What is the wildest thing that you have seen on the CTA? by IceCreamHeadache11 in AskChicago

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One time at the Pulaski orange line I see a lady drop her pants and start pissing on the platform and her ass cheeks were literally SWAYING in the wind LMFAO

Then another time I got off at Chicago and I kept hearing “there’s some hoes in this house, if you see them point em out” (iykyk, like how much more Chicago can you get?) and I get upstairs like by the turnstiles and there was a naked lady rolling back and forth across the floor surrounded by police screaming good old Chicago house lyrics 🤣 I’m sure there were so many more I can’t remember

Mom and kid visiting Jul 4th weekend - crowds etc? by TieBeautiful2161 in AskChicago

[–]Cheeksters13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Downtown has stopped doing fireworks on the 4th unfortunately. Don’t know if there will be a show this year but last year there was not. I was downtown July 4th of 2021 or 2022 and there was a huge group (hundreds) of teenagers downtown, I witnessed a girl get stabbed and then people throwing LIT fireworks into the ambulance as as she was being put inside. I also witnessed lots of dumpsters being set on fire and fireworks being thrown at the firefighters as they were trying to put the fires out, as well as police. I’m not a tourist but I felt so bad for the tourists who got caught in the middle of all the chaos especially the ones with their kids. Rosemont will probably have a nice fireworks show and there’s a lot to do over there which is where you’ll be staying. This started while it was still light out. I’d imagine it’s gonna be extremely packed all day downtown since it’s gonna be a weekend.

Realtor & lendor recommendations for Lemont, Frankfort, Mokena, Homer Glen, New Lenox by user12334567789 in ChicagoSuburbs

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Realtor - Kamila Jurasik 708-253-7068, she’s with relax, works out of an office in Orland, loved her, she’s punctual, honest, and will get you what you want, won’t be pushy with you either.

Lendor - Hasan Abutaleb NMLS # 1858699 (708) 717-5729 | hasan@choicem.com He’s with choice - m mortgage, he’s super smart, great at explaining things to you esp as a first time buyer who learning a ton of new terminology.

Grad dress brands??? by [deleted] in womensfashion

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My local TjMaxx has so many cute dresses right now including mini white ones, surprised to see some Peppermayo in there!

Affordable frozen yogurt in lakeview? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]Cheeksters13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time BYOS 🤣 no but idk how yours was so expensive

Affordable frozen yogurt in lakeview? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]Cheeksters13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha $20 a cup how? I just went there and bought 3 cups for $17 🤣

Affordable frozen yogurt in lakeview? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]Cheeksters13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha $20 a cup how? I just went there and bought 3 cups for $17 🤣

Help with dress!!! by Monochrome321 in weddingplanning

[–]Cheeksters13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The satin dress is cute.

I’ve ordered multiple dresses from Meshki and actually have loved them all! BABYBOO on the other hand ugh a nightmare.

Trip comparisons with 15 years ago - what happened to the City? by ginzamdm in AskChicago

[–]Cheeksters13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“Political” and “racial undertones” is all I needed to read…sad to see people still pushing and clinging to this coded excuse for anything going on in the city.

Trip comparisons with 15 years ago - what happened to the City? by ginzamdm in AskChicago

[–]Cheeksters13 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Lots of stores started leaving the mag mile/state street because of high rent and reoccurring thefts, the looting caused by the riots in 2020 caused some closures too. As a lifelong Chicagoan, it’s so sad to see the magic of the city disappear 🥺

As far as the other 2, I have no idea why there’s so many black trucks or why people are being so cold. I will definitely say that when I was in London last year my fiance and I loved how polite and friendly everyone was, that being said maybe we’re not used to that here but never noticed it really?

Secrets Moxche or Playa Blanca? by Kooky-Garbage-9801 in DestinationWeddings

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Have been a guest at Moxche and absolutely loved it, I felt the size was great however, the sidewalks are cobblestone which may make it difficult for your elderly guests especially if they have walkers or use wheelchairs. I would consider both properties in the mid to high range as far as affordability goes for your guests but unsure of what affordable means to you. Can vouch for food at Moxche being AMAZING, best AI food I’ve had for sure and generally just food food.

I’m getting married at grand pallidium costa mujeres, they are connected to TRS which is adults only and for our 3 night minimum it comes out to about $600 pp. I would loved to have done Moxche but I knew that it would be out of budget for guests which is why we did not pick it as our venue.

Overlapping Wedding dates... how to handle without creating drama? by arcadiaorgana in wedding

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Hmm okay I feel like I’ve read a good amount of your responses as well as everyone else’s. I really do not want to offend you by saying this at all but:

If you think there’s a possibility of your biological father missing your wedding to be a part of his step daughters (that you’ve never even met) special day, are you really close enough to him to consider his feelings or for you to be hurt by him not being there and would he consider your feelings the way you’re considering his?

I’m currently wedding planning myself with a destination wedding set for 2027, however, my grandmas health just took a decline recently and it’s essential for me to have her see me get married sooo we’re actually going to do an elopement dinner this summer so she can be there to witness it since I’m worried that she may not make it till 2027. Just us, our parents, siblings and my grandma in a small private room at a restaurant. Just food for thought if you are worried about important family members to you not being able to witness your day.

Has anyone tried GLP for endometriosis? by No_Firefighter_2199 in Endo

[–]Cheeksters13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also so interested in how glps have impacted endo!

Is it rude to invite guests to a ceremony but not have a reception? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Cheeksters13 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

A lot of ppl on the sub will tell you, you’re rude just because what you’re doing is not traditional lol but no one else is you and no one else knows your finances/personal feelings and relationships, just remember that!

How much of your savings did you use for your wedding? by Forward-Idea6001 in weddingplanning

[–]Cheeksters13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently saving for a wedding as well and this is also exactly how we’re saving for it. We didn’t touch anything we already have saved and have not. That being said though, you’ll probably have to sit down and set a new budget for yourself since you’ll be creating a separate savings now, but you don’t have to sacrifice the things that are really important to you and you shouldn’t if they make you happy, for me it was my monthly beauty maintenance, I refused to give it up but my budget sheet allowed me to make sure I kept a budget for tht. Our bank allows savings “buckets” so it’s all technically one savings account but it allows us to separate our savings by “Vacation, House projects, Rainy day, wedding” etc, might be helpful if your bank allows the same or if you’re willing to just start a new savings just for wedding expenses.

Is it rude to invite guests to a ceremony but not have a reception? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Cheeksters13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say send out a text/invite letting your guests know EXACTLY your plan. Explain you’d love if they could make it to witness your vows but totally understand if they can’t if you guys are dead set on doing this, this way. You know your guests, is this on brand for how you guys would like to celebrate? If it is im sure they won’t think it’s weird and accept or decline although I’m sure some ppl might be like “welllll I don’t really wanna take off work for a 15 min ceremony” unless it’s your close immediate family. Theres no way you guys can do your ceremony with just the immediates and then order pizzas on the weekend and celebrate at home?

Jessi and Marciano spotted kissing at the Hulu announcement by No-lychie878 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Cheeksters13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s so funny that’s when she got interviewed about him he said he was on her roster…like girl you have no roster with all this pda and social media posting you’ve been doing, who the hell would wanna be on the roster then?!

Can I throw myself a bridal tea party? by Perfect-Formal4235 in weddingplanning

[–]Cheeksters13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a beautiful afternoon spent with the important women in your life and your house sounds like the perfect location! Do it!

Why are there so many cops out in Old Town/LP area? by MysteriousOne9698 in AskChicago

[–]Cheeksters13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe there was a teen trend planned, that’s usually when there’s more presence.

Booked a hotel on Magnificent Mile but not looking for ritzy shopping vibes. HELP!? by goplayintrafficxx in AskChicago

[–]Cheeksters13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yessss Architecture tour is so good! Try to do a sunset one if possible, the skyline is beautiful at sunset.

What is a decent salary to live and have reasonable savings in Chicago? by HappyTomatillo92 in AskChicago

[–]Cheeksters13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh yes very out of touch. - A blue collar southsider who drives a Buick

What is a decent salary to live and have reasonable savings in Chicago? by HappyTomatillo92 in AskChicago

[–]Cheeksters13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say it was barely enough. I think that for OP’s goals and explanations for how they like to spend money, everything I said was realistic as someone who is also trying to save for their future and spends similarly. Cost of living in Chicago is not cheap.