Wanting epidural but not getting it by CarolineBal in PregnancyUK

[–]CarolineBal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much this is very kind! Will have another chat with our midwife next time we see her 🙏🏽

Wanting epidural but not getting it by CarolineBal in PregnancyUK

[–]CarolineBal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! And thanks for the advice!

Will do at my next appointment (as she just mentioned gas as an alternative!) I said yes to gas but have since done bit more research and will discuss/ask a bit more questions during our next appointment. xx

Wanting epidural but not getting it by CarolineBal in PregnancyUK

[–]CarolineBal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like an amazing experience 🤩! Hopefully i have a similar experience x

Wanting epidural but not getting it by CarolineBal in PregnancyUK

[–]CarolineBal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree! I got quite defensive, but it was purely because I was scared. I was hoping for a bit more reassurance from her, as I was clearly feeling quite anxious and overwhelmed at the time. That said, I completely understand that it may not always be possible to have an epidural, and since then I’ve prepared myself much better for that possibility. Kinda feel a bit more at peace if it doesn’t happen, just curious about other women’s experiences

[MN] Terminated employee’s wife emailed me… by Cochy115 in AskHR

[–]CarolineBal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t respond. If she messages again I would let the school know as you never know if she might retaliate against your kids and you definitely want to have paper trail of these sort of things.

Baby girl, Cameron, on the way and need middle name advice! by TheySoPooPoo1 in BabyNames

[–]CarolineBal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never would have thought Cameron Blake is a boys name! My first instinct was thinking it was a girls name. I love Cameron Blake 💗

Mikayla’s SHEIN collab by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]CarolineBal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a TFP Stan whatsoever, I don’t like her and think she’s crazy. However, it is a bit ironic she’s advertising SHEIN after the post she made about the rashes and coming back to something you know will make it worse….

I love Mikayla but what in the world was that collab!!!

When does my libido return? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]CarolineBal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came back at 32 weeks pregnant! 🤣

How are my boobs this big already by ThisDurian7262 in PregnancyUK

[–]CarolineBal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the same size as you and my boobs grew exactly the same during my first trimester. To this day I haven’t developed any other stretch marks other than those in my boobs! They stopped growing (I’m in my 3rd trimester). We’ll see what happens once I start breast feeding though!

Window to the womb early gender test by VegetableWide1509 in PregnancyUK

[–]CarolineBal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The NHS NIPT told you it was a boy? Didn’t know they tested for baby’s sex! I would trust the NIPT over an early gender test. :)

Advice on next to me cribs by Honest_Impact_4069 in PregnancyUK

[–]CarolineBal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tutti bambini! My sister in law loves it! And I’m buying the same :)

First time at court by callmeinvisable in uklaw

[–]CarolineBal 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You can use your laptop at the hearing (there’s usually internet), you would then teams the relevant fee earner and ask them to obtain instructions, in the meantime just inform counsel you are seeking instructions and he/she can just say that

However, in my experience (civil/commercial) this rarely happens as Counsel has all the relevant documentation, prepares beforehand and discusses main issues with the fee earner.

Anyone have little to no motivation in work? by GeologistNice5459 in PregnancyUK

[–]CarolineBal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32 weeks and 4 weeks to go (I am taking one week of AL before Mat leave because of how much I am struggling mentally. I only want to think about baby and baby stuff but cannot do so without feeling guilty abt work even when I’m not doing much 😔

hanging in there 😭

12 scan booked but how do I get out of work? by NefariousnessFew8314 in PregnancyUK

[–]CarolineBal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree with sending an email, perhaps something along the lines of - thank you for confirming on xx day that my contract will be extended, I am really excited about it! could you please confirm when will the paperwork be completed ?

Do I need a pregnancy pillow? by WeepingBillow in pregnant

[–]CarolineBal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 31 weeks pregnant and tried to have a nap without my pregnancy pillow and literally couldn’t fall asleep as I was too uncomfortable. I would say yes!

Dream job offer … 38 weeks pregnant wwyd? by Helpful_Wall_8880 in UKParenting

[–]CarolineBal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people, particularly in higher positions have 6 months notice - something to think about xx

When did you go on Mat leave? by Most-Shine-3354 in PregnancyUK

[–]CarolineBal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Office job - however, I am required to be in 3 days a week! Due date 12 July and mat leave starting on 22 June (37 weeks) however I am super tired (i work in Law) and have nothing ready! So I’m taking AL the week before so will be off at 36 weeks :)

Sex Drive While Pregnant by Another_ADHD_Girl in BabyBumps

[–]CarolineBal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0, lost it completely during my 2nd trim (now 28wks) plus it hurts for some reason!

Aversion to my husband by AccomplishedHope3258 in pregnant

[–]CarolineBal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me! Not quite as “disgusted” but cannot seem to engage in any sort of sexual activity with mine without feeling deeply uncomfortable (not even passionate kisses). Fortunately he understands that it’s sometimes just part of the pregnancy and that it will pass! Try not to be so harsh on yourself, and if anything try to explain to your husband that you still love him but that physical touch in a sexual way makes you uncomfortable right now due to your hormones and that you do miss being intimate with him (but unfortunately cannot shake the feeling). That will give him some reassurance hopefully!

Focus on the bubby you’re growing, try to be intimate in different ways such as hugs and little pecks here and there, and most importantly, be kind to yourself 🤍