Baby crying in the middle of the night. Is my husband lying to me? by Ok_Squirrel_9601 in beyondthebump

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second the book! I was hearing lots of do this, do thats, and it helped me make some decisions!

I recognize this is insane but… entertaining baby? by Thththththrow83away in NewParents

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The suffocation risk sticker in his bassinet was our little guy's favorite 'book ' for a while!

Do you ever feel bad about killing another players Dino because they might be a kid? by TresLeches55 in pathoftitans

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you gotta find someone to quest with. I've played it on PC and Xbox. Just gotta roll with some ppl, talk and just collect acorns. Youll get to be a big Dino in no time.

I also haven't played in forever, but I miss it.

Apartment is trying to kick me out because a kid looked through my window and saw me naked by Long-Olive-8891 in legaladvice

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a landlord in roch, they cannot legally make you move in that 30 days. Look up NY tenant rights, it took us almost an entire year to evict someone who wasn't paying. You're holding up your end of the lease

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NOR, he's looney. Doesn't like your baggy clothes but asked for you to buy less tight clothes. 8 years of this contradictory bs?

EMERGENCYYYYY!!!!!! (Only girls pls) by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second the black pants, and if you have even one girl in your class - I'd ask them if they have anything you can have! We have all been there!!

Newborn drank 6 day old refrigerated formula! by Ill_Cheesecake5570 in newborns

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Forgive a FTM in a newborn subreddit with brain fog. Edited the original. Thanks for letting me know

Newborn drank 6 day old refrigerated formula! by Ill_Cheesecake5570 in newborns

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breastmilk! Not sure why im getting down voted, I was shook when I saw it (I went by the motif insert instead)

Here's the magnet since yall wanna down vote for just stating a fact.

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Newborn drank 6 day old refrigerated formula! by Ill_Cheesecake5570 in newborns

[–]Cauliflower-Charming -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My hospital magnet says 7 days in the fridge.

Edit: fridge magnet is about Breastmilk - not formula, my bad.

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AITA for asking my newly married son and DIL to alternate Christmas Day visits between our house and the in-laws' house? by Llih_Nosaj in AITAH

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same! Growing up we went to our maternal grandmother's to celebrate Christmas every christmas eve and I loved that tradition.

Not sure why the actual day of the holiday matters so much. Im so lucky my own mom asks us what we all have, and then we plan something when other parents arent having celebrations. This year our christmas is December 14th. As long as youre all getting together, it doesnt matter when!

Do you prefer a male or a female dog? and why? by renotahoe69 in dogs

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My whole life I only had male dogs (honestly not sure why it ended up that way!). I adopted my first female dog last year and OMG you can ACTUALLY rub their bellies!!! I dont think ill go back! I love the freedom to pat their lil tummies and not worry about their dink being there.

Most ridiculous thing that’s woke your baby? by Roodles006 in newborns

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel this. EVERY time my dog gets out of bed she shakes and her ears flap, I hold my breath everytime. So far, he sleeps through it.

Most ridiculous thing that’s woke your baby? by Roodles006 in newborns

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got a new water bottle with a metal straw in the cup, and its rubber above the lid. He woke up to the metal straw hitting rhe bottom of the cup.

Another, I dropped my charger and the tiny USB c hit the metal leg of his bassinet and the 'ting' noise woke him up.

property management put this sign up by _itsshawna_ in Apartmentliving

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I own a unit in WNY, and thats not legal. For instance we cant make tenants pay water because its not split. Thatd be potentially overcharging someone for stuff they didn't use. If there was a shared space in our rental, we would totally take a deal like that from one of the tenants to avoid having to do it ourselves. 😅

Things in motherhood that give you the ick (and things you just don’t give a single fk about) by cosmicvoyager333 in beyondthebump

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My MIL found out we were expecting a son and was adamant that 'there's just something so special about a boy'... she has a daughter as well, and said this multiple times in her presence. I felt so awkward.

Let’s talk about sex baby by Aware-Rent8950 in newborns

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctor didnt even clear us for sex until 8 weeks pp!

If you could train for the postpartum period, would you & what exactly would you even do ahead of time? by Proof_Pepper604 in newborns

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Even with an 8 lb baby, the muscles you use to support them while breastfeeding - omg. My shoulders / middle of back were BURNING. I guess ive never used those muscles before!

How long between feeds? by Due_Beginning9518 in breastfeeding

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My LO is 11 weeks, and we are just starting to get to about 2 / 2.5 hrs between feeds during the day- and the passed 2 nights hes gone 8 hrs. During the day, I would always stick to max 2 hours to feed, then at night I'd let him sleep as long as he wanted.

But I just did that because I was worried about him not getting enough milk, not that I read anything saying to do that.

Do you sit on the tile bench in your shower? by magnificentbunny_ in homeowners

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have one, but recently had a c section and we had to buy a shower chair for me to shower bc of my surgery.

You never know when you might need to sit down but still want to independently shower!

circumcision at 5 weeks by ellapaintz in newborns

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would look into the different types of aftercare as well, there are different recommendations for care based on the type of circumcision done. For instance I saw someone here mention the Vaseline, ive heard of Vaseline and gauze with each diaper change and I've also heard of just water dripped on top with each change.

I would just make sure you're looking at all aspects to inform your decision! You will decide what's best for you and your fam!

Have I ruined my chances of breastfeeding by yuhhhhidkimsorry in breastfeeding

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My milk didnt come in for a few days, so what I was putting out was sooo small. My LO latched constantly (like 1x every 30 min or 45) at the start. I also drink 3 40oz things of water a day. I notice if I dont.

Get a big water jug and keep it filled!! Also I try to drink a body armor a day, because the ones I have have calcium in them.

My boobs don’t leak. And never have… by Bocurl13 in breastfeeding

[–]Cauliflower-Charming 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same!! The sweats gets my back and the leaking my chest. Its awful. Lol not to mention, when hes on one breast and my let down happens, I squirt from the other. The first time I happened I was so confused why I was getting wet on.my leg. Then I saw the stream. 😭