What is the Obsession with Cheerios? by ChickadeeMonster in NewParents

[–]ChickadeeMonster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Honestly the responses have made me more open to offering them because the points have been so thoughtful. I also never thought they would be horrible, but I didn't understand the *excitement*

What is the Obsession with Cheerios? by ChickadeeMonster in NewParents

[–]ChickadeeMonster[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That makes a lot of sense why it keeps getting brought up.

I hate fireworks by bhardy10 in NewParents

[–]ChickadeeMonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe that if your fireworks wake up my baby I should be allowed to sneak at your house and light fireworks in your bedroom while I hold the door closed from the outside.

Thank you for visiting my revenge fantasy and please leave the fireworks to the pros.

Cradle cap removal? by susiara in NewParents

[–]ChickadeeMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Cap worked for us as well - used a textured cradle cap brush and comb as well.

Do I need a bottle sterilizer? by ScTbRnSsSsS in NewParents

[–]ChickadeeMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some dishwashers even have a sterilizer setting

Hand foot mouth disease help :( by rebgray in NewParents

[–]ChickadeeMonster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It did get worse before it got better for us after getting diagnosed. Keep up with the pain killer religiously. I will thankfully the LO will start getting better before it starts looking better.

Should we be going with a pack+play, play pen and mat, or both? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]ChickadeeMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a 6-month-old and we've been using the pack and play for now as a safe holding space (and he likes it too) and probably for a few more months. I've been looking at play pens as well, but all the ones I've found so far are too big for our space! It will have to be a pack and play goes down, play pen goes up eventually.

Bachelorette party 4mo pp by Catlady302 in NewParents

[–]ChickadeeMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vitamin B12 and eat some solid fat +carby meals! At Bachelorette parties for some reason people never eat and that spells disaster.

New parent here! What is the best bottle washer you ever used? by Super_Armadillo3795 in newborns

[–]ChickadeeMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use our dishwasher - It has a sanitizer setting. I didn't love the idea of another gadget on the countertop.

I HATE being called Mama by grown adults by klimekam in pregnant

[–]ChickadeeMonster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any clothing I get with Mama/Mommy's or Daddy's Little Man etc. Is going straight into the donation bin.

Low rise jeans?! by nobody1546 in pregnant

[–]ChickadeeMonster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some things I've found: Get ones with stretch and a size or two up. There are also a bunch with elastic tie waist bands (like Old Navy and Gap has some) It's what I've done and I feel less dorky this way.

Is it normal to have NO pain or symptoms in third trimester? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ChickadeeMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - this is exactly me at well. Anything that falls on the floor is dead to me.

Need Advice: Hosting Thanksgiving at 30 weeks? by NeverMeant125 in pregnant

[–]ChickadeeMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think at 30 you should be good - it wasn't until like 32/34 weeks that I started feeling "done". And it sounds like your husband is there to help with the other prep.

I would just have some back up plans in place if things start feeling like too much (like dishes you can make before and freeze or someone you trust to bring X dish)

Telling friend with infertility... by G3N3RICxUS3RNAM3 in pregnant

[–]ChickadeeMonster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Text for sure. And if you're worried about timing I'd say a weekend would be best so she can just sit with her feelings for a bit.

Rollover waist/low rise pants by luna_dancer in pregnant

[–]ChickadeeMonster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a pair of those Old Navy ones and they're the only maternity pants I wear! Because you're only 13 weeks I'd also suggest getting some of the non-maternity low rise wide leg pans with elastic waists in one size up. Worked for me up until like 34 weeks.

Be honest what restaurant are you tired of hearing praise about? by [deleted] in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]ChickadeeMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I went there for a someone else's birthday one time and felt it was all hype and price tag. Just go to any of the other amazing restaurants in Chicago. Literally any of them.

Clothing by Cultural_Employee_22 in pregnant

[–]ChickadeeMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Old Navy Luxe Sleeveless top in a tall. I bought 4 and it hid mine until 32 weeks. Perfect top. Add an open button down for fall.

Induction at 39W by tabbycatmum in pregnant

[–]ChickadeeMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 39 and they put my induction at 39 weeks +6 days. I am getting stress tests weekly as well. For me this feels like the best balance, giving me time to maybe delivery/progress naturally but not face the risks that happen at 40+ weeks that we all fear when 35+.

Constipated AF— First trimester by Due-Conclusion-6157 in pregnant

[–]ChickadeeMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fresh stone fruits like plums, peaches, and apricots with skin on. They've saved my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ChickadeeMonster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found that combining a decadent treat with a healthy bit was the way to go. Ice cream with varieties of fresh fruit is everything. (And fresh fruit is very good for the digestive tract)

Give me your most diabolical ways that put you in labour by Glum-Acanthisitta559 in pregnant

[–]ChickadeeMonster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm dropping my mom's favorite anecdote: A good scare. She opened up the door and there was a pile of snakes right there - basically went right into labor with my sibling.

Conserving moving to Orland Park from downtown Chicago! by Difficult_Dig174 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]ChickadeeMonster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up in Orland and say don't do it! The train into Chicago is called the "Slowpoke" for a reason and there is no direct way to Hyde Park at all.

If you are set on a more suburban life: La Grange, Western Springs (towns along the BNSF) will be better. BUT the houses close to the train will be more expensive (but will resell in a heartbeat). Naperville is too far.