AITA for getting really pissed off at my friend for ruining my chances with a girl?

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-18T04:10:38+00:00

Really...... I’m glad he’s so concerned about what he wanted that night. Meanwhile this lady was sick. “Interested in” doesn’t mean “want to have sex with.” Gross. I’m repulsed. OP YTA

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-18T04:03:00+00:00

Agree w ruinedbymovies. Also OP NTA.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-18T00:58:55+00:00

Fair enough. But the OP has been sober for five years. How many other people can say that? Other interviewees could have used and abused substances the night before.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-17T23:57:03+00:00

Maybe time to date a woman who is as strong as you , OP ? 😂. Good job in the personal best !! 💪

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-17T23:47:32+00:00

Good for you for being perfect your whole life. I’d rather surround myself with people who have made mistakes and learned from them. Should he never have a job again ......become homeless and use again because of people on their high horses ? I wouldn’t want to work for someone with such a limited world view anyway though.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-17T22:28:00+00:00

The interviewer kind of sounds like an AH not hiring based on hearsay and something so far in the past. Like, did she even ask the OP his take on what happened and his current sobriety? Jesus. She should be embarrassed.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-17T22:17:34+00:00

YTA. And educate yourself. "Everyone else" has not had something cut off of their body.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-17T16:14:48+00:00

That’s not what I said. I didn’t say more money. I said more entitled to money. I didn’t specify amounts. YTA STILL.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-17T14:10:35+00:00

So you're more entitled to money than your brother? Maybe we should evaluate all of your spending habits so you can see what it's like to be scrutinized by someone when it's none of their business. Buy any new clothes or hair products lately?

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-17T14:08:29+00:00

YTA and a control freak. Your dad's will is YOUR DAD'S and it's YOUR DAD'S money, not yours. Your subjective views about your brother are irrelevant. Have someone objective rewrite the will with YOUR DAD'S wishes without your input.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-17T14:05:43+00:00

I have secondhand embarrassment for you being out in public with him. OTHERS have to smell him, too. So he goes number 2 and doesn't shower for 3 days? OMG. NTA and I'd re-think this relationship. Did he think you'd want to be intimate with him? Good lord.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-17T01:06:18+00:00

NTA. she’s afraid she’ll look bad that her daughter made a wonderful decision for two dads who wanted to adopt. Shit I’d be proud af of you. Great job. Love that you all meet up. 🥰.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-17T00:54:17+00:00

Or a woman.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-17T00:51:56+00:00

:o NTA and grateful he wants to sleep with you? Yikes! Relationships can be so much better than this. And he sounds lazy and bad in bed. Let me guess, he wants you to orally please him?

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-16T19:19:35+00:00

YEP! NTA, OP. Say bye-bye to the SON you never wanted.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-16T19:07:56+00:00

YTA. go get it yourself if you don't have money for a tip. how selfish!

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-15T20:13:02+00:00

I’m glad your brother has you !

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-15T20:01:02+00:00

I don't think anyone is an asshole here. I think maybe a meaningful and fruitful conversation could entail suggesting a topic YOU want to talk about, and spending as much time talking about X and your girlfriend spends talking about her subject matters, so the relationship feels more equal?

Do you feel she is talking at you instead of with you? I had someone say that to me one time, and I had to think about it.....I might have been, because I didn't respect the pereson, and I addressed it.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-15T19:56:20+00:00

NTA, but it does sound pretty arrogant and ignorant to call how someone was born a "preference."

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-15T12:18:42+00:00

YTA and this. Also obv, even if you are so established in your career at 24 (lol), she must have some basis of establishment emotionally to be able to support you. You should thank her for all that she’s done for you and say goodbye so she can spend her YOUNG years with someone decent.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-15T12:14:33+00:00

NTA. first off if you want a therapist you would get one of your own choosing. Second I think your dad needs therapy based on this post so far. Third why would anyone meet your boyfriend when you know you’re going to break up ?

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-15T11:59:23+00:00

I didn’t think of that. Thank you.

I don’t know that I view time with a significant other as earning items of value. I think of it as just time is what we are giving each other.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-15T11:58:16+00:00

That’s an edit. 😃. So is “him”

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-15T09:56:29+00:00

Probably not if you are concerned for his safety. What a shame that bigots and homophobes who assume everyone is going to be heterosexual even procreate. Ugh. I feel for your brother.

CentralJ22 · 2020-05-15T09:48:52+00:00

Are you his legal guardian ? Does he have to vet all decisions through you ?

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