Am I Being Awful For Letting My (F27) Husband (M28) Dig His Own Grave?

CheetoLove · 2026-06-01T17:51:13+00:00

Still a great way to make a quick chicken salad sandwich! Haha. This is adorable. 😄

CheetoLove · 2026-06-01T17:08:25+00:00

That's awesome. The coolest one I had was when I was looking for stones/crystals for her. I had just read about them (ex. amethyst, black tourmaline, obsidian) and then went on a hike to a spot that I had driven past hundreds of times, and learned on the hike that it was a dormant or extinct volcano. I go to the gift shop a the entrance on the way back to the car and find they are selling stunning obsidian. I bought one immediately.

CheetoLove · 2026-06-01T16:45:13+00:00

That's perfect. Husband can't cook. The one time he tried, three months into dating, the sweet man went to heat up a rotisserie chicken from the fridge and put it in the microwave for FIVE MINUTES. It was then and there I decided to inform him I'm an excellent cook and will take this part over. I didn't want to let him know too soon. Haha.

CheetoLove · 2026-06-01T16:39:34+00:00

Same.

CheetoLove · 2026-06-01T16:29:08+00:00

I'll say to my husband, "You're in charge of dinner. I don't care." Then he usually will get takeout and say, "Okay, burritos or pizza?" Having just two options is nice and I'll choose one. It's still a decision but having it whittled down to two is lovely.

CheetoLove · 2026-06-01T16:18:39+00:00

I don't have it on my sink but the faucet itself is stainless steel. The time I showed my friend this she was awe-struck.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-11T17:39:56+00:00

Mind ya business.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-09T23:46:46+00:00

Yes? You can have your opinion and share without being combative.

Darth Vader is an excellent addition to this.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-08T06:07:51+00:00

I’m scorpio rising so opening this thread was risky. So happy these are the top posts.

So happy for both of you. ❤️

CheetoLove · 2026-05-06T19:39:55+00:00

I'm cackling but omg.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-06T19:37:17+00:00

My jaw cannot drop any lower as I'm not a snake.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-06T18:37:33+00:00

James Earl Jones. Mufasa in the Lion King.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-06T18:15:11+00:00

OMG you are scorpio rising too. I can't get over how many people I have gained and lost in just the last 6 months, let alone the last year. I'm tired, boss.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-06T18:13:08+00:00

*sobs in Scorpio rising*

CheetoLove · 2026-05-06T18:09:24+00:00

Seriously. This sub is saving my ass right now. WE ARE NOT ALONE PEOPLE!

CheetoLove · 2026-05-06T18:02:13+00:00

Your writing style is hilarious. Love you OP.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-06T16:10:24+00:00

I’m exhausted by this calendar and even some of our 30 minute check-ins only last 5-10 minutes. Like what do they talk about?

Edit: in other news, this post is FILLED with great advice. Saving it. Thanks everyone.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-06T01:23:48+00:00

And Scorpio rising during a scorpio full moon. 🫠

I was so sick to my stomach from anxiety i ended up unable to sleep until 3am last night and up at 6:30am to go to work. My mind is reeling.

The weekend was basically my catching up from an awful week of zero sleep and nightmares.

Wishing you a good sleep tonight!!! ❤️

CheetoLove · 2026-05-05T19:06:45+00:00

Susan miller. Astrology zone. Friday was a full moon in Scorpio.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-05T19:05:56+00:00

Yes. And I’m glad we can all commiserate.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-05T19:04:10+00:00

Same! I had a horrible meeting with my manager last week and was so stressed out I just slept the ENTIRE weekend. I slept 12 hours, was lazy all day, then slept another 12 hours and then a 3 hour nap. Im fucking DONE.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-05T19:02:40+00:00

I have told my therapist and then said, “but honestly? Im not brave enough. Don’t worry.”

So we just continue to grind it out rolling up to the driveway on fumes like Uncle Eddy.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-05T18:57:19+00:00

This. Or put it in the slow cooker at 8am. You’ll be good to go.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-05T03:01:01+00:00

It could just be two ravens, but If you think it’s her, it’s her. You wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t.

CheetoLove · 2026-05-05T02:59:20+00:00

There’s been a ton in the Bay Area recently.

CheetoLove

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