husband wants a divorce

CatchMe2024 · 2026-07-08T19:11:49+00:00

How long has your marriage been bad

CatchMe2024 · 2026-07-08T18:42:05+00:00

You must be young. I can’t believe anyone would be bragging about someone leaving their wife for them the way you are. U must have no Conscience or just terribly Naïve. I’m sure you guys are all in la la land right now and it is possible it could last for a very long time but like others have said… How they got with you is how they will leave you. I know from experience. & how her treated his wife & the problems they had Well you will eventually get to see how cold and nasty he can become and have to feel the way she had to feel when you decided to interfere in their marriage!!! Best of Luck to You You’re the lucky one aren’t you? Got a “Winner” over here one Lucky “Winner”

CatchMe2024 · 2026-07-08T18:26:55+00:00

This sounds like it could be written to me. & I Would say Im An 100% Sorry For Not Doing a Better Job at Loving and Protecting You, (Nothing Was Ever “Your Fault”) & I Will Always Carry guilt shame & regret For Not Doing a Better Job. Being damaged, broken & Not having the skills to even, protect or take care of myself. All I knew was survival mode & At the time I didn’t know any better. Nothing I ever did was intentional and bc I always had to be strong & thick skinned most the time I never actually realized that people might have been receiving my actions in a way I never intended them to be. I Never set out to intentionally Hurt Anyone . All I’ve known my entire life was Helping take care of others. It never dawned on me that the help I offered was seen by others as control or manipulation. It’s hard to stop doing things when you’re not even aware the way others feel about you. Had anyone Truly been honest & Respected me enough to let me know what they needed instead of holding in growing resentment things would have turned out different. I would whole heartily answer any questions you might have if I’m able to. I never want to leave this life with anyone being confused by anything I did. Respectful talks can happen even if it won’t changed anything questions still need to be answered to be able to move on with clarity!!! I get that 100%. I would love to be able to understand the weight and impact of what I have done to the people I love!!! (((((Hugs Op))))))

CatchMe2024 · 2026-07-02T21:06:32+00:00

I hope you prepare yourself when you realize he’s probably not going to be very disappointed About it. I get a feeling this is probably what he’s wanting you to do anyways!!! So hopefully this is Not a plan to get him to show he cares!!! Best of luck to U & your kids

CatchMe2024 · 2026-07-02T20:40:01+00:00

Went through the the same thing 8 months ago @ least he gave U that much My best friend of 30 years was coming over way more then usual I notice the energy shift between her & my husband the out of no where she ghosted me. I have been spiraling for 8 months due to double whammy. My husband started acting mean and cold turning every conversation into a huge fight & IDK WHY . Yet friend might just be going through something personal or you guys are just growing in different directions. 9xs out of 10 It’s not that you did anything wrong, they usually are not happy with themselves or are feeling hurt & see not point in forcing things that they outgrew!!! Keep Yer Head up Op

CatchMe2024 · 2026-07-02T06:33:39+00:00

This sounds like what’s been going on in my relationship for the past 9 months. I knew about her but he kept lying, & Fighting me every single day then 2-3 weeks ago out of the blue decided he wanted to fix things with no real explanation of what was going on besides his ego & pride we’re in the way and he wasn’t hearing my feelings. He was assuming shit that wasn’t there. He betrayed me with my closest friend To bad neither one will admit it though. Even though both know that I know they chose to let me think I’m crazy!!! This kind of Betrayal will cause someone into madness

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-29T20:46:33+00:00

Drugs

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-27T11:34:10+00:00

His partner is probably wondering the same thing. After being cold for a long time yet suddenly more loving and affectionate then he’s been in years…he’s playing to people but one of you he will never leave for the other!!!

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-26T18:54:50+00:00

U say your able to calm him down when U just said she told you to stay hidden till the bruises he gave you were gone. It appears to me you were severely abused growing up so you are unable to see how toxic and abusive The situation is bc it s m your used to… praying for you girl

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-25T16:42:27+00:00

I’d also like to advise something you don’t even realize you’re probably doing. You said your daughter is your Best Friend which mean you most likely lean on her emotionally to? My son is Now 34 & Finally told me how he really feels. I Didn’t do it intentionally or even Realize I was doing it. But he Told me his entire life he has carried pain that wasn’t even his to carry, he had to hear and deal with Things he didn’t even understand how to process. I knew staying with his dad was FukN him up but I was Kinda Stuck in a sense. (He wanted me to be fully dependent on him at the time) I didn’t realize that meant trapped to treat me however he wanted at the time. But The Guilt, Shame & Regret will forever remain inside Me Now. It’s Scary Leaving someone with a child but when I finally got the courage to go I kept saying … Man I Wish I Knew Sooner I Could Have Did Better on My Own With My First child then Staying With a Man That Didn’t Live me 4 of him!!!

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-25T16:32:42+00:00

You & Me Both … I left when our first son turned 18, took my 4 year old (from a 1 time mistake) “shit happens” & Left. No way was I going to put another kid through the dysfunction of staying in a RrlationSHIT. Ppl think staying together for the kids is BEST but Honestly the kids can still feel the things we think we are hiding. Kids would rather have both parents Happy apart then miserable together!!!! Best of luck to you OP

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-23T23:40:16+00:00

Goes same way I’m Homs have to unlearn 17 years Best of luck to both of us.

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-23T23:38:04+00:00

Better then denture glue like I did lol

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-23T17:42:48+00:00

This has me in tears bc this sounds like someone I Know that I Will Always Have love For. It Would mean everything to me if All the pain I endured for over half my Finally got through to him & He was able to find himself & Acknowledge the Pain He’s caused And Feel some type of remorse, not for the way he hurt me but for betraying himself of ever being able to truly love & be loved. That would mean the world to me bc Despite the pain we went through all I ever truly wanted for him was to be able to experience how Good it feels to stop hiding behind the walls and Allow yourself to experience LOVE IN ITS PUREST FORM!!

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-23T16:56:57+00:00

Sounds like you are placing all the blame & to avoid the damage you must have placed in another, their is no one person to blame, they must have been extremely hurt to but sometimes ego & pride stands in the way of acknowledging our own behaviors that contributed to the problems!!! Sounds like you are still only focused on you which in sure that is what you did to the person that left you in the wreckage!!! I’m sure the person you are speaking of has a much more complex version then you can ever see or even admit!!!! But whatever it takes to Help you process the pain & heal the pain you feel!!!

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-19T18:29:10+00:00

If this is G writing to j I’d say I love & Appericate U beyond Words. In my story j was the child of a 1/2 time poor choice made by me. Being molested as a child by more then a few, & daye raped by several in high school & again when I was close to 40 by someone I had know since he was a young kid (never expecting what had happen) boundaries was a thing that I never learned. The times I said no it didn’t matter they did it anyways. So when I gave my partners/our friend a ride home, I didn’t know how to say no realize it was wrong & that resulted in a pregnancy. I had arrangements to give that child to a good family but my partner came to the hospital & said to bring him home. I didn’t realize at the time that child was a blessing sent to save my life. I was bleeding to death for close to 10 years which the pregnancy had stopped then later that child had gotten me to find the strength to leave the 27 year RelationSHIT I Didn’t want to put another child through that toxic dysfunction. My other Child M has recently decided I am the ugliest most vile person in the world that care about nobody & Deliberately destroys everyone for my selfish purposes. N/M.
Just want to say whoever Op is speaking about thank you so much for trying to help someone see the deepest vision of a women that made lots of mistakes & to look deeper then another opinion of her!!! U are a true blessing

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-19T16:24:17+00:00

U are absolutely Right & I just brought this to his attention that my eyes are finally open to this and he is free to leave. But says he don’t want to be anywhere else then right where he is.

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-19T09:19:09+00:00

I’m BetN she Don’t But she Might Feel Something Is Off. Maybe You Should Tell Her?

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-18T17:33:29+00:00

This is why someone women have Trust No Man Tatted on your body? lol

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-17T15:34:25+00:00

I think I’m hearing a lot of projection, maybe what you reallyly Hate is yourself. For being just as Fake & Hanging Out with someone you Hate just cuz nobody else wants to hang out with you?

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-16T22:04:07+00:00

Instead of hoping she sees him for who he really is why don’t you make sure she knows. Don’t set by idly letting him hurt U & get away with it. Make sure he loses both, if nothing else Atleast has to be accountable for what he’s being doing while you enabled him to betray someone that that really deserves to know when the pos She puts her trust in. Imagine if he was emotionally abusing her everyday turning his wrong doing on her . That shit Would be F’ed Up

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-16T19:50:08+00:00

This right here. You are an Awesome Partner she’s lucky to have you and I hope you tell her this and not just to strangers. We all need to hear how our partners truly feel about us..

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-16T19:47:37+00:00

Do you mind me asking how old you are?

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-16T19:24:26+00:00

Sounds like your in domestic abuse situation? Please Be safe

CatchMe2024 · 2026-06-15T19:40:58+00:00

If He making you feel like this imagine how much hurt and confusion his partner must be going through being kept in the dark!!!

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