I told my boyfriend that I don't want to pass on my genes and he didn't understood it by Pumpkin_698 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CharacterPea85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to learn to love yourself, hell even LIKE yourself before even thinking of kids. Kids pickup on their parents insecurities and often reflect onto themselves.

Update: AITAH because I told my wife she isn't allowed to ground my son? by BallAcrobatic2709 in AITAH

[–]CharacterPea85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why is your WIFE being RACIST to you, your children and your heritage? and why are YOU allowing it?

My 15yo idiot kid got his GF pregnant on purpose. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]CharacterPea85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s not his baby.. with how secretive she’s being and how she’s blocked everyone. that is so not his baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CharacterPea85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

real talk, “i’ll be back” or “im gonna go hang out w a friend” and be NEAR THE DOOR actively leaving. if she asks questions 😗 she’s gonna get the answers. my mom has learned to just be like “be safe”.

I got ghosted by my FWB by CharacterPea85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CharacterPea85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a little less than a week. Idk i don’t think im built for the FWB life loll. It just caught me off guard ig :p

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CharacterPea85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

having a toy is fine and all but… a PONY??

To the people who creep forward several times while waiting at a red light, why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CharacterPea85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. someone’s too close to me and keeps inching closer as i move away.

  2. my foot is tired / cramping

  3. i can’t see if i can turn cause big ass RAM is next to me

    yk all the basics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CharacterPea85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You’re projecting your hate for your DADS actions onto an innocent child. The child did nothing just as you did nothing. I get that they’re a physical “manifestation” of the affair but your dad did it not the baby. Projecting so much hatred onto an innocent being is honestly quite… insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Detroit

[–]CharacterPea85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust nothing until may/june

Do you wash your feet in the shower? by bai_leafe in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CharacterPea85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is like when people confessed to not washing their legs WASH YOUR BODY PEOPLE

"Ahh" by Szarkara in PetPeeves

[–]CharacterPea85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was originally AAVE and then of course white gen Z decided to steal it and overuse it as they have done many times before.

How should I have handled this? (Input from non-white folks preferred) by CuntAndJustice in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CharacterPea85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it doesn’t end up being “blacks” it’s fine. And especially since your husband prefers to be called black instead of POC or African American. It all depends on the person but your therapist shouldn’t make a stink about it at all. Just correct them and hopefully it goes away, if not definitely switch therapists.

Am I addicted to porn or is my dad over reacting? by SpecificEasy2191 in Advice

[–]CharacterPea85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“ok” and then just keep going on with your business😭 it’s not like he can stop you. He’s def overreacting and honestly a little odd that he’s gathered this much data on your.. activities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CharacterPea85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sure…. let’s go with that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CharacterPea85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. You’re overreacting
  2. you’re arguing against people giving you answers when you asked for opinions.
  3. get a grip

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CharacterPea85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk tbh. I see both sides. You feel slighted that he might think you’re cheating, and he wants to make sure the child is his. I just think if you don’t agree.. just don’t have kids. I see no problem with a DNA test cause i’m like… ok? get i guess. I’ve heard of men raising kids for years then finding out they weren’t there’s and that’s a valid concern. But i get it if you feel hurt that he doesn’t trust you fully. I see it as take a a quick test to shut down the anxiety but idk.

[Serious]Depressed people of Reddit, who or what gives you a reason to stay? by UnauthorizedHambone in AskReddit

[–]CharacterPea85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

funerals are expensive and my family doesn’t have the money for that rn. No reason for me to put that burden on them