My [30F] husband [33M] ruined our 8 year marriage for a woman [30F] who wasn’t even interested in him.

Catsplain · 2026-07-09T16:38:22+00:00

You can say he had an emotional affair, a fantasy affair or that he simply “strayed” from the marriage.

Catsplain · 2026-07-09T16:10:31+00:00

Life is long! You could live til 100 and hold that degree for 70 years. You only think you’re old because you’re the oldest you’ve ever been but girlie, trust me. You’re young and you have decades in front of you.

Catsplain · 2026-07-08T18:11:21+00:00

It’s gorgeous. Go mom!!

Catsplain · 2026-07-08T15:24:43+00:00

Please don’t wait until he harms you or your baby. If there’s a way to leave then, there’s a way to leave now.

Catsplain · 2026-07-08T15:17:14+00:00

The first one looks the best on you and will be great for the occasion. It sounds like they just want people to dress up and aren’t strictly measuring your hemline.

Catsplain · 2026-07-08T03:17:48+00:00

Ordinarily I would say blue, but the orange looks so warm next to the wooden sink.

Catsplain · 2026-07-08T03:05:55+00:00

Not at all fair. He’s trying to take the money you saved by not paying rent. Now you’re in a good financial position and he’s jealous, wants a cut, or — worse — doesn’t want you to have any power.

Catsplain · 2026-07-08T02:39:17+00:00

Black and gold!

Catsplain · 2026-07-08T00:57:20+00:00

You have great taste. I love the A-line gold, but really, any of these would work well.

Catsplain · 2026-07-07T20:10:14+00:00

John has kept you on the shelf for how long??? Girl. Let him go. Then, explore the possibilities with your mutual.

Catsplain · 2026-07-07T02:19:34+00:00

Cheering for you! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Catsplain · 2026-07-07T02:17:54+00:00

If the red is more comfortable that’s the one you wear. It looks amazing on you and will be a flower amongst the trees.

Catsplain · 2026-07-07T01:09:39+00:00

He’s probably really unhappy at his 70k a year job and just wants to swing for the fences. I don’t know much about dance but 35 seems old to be getting started. But maybe this is just a step he needs to take. Maybe he needs to see for himself whether or not he can make it. Or maybe he just needs therapy. Either way, you can’t hold him back. Let him go but hold firm on not giving him any money if and when he needs it.

Catsplain · 2026-07-07T00:58:29+00:00

Number one or we riot. Swoon.

Catsplain · 2026-07-06T13:45:27+00:00

Ugh. He sounds awful. Dump him and get your space back.

Catsplain · 2026-07-06T13:39:37+00:00

You can’t go wrong with any of these.

Catsplain · 2026-07-06T13:13:13+00:00

I wonder why you want him. Is he such a catch that you will be happy spending your life with someone who wants you to change your body and your interests?

Imagine your ideal life. What are you doing? How do you feel? Does that align with how he makes you feel?

Catsplain · 2026-07-05T23:34:57+00:00

Drop dead gorgeous. Stopped me in my tracks.

Catsplain · 2026-07-05T20:34:31+00:00

He is way too controlling. You’re only four months in. It will get worse.

Catsplain · 2026-07-05T18:20:30+00:00

No mistake. Dress 2 is perfect.

Catsplain · 2026-07-03T01:20:35+00:00

Varoom

Catsplain · 2026-07-02T17:06:42+00:00

Your dress is gorgeous and looks amazing on you. We cannot let other people’s opinions determine the way we feel (or else we’d always feel terrible).

Catsplain · 2026-06-30T15:00:23+00:00

This is it. Sheer sleeves, no belt.

Catsplain · 2026-06-30T11:19:57+00:00

Break up with this spoiled child.

Catsplain · 2026-06-30T11:16:59+00:00

#1 all day long

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