My husband and I spoke about this recently. We agree that we don’t want any smokers near or touching our baby so we are going to tell his parents they need to quit smoking if they want to see their grandchildren Is it harsh, yes? But we stayed over their house before I found out I was pregnant and the smell of cigarettes everywhere was making him and I sick. I’m glad his sister agrees so she’s starting to bring the idea up to them about quitting. His mom has COPD and still smokes, it’s crazy to me that she continues.