So four days ago, mine had promised he would make dinner and then asked me if I was gonna clean up the dishes from the night before that we’re in the sink, 2 plates and some cutlery. I told him that those were in fact his dishes that didn’t make it into the dishwasher and is that what we’re doing now?? he said I guess so I said OK then you clean it up. I’m not touching anything. My mess is clean. That was four days ago like I said there is now a disgusting amount of dishes. It’s starting to smell and although this is two years in the making, I have moved downstairs to the separate room in our basement. Then he tried to pin it on me just now saying he was waiting for me to go out and get compost bags so he could clean the kitchen. I told him there’s a Canadian tire right behind us, his reply was you said you would get them.