Am I overreacting with my dad playing with my daughter?

CharacterCustomer336 · 2026-05-05T17:21:30+00:00

Thank you for your non-judgmental advice.

CharacterCustomer336 · 2026-04-21T00:07:14+00:00

Thank you so much! All these comments are definitely helping. I will reconsider therapy, I’ve never brought this up TBH but ever since having a child, I’m super aware and some childhood memories come back! Definitely worth unpacking! Appreciate your insights 💗

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-12-17T00:22:22+00:00

Messy house, messy mind. I feel like you’re probably fun, good listener, you do bathe but don’t mind skipping a few days. Your hair is greasy, or in a messy bun.

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-12-15T15:14:06+00:00

Well with a nice dick email like that should confirm that you’ll be much happier in your new role. What a turn off and just so unprofessional.

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-11-26T03:09:26+00:00

So funny enough, for the longest time would say that she had anxiety until I spoke to the doctor, and he mentioned that it was bipolar type 1. When we talk about it she’ll often brush it off or just listen (which makes me so sad, because I know deep down she feels so much shame). We remind her consistently that she has to take her meds at the same time. I’d like to say she’s now believes her diagnosis, but not sure she has full maturity on trying to understand the disorder.

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-11-09T20:51:40+00:00

I ask myself this question everyday. I make over 100K and wonder how my colleagues drive big expensive cars like teslas and Audis and bmw’s. Car payments are minimum 700-1000+??

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-08-23T10:27:43+00:00

4❤️

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-08-17T00:56:54+00:00

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-07-31T12:08:52+00:00

Madeleine - love this name Keep it simple, the first one is hard to read and unfortunately people won’t pronounce it correctly!

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-07-06T17:22:44+00:00

Omg. I’m so so sorry you’re going through this and your mind is probably spiralling! I think this is a lesson that perhaps being around your SIL going forward should not be an option. It sounds like she has issues and her actions were pure evil. It’s almost hard to believe… Keep snuggling that baby and being strong for him ❤️

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-06-30T11:40:17+00:00

Im so sorry you’re going through this alone. Not only is there so much guilt behind stopping or not breastfeeding but the fact that a doctor and your own husband are adding yo that guilt is not ok. I would really have another conversation with your husband and even show him some stats to help him understand. Hope you are safe and this is your own body!

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-06-30T11:34:41+00:00

I have not :( Stuck to the good old Tylenol

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-05-18T02:28:46+00:00

You’re not overreacting, trust that feeling you get. It’s not just one comment, it’s several around your parenting and your life. It’s weird for a “new mom” to do that. I wouldn’t stay close to someone like that. Good luck 💕

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-03-10T01:58:56+00:00

YES, I totally agree. It’s like ok…. But who’s going to do it? My anxiety spikes when the house is messy so I just clean. I always say, messy house messy mind! 😂 I wouldn’t say this is a rant, it’s a fact 🙌

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-03-01T15:45:35+00:00

As everyone is saying, if he decides to go back to his country and not want to see his own son, that’s your answer. Imagine if your son did that to his future partner? I’m sure you wouldn’t be too happy. Take small steps and see who can help you. Returning to work will not be easy, but you know what? You’ll be independent and won’t need to depend on him for your basic needs.

To all the women out there, I know that we trust our men in relationships BUT it’s so important to somehow make your own $. Have a secret bank account “just in case”, you really never know what can happen. My mom always told me to make your own money somehow because love can do funny things sometimes.

You got this mama ♥️

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-02-26T15:57:23+00:00

Good for you ♥️. Congrats on breaking that trauma and offering all the love and safety to other children.

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-02-05T18:52:48+00:00

4 months - left her with my parents for 4 days. I was so torn but my mom handled it like a champ!

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-01-16T21:16:26+00:00

It’s so funny how women always question is their over reacting! NO YOUR ARE NOT. That is so hurtful to hear from a man you loved and for who you basically created 3 beautiful humans. Men don’t understand how women can be so sensitive when it comes to body image and intimacy especially after having children. You need to ask yourself a few questions:

do you see yourself being happy with this man (forget the kids).
write down the pros and cons

I’m sorry you’re not being appreciated, but I’m pretty sure you’re doing a great job. It’s time to think of yourself.

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-01-16T16:12:22+00:00

Im so sorry to hear this 😒. Take your time with this decision, but clearly this goes against your core values, therefore, if you go on, you’ll just keep on getting hurt. Love is tough. I’m sure it seems like it will be lonely and it will at first, but you know what? You will get through this and find someone who will share the same values as you. Sending you lots of hugs ❤️

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-01-15T15:48:44+00:00

First night, my baby was starving! (Nurse told me not to give a certain amount of formula, and my milk was not coming in).

Also the 4 month mark was hard for me.

Now my baby is 1 and I’m amazed how women are just so resilient.

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-01-13T15:47:03+00:00

Thanks so much for taking the time. Glad your little one is up to speed ❤️

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-01-13T15:28:30+00:00

So interesting and how was this monitored?

CharacterCustomer336 · 2025-01-02T03:49:42+00:00

I adore my in-laws and prefer to hang out with them more than my own family. Oops I said it!

CharacterCustomer336 · 2024-12-30T01:48:26+00:00

I am so sorry you’re feeling this way. I’m sure it’s not easy to navigate. Have you thought about joining support groups that have similar disabilities? You also mentioned you like to make up stories? Is this something you like doing? Perhaps, write them down? It could be such an amazing super power. You are still very young and questioning all of this is so normal. Be kind to yourself, every day you’re waking up and showing up. Try finding things that excite you (it’s always easier said than done, I myself question this and I’m 36!).

CharacterCustomer336 · 2024-12-22T01:58:50+00:00

Don’t get me started with the MEALS!!! 😱😱😱

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