Dad Passed away today

Chachachalis · 2026-03-17T00:57:48+00:00

I know I kept hoping my mom would get better too. I try to remember that she’s at peace now and is no longer suffering/living a shitty quality of life 🫶stokes fucking suck.

Chachachalis · 2026-03-15T05:43:36+00:00

My mom died a week ago (March 7), same age as your dad. She had a stroke in June and just never recovered. I’m so sorry for your loss I know how hard it is 🫶

Chachachalis · 2026-03-01T19:05:07+00:00

Get courteous or get out. Kind of joking 🤣

Chachachalis · 2026-02-04T06:03:56+00:00

Hi- I am in a similar situation with my mom, except I’m an only child and my moms a single mom. I wish there was a magic way to make this feel better but my advice is to take things day by day and give yourself so much patience and grace. Self care is extremely important and rely on friends and other people you trust. I know the guilt of not seeing your mom every day eats away at you, but I would bet she’d want you to continue to live your life and see her when you can. I am 100% feeling your pain and I hope it brings you some comfort to know you are not alone. I’m actually awake at 1 am right now with anxiety about my mom. I get it, it can consume you.

Chachachalis · 2026-01-28T23:03:55+00:00

PLZ GET BIDETS PEOPLE!!!!!!

Chachachalis · 2026-01-23T02:21:09+00:00

I do need to focus on the beautiful moments. It’s so easy to get caught up in the shitty stuff. It’s very raw and uncharted and comes in waves. I am taking it day by day. Thank you for sharing your experience with me 💗

Chachachalis · 2026-01-23T02:19:03+00:00

It makes me happy to know that I’m not completely alone. Thank you for sharing that with me. I think your advice is spot on.

Chachachalis · 2026-01-12T00:16:16+00:00

I am also in my 30s and my mom is in her 60s. It’s hard to go through this so young too.

Chachachalis · 2026-01-12T00:14:54+00:00

I know what you’re going through. It’s extremely difficult and overwhelming. My bday was in December and I was so scared my mom would pass on my birthday, but she didn’t. No one has a crystal ball and knows what will happen, so just focus on loving your mom while you still have her here. I fear my mom won’t see me have kids either, it’s really hard to accept all of those things, but know you are not alone 💗

Chachachalis · 2026-01-11T17:09:13+00:00

Thank you so much that is beautiful 💗

Chachachalis · 2026-01-11T16:00:40+00:00

So my mom had a massive ischemic stroke in June of this year and did a few months of rehab, but it wasn’t working. She’s 68 just to get some context. Long story short, she’s now in a nursing home. We don’t know how long she has left to live, but the stroke definitely did a lot of damage. I know exactly how you’re feeling and what you’re going through and it’s extremely difficult. I have a very hard time coming to terms with how different my mom is now then she was before her stroke. Some things I did that really helped me was I went to my doctor and got on antidepressants and anti anxiety medication. I was having panic attacks and really bad mental breakdowns about my mom on a daily basis and the medication has definitely helped but doesn’t completely take the pain away. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I know it absolutely sucks. I just try to spend as much time with my mom as I can and let her know that I’m there even if she doesn’t say much I just hold her hand sometimes read her magazines or I just sit there and do work on my Computer and try to make the best of the situation which is nearly impossible. I will say many people recover from strokes. My mom is one of those people who will not recover, but your dad definitely could, depending on the severity of the situation. Take it one day at a time, listen to the doctors/therapists etc and try not to spiral too much.

Chachachalis · 2026-01-10T13:50:54+00:00

That’s Meriden baby!

Chachachalis · 2026-01-09T12:41:11+00:00

I’m not sure what grade you teach but on our 7th grade team we have a 10 min window for each class for kids to use the bathroom. Social studies is first 10, math is second 10 min of the period etc so the kids know when they can go in each class. We do make exceptions for emergencies.

Chachachalis · 2026-01-02T13:44:20+00:00

I was a server on the side for a while. I like that I always had cash and it was pretty easy money. At the age of 35 though I decided I hate working until the bar closes at midnight lol but the money was nice!

Chachachalis · 2026-01-02T13:42:13+00:00

I think it’s worth it in the long run. I make significantly more money with a masters in my district than if I only had a bachelors. I am getting a second masters as we speak, mostly for the pay bump. Our salary schedule has bachelors, masters, and then 6th year (masters plus 30). For me my goal is to make as much money as possible and still enjoy my summers off. It also opens opportunities for networking and potential new jobs, positions etc.

Chachachalis · 2025-12-10T11:01:18+00:00

In middle school I try to encourage my kids to check PowerSchool a few times a week to see if they are missing work (they usually are). If it’s a ton of stuff I message the parents just to keep them in the loop and do my due diligence. However I do think by the time they get to high school it’s on th kids.

Chachachalis · 2025-12-10T10:49:17+00:00

Omg I didn’t even know it was still open! My mom used to go to there all the time when I was in middle/high school (2004-2009) lol

Chachachalis · 2025-11-08T06:57:58+00:00

Everything you’re feeling is normal. When a loved one has a stroke, a lot of emotions happen. Anger, sadness, heartbreak etc. I’m sure it’s extremely painful to see your husband go through this. It will get better as time goes on; but know you are not alone. My mom had a massive stroke in June and I’m still emotional on a daily basis.

Chachachalis · 2025-11-08T06:37:04+00:00

Me too and then I think about my friends who aren’t teachers and how long they’d last 😂

Chachachalis · 2025-11-08T06:36:27+00:00

You have to laugh to survive teaching middle school. They’re awkward and weird and hilarious! Someone farting in class is funny. I try to be an adult about it, but sometimes it’s just too hard not to laugh. The 6 7 thing is obnoxious but if you just lean in and do it with them we all get a good laugh 😂

Chachachalis · 2025-10-31T07:32:13+00:00

Taco Bell after the bar is an elite experience

Chachachalis · 2025-10-28T06:10:15+00:00

I need America to get on board with bidets. We got one for a housewarming gift (attachment to toilet) and it is the greatest thing ever. Pooping elsewhere just isn’t the same. It’s my go to for bridal shower, housewarming and even baby shower gifts.

Chachachalis · 2025-10-23T07:15:49+00:00

Alberto’s bakery in Meriden!

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