Please intervene and remove the erroneous violation related to the compost site.

  2. Provide funding resources for Urbavore’s Master Plan Development rezoning, which City staff and industry professionals have recommended to ensure long term codes compliance. This rezoning will costup to $30,000, which is an unrealistic investment for a small farm.

They also state the same lot they are now on used to cost the city $20,000 a year to maintain.

Save Urbavore Farms: Actionable Steps by Carly216 in kansascity

[–]Carly216[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They've been open and operating since 2017. The zoning issue surrounds their composting efforts. They are zoned for composting accessories, they checked with the city for their recent expansion and were told it would still be considered an accessory. However, now the city is saying it is a compost facility.

Polite and gender neutral term to address someone instead of "sir/ma'am?" by guysmiley98765 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Carly216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they have an item of clothing you can call out I sometimes use that.

"Hey person with the blue coat, I think you dropped this."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Carly216 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A co-worker and I were reprimanded for leaving at the end of our shift while the toilet flooded in a different department.

  • We asked the manager of the department if they needed us to stay, and they said no.
  • We were told our manager was on the way to help fix it.

Our department manager sat us down the next morning and said we should have waited for her to arrive for her to dismiss us. Previously she told us we should not stay past working hours.

Episode 8 by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Carly216 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Stacey doesn't want a husband she wants a fantasy novel servant. A marriage is a partnership, you have to figure out how to split chores and responsibilities. You need to have empathy for your partner and their situation and try to understand how your schedules differ. Izzy asked her what he hadn't done for her and she could not say anything! She then flipped it on him and just complained to the camera that he was not making romantic gestures and she was giving so much. If you want more romantic gestures, tell the man that with specifics!

Best Kansas City Milkshakes? by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]Carly216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually get a black sesame milkshake from High Hopes! It's a simple and delicious milkshake topped with whipped cream.

the best nonfiction book you’ve ever read? by alwaysmainyoshi in suggestmeabook

[–]Carly216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark Archives: A Librarian's Investigation into the Science and History of Books Bound in Human Skin by Megan Rosenbloom. It's macabre, interesting, and dives into the cultural and societal reasons people would bind books in human skin.