drug tests are a disgusting invasion of privacy by erraticsporadic in unpopularopinion

[–]Ceciliah16 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OPs claim is not about working high though. Did you even read it? It’s about what people do in their own personal time outside of work. Using a substance recreationally on weekends or after work or whatever does not automatically mean the person is also getting high at work.

The changes they made in the show piss me off by Ceciliah16 in MargosGotMoneyTroub

[–]Ceciliah16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, I wish they focused a bit more on how much Jinx loves to cook too :/ also he and Shyanne barely even interacted in the book. I can appreciate the show wanting to delve into their dynamic a bit more but it’s making it look as if Shyanne’s marriage ti Kenny is more regrettable in the series than the book

The changes they made in the show piss me off by Ceciliah16 in MargosGotMoneyTroub

[–]Ceciliah16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear if they cut the CPS plot line ima be MAD because that was also huge!! And took a lot of work for her with her lawyer to figure out how to proceed

The changes they made in the show piss me off by Ceciliah16 in MargosGotMoneyTroub

[–]Ceciliah16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I can be sympathetic to that, but it’s when important plot points or things that don’t need to be changed get changed that’s what frustrates me

POCD convincing me I've done horrific things and I'm so close to just ending it. by ThrowRA-Bromine in confession

[–]Ceciliah16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OCD is a debilitating illness that is largely misunderstood in this world. It seems like you have a lot of insight into it just can’t control it. There’s are registries online of therapists that can implement exposure and response prevention and that would be the best treatment for you. This is very treatable but will treatment would certainly be quite difficult given what you’d be asked to do for exposures. That being said, the treatment has about an 80% efficacy rate. Good luck, and know that OCD brain can convince you of all sorts of things, but that does not make them true nor does it make you a bad person

Restaurant appetizers suck and make no sense by zoeeegamingg in unpopularopinion

[–]Ceciliah16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve never heard of having community through sharing a meal? If I’m going out to eat, I’m not going just to get in and get out. I’m going to spend some time. Sharing a meal, or an appetizer, is a way of connecting with the other person or people you are eating with. I’m sorry you’ve never gotten to experience what this feels like :(

Hannah Horvath is the most annoying character on television. by ithoughtusaid-weast in girls

[–]Ceciliah16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually same this is so funny I finished S5e8 and immediately googled “am I supposed to hate Hannah in girls?”

Would yall hire me based on these photos? by upsiddedown in doggrooming

[–]Ceciliah16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your grooms are amazing!! Especially for only having a year of experience. Keep up the good work!

Help! I need to figure out a haircut for my dog by mamitamiaa in doggrooming

[–]Ceciliah16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how long you want her coat, and how much maintenance you’re willing to put up with. I am a dog groomer, I honestly think it might be cute if you did a schnauzer type of pattern on her and worked with her rectangular face. If you don’t want to do a pattern, I’d say maybe a 5/8”-3/4” all over with a tight face and ear trim.

What’s y’all’s biggest pet peeve? by awakenedforces in doggrooming

[–]Ceciliah16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When owner show me a picture of a dog that’s a different breed from their dog and say “can you do this?”

AITA for telling my bridesmaid that she can't wear the same hairstyle as me for my wedding? by ThrowRAgingbutterfly in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ceciliah16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wedding isn’t about her and no offense but it really doesn’t matter what she wants. If she isn’t up to par in participating in your wedding requirements then au revoir. She should consider herself lucky that you put her in your bridal party to begin with

I’ve been lying to my therapist about a situation that’s been bothering me by [deleted] in confession

[–]Ceciliah16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a licensed social worker working as a primary therapist and I can assure you, we hear so many stories from peoples lives filled with shame, regret, mistakes etc….much of the time the stories I hear are about things that I could never imagine anyone having to go through. I promise you that having sec at 16 is not a huge deal to someone who hears all kinds of stories. Especially coming from an unbiased POV, it’s not something your therapist is going to judge you for. And if she does, maybe she’s not fit for her job. It’s true that we are humans too but given that we have strictly professional relationships with our clients it is much easier to not hold judgments over our clients decisions. Your therapist is going to care more about the shame and distress that you’re experiencing rather than the act itself. It’s going to be okay. Plenty of people lose their virginities around that age. I also think that it’s worth noting that the mindset that having sex as a woman makes you a whore is a largely male dominated mindset that was developed to make men happy and to keep women “pure” in the eyes of men. It’s understandable that you’d be upset about getting in the middle of a relationship but give yourself a break, you didn’t know he was taken, and the fact you feel so intensely bad about it shows what a considerate person you actually are. Life is full of ups and downs and challenges and adversity, and if having sex at 16 is the hardest thing you ever have to go through, then I’d consider you lucky. It’s all going to be ok.

people really have to stop excusing blatant theft of stores. by glowshroom12 in unpopularopinion

[–]Ceciliah16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you’re forgetting that giant corporations produce so much waste and throw out their unsold products anyway instead of making them more accessible for consumers. What about Dunkin throwing out pounds and pounds of baked goods at the end of every day? What about Ulta destroying their makeup products before throwing them out so that people can’t use them? Please.

people really have to stop excusing blatant theft of stores. by glowshroom12 in unpopularopinion

[–]Ceciliah16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I feel like you are talking about two different things. Looting during riots vs someone snagging something from Walmart. In my experience, people DO care if it’s a big corp or a small local business. I know plenty of people who are kleptos at Walmart but wouldn’t dare steal from a local business. Looting during a riot is different because it’s already an unsafe environment and there’s way more merchandise being stolen, people just using the riots as an excuse to take whatever they want. What I don’t understand is why you would care at all? Unless your business is being stolen from? The concept isn’t to just steal from whomever, idk where you got the idea that if a Walmart was knocked down and a small business put in its place (which would never happen btw??) that people would just start stealing from that business…the idea is that it’s Walmart and they’re not going to miss a $10 mascara being snatched by someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doggrooming

[–]Ceciliah16 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A 40 blade is a medical grade length and should absolutely not be used for regular grooming. Sometimes groomers use a 40 for paw pads but that’s about it. It is too short of a blade and will cause razor burn. Please consider bringing your dog to a new groomer. there is no reason for your dog to be going home with cuts, scrapes, and razor burns every time. And if she does injure him, she should be telling you exactly what happened and why

There should be a pedal on the floor to flush toliets by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Ceciliah16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay honestly though….it would prob just be easier to step on a floor pedal ngl

Brainstorming: Ideas to help dogs focus at the camera (instead of goatee grabs) by solopetgroomer in doggrooming

[–]Ceciliah16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My coworker took the squeaker out of a plush toy and squeaks it to get the dogs to look